How Do You Know When a Married Woman Might Want to Cheat?

Glad I gave you a laugh, BTW I PARAPHRASED not quoted. Also, people can an DO change,

 

Well that's good, bosox, glad you changed, but I'm not so judgmental. There's alot of stuff I don't agree with but I don't wag my finger at adults. I haven't walked in ky's shoes so she can just do her. Wear a condom is all I say other than that have at it.

As far as a single person not sinning if they are involved with a married person that's a moral gray zone that I wanted others opinion on.

 

She could be in an open situation> Sometimes they don't want to say that fearing it might spoil the fun too early i the game. If its the couples first experience in and open marriage, they would go very slow. The hubby and her could e into this,,,,,, not the watching thing, ut were she is allowed to date on her own. That was our agreement in our open marriage.

 

Well, karma we CAN agree on that. Maybe, I should not have said the single person was just as wrong, and maybe you should not have said the single person is blameless. Both are playing with fire.

 

And someone's going to get burned!

 

When I was married and having problems with the ex-husband, this guy tried to get me to sleep with him. I fought him off for a few months, then told him off harshly. I told him, one day you'll be married and you will trust your wife to be faithful to you, and you'll remember me. So he left me alone. A few months later we spoke again and he told me that the way I had treated him made him respect me more. Good to know. :roll:

 

Why did it take so long for him to finally get the message?

Looking back on it now, would you say that you find some guys will take any amount of attention from a woman, as a sign of interest. Hence they continue to pursue.

 

Yes, and in the case of this guy, I had already told him previously that I was attracted to him. Which was not smart of me. So he just didn't take it seriously when I told him I had made my decision, I wanted to stop talking to him and it wasn't a good idea that we stay in touch. He figured I was just playing hard to get.

 

Thanks for your honesty. At least you looked back at the situation, and saw what you could have done differently, in order to keep it from happening again. Props to you for that.

Now on the same token, many of us guys should also know when a woman says no, then we should leave her alone, and see if that woman will continue to, or refrain from pursuing us. So it wasn't all on you, that he eventually got told off harshly.

Had he played his cards right, and not put you in a position to tell him off, now that you've become single, would you now be willing to give him a second look?

 

If he had played his cards right then yes, I would. But he kept acting shady even after my breakup with the ex. He's one of those guys who instead of asking you out and treating you like a gentleman should, calls you over and over again asking to come over his house. Haha, the only invitation out I got from him was a text message saying "Hey goddess, do you want to meet me at the bar on Mulberry Street." Mind you, Mulberry Street is five minutes away from HIS house and 40 minutes away from MINE. So no, he's not my kinda guy. :lol:

 

WOW!
I hate to say it, but, he sounds really sketchy, to say the least, and it's prolly best you did leave him alone. My ex, whom I am still great friends with, has mentioned these kinds of guys to me as well, so it'aint just him, this might be an epidemic of stupidity that is both transcontinental. , and sad. :cry:

 

Very well said. I agree.

 

We all know it's wrong and we would not want our wives to do that... BUT you know there are some fine white women out there wanting to get there groove on. It happens all the time....it's not right, but there are many white women who married the wrong guy (white) and want a black guy. They are going to put it out there. I know I am talking trash, but it's reality.

 

Re: How Do You Know When a Married Woman Might Want to Cheat

There are lots of married white women who are willing to flirt and take that extra step. In fact, a married American white woman is more approachable than a single one. But, bad karma can come back to bite you if you are also married. In fact, I recently saw a blog posted by a married white woman (http://sex-white-girls.blogspot.com/) that indicates this woman is looking for a platonic relationship with men of color.