How Does An AussieMama meet a BM in Australia?

I have been married to a white german man, and after 7yrs, got divorced as he had sexual "issues" (couldnt keep it up for me but could sure get it up for himself to fiddle with on his own....WANKER). So this time, I would like to find a lovely black man, kind, caring, affectionate, loyal and loves kids. Oh - and a big appendage if possible - Is that too much to ask for?Do I have to come to the USA to find one and if so, where is the best state/city/place to meet someone?

 

You could visit the UK. But I think the States, in terms of numbers, would be good.

Your ex will probably end up in Thailand or Japan. So many [not all, though] guys over there looking for women while at the same time putting the blame for the world's problems (and theirs) on white women!

Good luck.

 

Well...I'll be rollin' thru Oz again. :lol:

The Kid Rasta 8)

 

Try www.craigslist.org

You can specify country etc......

 

Wished there are more of you on this website OzMama

 

So what's up with aboriginal men? I can imagine that there quite a few who are kind, caring, affectionate, loyal and love kids.

 

I think the last post is very good. Why not date an aboriginal man ? ? And there must be many BM in Australia too. Y :?: ou have lots of immigrants too.

 

Maybe it's because Aboriginal men aren't high on the socio-economic ladder. For whatever reason. I make no judgements.

Aborginal men are not really visible in major cities and tend to be rural people. A woman who wants a man who loves kids has to assume the guy's established in his career/life as she has to think of her children.

Also, they may not have the same values as white/non-white western peoples when it comes to relationships because of their cultural values and their relatively isolated communities.

White Australian values have a lot in common with the UK/US/Canada and Europe than with a community who haven't basically changed much for centuries. Having said that, I know some of my black (Jamaican) relatives here in the UK who are more Jamaican than Jamaica itself - and they weren't even born there!!!!!!!! Same goes for Indians, Pakistanis, Greeks......you name a grouping and you'll find values/attitudes that go back generations.

The aborignal population is very small and if one turns out to be lousy, the 'pool' from which they come may not be overbrimming with alternatives.

Once again, I'm not going to get into history and rights and wrongs of colonialisation and how it affected native peoples etc....just sticking to the individual situation here.

 

well, AussieMama, when you find out, you can tell me! :lol:

If you haven't been to the USA or South American/Carribean, then you'll straight away notice the difference - if you think our population is truly multicultural, think again, lol.

Seriously, though, while my preference is BM, what's up with you suddenly wanting to meet a black man after your divorce, and he must have a large appendage? Have you dated any BM before? :roll:

You've just come out of a long term relationship and the drama and stress of a divorce....

Ask yourself what is it you're really looking for - a bit of experimentation, fun, curiosity? He doesn't need to have all the qualities you listed for that...lol. Please leave those BM for the women who want something more like a long term relationship. :smt021

If you want sex with BM then just hit the downtown clubs and you'll find quite a few African men and a few African American men. Most of these guys will pursue you like a barracuda... for one thing only. If that's all you want, that's where you can get it. Enjoy!

BM aren't commodities.... try to flip the script a little AussieMama... what have you got on offer for any BM you meet? What you give out is what you'll get back. 8)

 

Granted there ARE **MANY** White Aussie Gals who prefer Balck Men...

This I know from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE after a visit to Brisbane, Queensland in 1989..

HOWEVER, one MUST stop and consider SOME of the "interests" of SOME of the interested parties in question:

Couldn't've said it better, myself....

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Wished there are more info on the relationship between Aussie women and Black men. It is mostly scattered and the only info I remember is from the Ebony issues published in 1967.

 

I know a lady down there I talk to on yahoo and she looooves brotha's.

 

Its funny how many of these women "looking" for black men have been married before, to white men more importantly.

 

Now you see young grasshopper.

 

I can read your mind :wink: but I think there are a variety of reasons for that, including, supply and demand, and some brothas lack of interest in marriage and/or a long term committment to either WW or BW.

 

Your turn to share.

 

Do you want to be with a black man because you want him to do what your white ex failed to do,satisfy you sexually and become your sex toy? I dont think you want a black man you just want to find if those rumours about black men in bed are true.Anyways maybe you should try Africa there are just everywhere you'll be spoilt for choice.

 

wow brush off the cobwebs...lol
I'm interested in an update as well... seeing as how I'm in Aussie land as well... although I haven't put a big dick (ok "appendage") on my 'shopping' list. A really sharp mind, and add a dash of African philosophy and sense of community hmmm... that would do nicely, thanks very much.

Not that I'm a goodie 2 shoes... I just want the WHOLE package... contents equal or better than the packaging.

Live in hope... LOL

Hey I started my first African dance class tonight... HIGH ENERGY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was great, lol! No Africans in sight... :roll: but some Aussie guys who could play some mean Djembe drums and dancing to live drumming is... gooooooooooooood.

 

Well i do feel sorry for you i know what its like when you cant have what you want,Australia being a country dominated by whites you gonna have to put more effort finding that black man,like me where i live now there are not so many whites so i have to work harder,but dont be too desperate and just fall in love with any guy because he is black.If you were here i would teach you our traditional dance i'm always looking foward to see a white person dance,because they dance very funny.

 

well don't you fret none bisco... there's plenty of fun to be had here and he (whether he is black or orange) can find me. I'll 'work hard' when I'm IN the relationship, not out looking like a deer staring into headlights. 8)
you can stick your 'white people dance funny' comment - sort of the equivalent of me saying every black man can dance... :roll: and/or has a huge appendage. No stereotype monolithic games played here... go eat a biscuit.