How do you feel about dating a WW/BM who hangs around nothing but people your skin complexion?

Depends on the individual. Most of the white girls I've seen who hang out with only/mostly black people tend to be on that excessive hood shit or try to be "down". That isn't always the case though. Sometimes, that's just who they happened to be friends with for their own reasons like they grew up around blacks. Almost all my best friends are white. I had friends of all races in high school but my best friends just happened to be mostly white. A lot of white girls who date black dudes also tend to think dating black means they can say whatever the hell they want around ALL black folk or on the internet. Again, those are the ones that try to be "down".

 

Ok, what does the term down mean?

 

I'll take this one @GFunk. lol.

Referencing the hip hop culture, american "hood" culture.

 

Ok, I have no knowledge of hip hop, rap or hood culture what so ever.

 

Neither do I. Except for a few songs they play or used to play on the radio a lot.

 

If my guy only hung out with white people, that would probably weird me out. Completely honest...I'd wonder if he was with me more for fetish-y reasons than legitimate ones. If he cared more about skin color than what was on the inside? We live in a super diverse area so if allll (or the vast majority of) your friends are white...somethings going on lol. If you're not faking the funk, Id generally think you'd have more diversity within your circle.

 

You and @Madeleine need to start hitting up

a) The Urban Dictionary
b) Google

When you come across a term you don't know

Thanks in advance

 

Ok.

 

Gentlemen, this is a textbook example of the kind of desirable white woman you should be involved with.

 

Good to see you on here, @RaiderLL

 

Reverie, looks like we have displayed our ignorance here. We have to be careful they don't get tired of us.

 

When someone is well balanced music is just entertainment unless it makes them money. Everyday genre isn't that serious. Most people can agree on something when they're in the mood.

 

Don't worry about it - I live in the states and I'm clueless. I just know the link for the urban dictionary and I got schooled a couple of times in here cause I didn't know certain artists and such. (I still don't know most of that stuff) But here's the thing, it hasn't been a problem in dating ever.

 

I think he kindof exaggerated with that a bit. It's a rather common slang term that started in that way but has become widely accepted and used. Just as in any other region/country, etc. Urban Dictionary can be helpful with such things.

 

Thank you sir

 

Key phrase

 

TBH I"m not into wigger chicks obsessed with hip hop that speak in Ebonics, rap better than me and half the time have dreads/cornrows. Thats the profile of most white chicks I meet that exclusively have black friends. It does not turn me on at all. I once had an awkward tinder date with such a women. (Lets just say she was expecting me to be more "down." and I was expecting her to have some semblance of class.) If she just happened to have mostly black friends was cool to be around had her shit together and not trying to be black I wouldn't mind.

 

Yep. It might make me a bad person for saying this but I like my White women to be more stereotypically White lol. Ugg boots, leggings, and pumpkin spice lattes all the way!

 

Interesting question because it actually made me think, and pretty much all of my girlfriends are white, and when I'm with men, pretty much all of their friends seem to be black lol. Idk if this is something I care about that much, but if a black man hangs out with all white boys, he might kinda act like them, and I probably wouldnt find him attractive in the first place lol

 

It sounds funny, but I get it. You like what you like.