How Many Dates Before the First Sexual Encounter?

Again with the personal attacks. Sure sign of someone that is having difficulty in proving their argument with facts. And I never said "well if you must know"? I just reposted it ma. C'mon...read baby. Well not every first date I went on was with someone I didn't know. I guess you're just a better person than I. Any pointers?rayer:

 

Duly noted sunshine

 

Pardon me for dragging up the past, but I'm pretty sure it was you that said you would be turned off by a woman who would sleep with you on the first date, because if she slept with you, it's likely that she did that with other men on the first date, and that wasn't cool. I know my memory isn't what it used to be, but I think I'm right on this one....

 

TDK, the douchbagerry doesn't take long to shine through, believe that, lol.

 

This gif must be so tired from over-use. Still funny, though! :smt081

 

"Again with the Personal attacks??" You better show me where.

 

:smt081

 

I did then I met my gf who changed my perspective on it. I was wrapped up in the idea that if a woman had less partners she was pickier which gave more value to getting her. But the value in getting a woman has little to do with how many paetners shes had and how well we personally connect as well as how trustworthy she is. Now dont get me wrong if a woman is racking up numbers like 30 days a month that speaks to some type psycholigical disorder that Im not equipped to handle. Sometimes we waste a lot of time looking for meaning in the meaningless. Thats just my two cents

 

Fair enough.

 

Word? Tell that to Elin Woods lol

 

Im slacking on my macking? Really? Because I knew somebody from highschool, but didn't go on a date with her until we were in our 30s? I don't mack buttercup, I'm a grown ass man. What attracts a woman to me has nothing to do with "macking". And if she was attracted to macking, her and I would have never been an item.

 

Maybe that's where sunshine got that 30 days from. (Shaggy voice) "wasn't me"

 

Mmmmk. Which sunshine would you be referring to? I'm ChesSun. :mrgreen:

 

Its NOT about how many partners she has TDK. Its how she responds to the men she meets. Does she drop her panties the first date with men she finds attractive and if so, are you ok with that? That is the debate here.

I'm saying I DON'T EVER want a man who is ok with that. Me doing it or him doing it. As far as I'm concerned any man with an M/O of fucking a woman on the first date IS NOT the kind of man for me, and that has been my point all along before IAM jumped in which his generic tired accusations all because he banged a chick on their first date.

 

Lol. I made a conscious decision to stop calling women shorty, ma, etc many years ago. So while I still slip sometimes...I try my hardest to replace those words with more suitable ones when referring to a woman. So you both are sunshines

 

SMH. So you having an opinion is valid. Me having one is being generic and tired. You're a beacon of maturity :smt023 Why not just call me a big fat stupid poopy head?

 

If she had done it in the past or with me it would make no difference. Like I said its all about the connection for me. If she had it doesnt change her heart her values or her intelligence. But to each his/her own. Go with what makes you feel good I just didnt understand your logic thats all

 

Me neither. :smt023

 

And I accused you of what? Or accused anyone of what for that matter? I know, I know...another question of mine unanswered.

 

U guys love zero sum lol