I am occasionally asked why I'm attracted to BM & don't feel that I owe anyone an explanation. I'm curious of how others deal with this question.
I used to get a lot of BM asking this. It becomes annoying, but I understand why they'd want to know. I'd usually answer them....
That question doesnt compute to me.. throw it around to the one asking it - why are they attracted to what they are attracted to...
The only person that I ever responded too when they asked me why do I prefer white women was my mother. She thought it was weird that I lived in a neighborhood full of black women, but I go out my way to find white women and Latinas. I had to explain to her that it was her fault that I love white women so much. She was the one who had me watching The Wraith, The Breakfast Club, 16 candles, Weird Science, The Lost Boys, Purple Rain, etc. When I first laid eyes on SHERILYN FENN, Apollonia, Kelly LeBrock, and Ally Sheedy. After that I was addicted to white women. If some random person on the street ask me why I like white women I would tell them to mind their fuckin business. How have you been Geek?