How do you feel when someone says they DONT date interacially?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by stiletoes, Apr 4, 2013.

  1. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    As long as they are not prejudicial about my choice or nasty about, it don't care,
     
  2. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    This
     
  3. falcon

    falcon New Member

    If a person advise that they dont date or marry IR, I'm cool with that. I will try to throw in their face nor do I hide it. I will respect their choice and they dont have to like my choice but they will respect my choice and the woman that I am with.
     
  4. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    I dont' give a fuck in general.... but does it bother me when women date everyone but black men acting like we are scum.
     
  5. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    My ex's cousin told me that he does not date white women as they does not find us attractive to him in the physical sense. I was not offended.
     
  6. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    This right here!! Hey Toes
     
  7. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    I can appreciate that sort of honesty. As long as there's no negativity about my preferences, I'll be alright. Everyone is certainly entitled to their own likes/dislikes.
     
  8. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member


    Hey Stizzy....How you been????
     
  9. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    Basically.
     
  10. medullaslashin

    medullaslashin Well-Known Member

    In many obvious ways it's a wiser choice than dating interracially or interculturally. We may be open-minded, but the world is not.

    No reason to wear it on your sleeve though, which is what a lot of people are doing when they declare they don't date interracially.

    Depends on why they're saying it. Did someone ask them? Or are they coming up to us who do our own thing and saying it with a sneer and judgementalism?
     
  11. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    I couldn't care less. What people do in their own lives is their own business. They can date, or not date, whom ever they choose.
     
  12. blackbrah

    blackbrah Well-Known Member

    Don't really care. Only time it sucks if I have a friend that wants to go to a black club and I want to go to a white club :D
     
  13. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I always find that shit suspect. Anyone who has to announce it is saying a lot more than they don't date outside their "race"
    Secondly I find people like that to be annoyingly simple minded. To say you don't find anyone attractive in a particular "race" is ridiculous. I don't seek out Asian women or latinas but I'm not blind, there are shit ton of attractive ones but they have never traveled in my circles and/or the first or second generation cultural differences kept them completely immersed in their parent's culture but if I were single and met a woman who happened to be Asian or Latina who was nerdy like I am and shared similar interests it would be on and poppin.
    This stick to your own nonsense or exclusion of a certain type of people is the exact bullshit that keeps us divided and easy targets of the elites.
     
  14. suzieb

    suzieb New Member

    really don't care about anyone elses choices. no one should feel they have to date a particular kind of person just to prove they aren't rascist or whatever.
    we all have our ideas on whats attractive and what we want in our lives.
     
  15. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    It doesn't bother me as long as they are honest about it. I had met a few white women who would date everybody but black men. I have not and will not hold it against them. I respect their position as they should respect mine. I cannot change a world I never made.
     
  16. FRESH

    FRESH New Member

    I think a lot of answers here are simple in length but deep and philosophical. I respect everyones opinion, but I'll be honest, it depends on the situation.

    If I'm at the gym and see a nice white girl and approach her (whilst not having a problem being apporached in the gym), and she tells me in a non hateful way: "sorry, I don't date black guys," I'm going to be a little angry, salty, hurt, etc. Is it going to ruin my life, hell no, I get to much ass for that, but still...
     
  17. JamahlSharif

    JamahlSharif Well-Known Member

    Eh...what somebody else does or thinks doesn't butter my toast in the morning. To each, his own...
     
  18. Cherok33

    Cherok33 Well-Known Member

    this.
     
  19. MilkandCoffee

    MilkandCoffee Well-Known Member

    agreed, or when they try to act all conservative one second but the second a black person passes by them their faces look like:

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  20. FRESH

    FRESH New Member

    lol
     

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