How do I get a white woman?

Be yourself. Stay away from the bros.

 

I wish I was the first one to reply to this thread :smt005

 

LOL. classic

 

Getting a beautiful white women is the same as winning a lottery.
This implicates that there is a possibility to hook-up with pretty blondes even if you look like me in here http://www.hetrozeolifantje.nl/index.php/tag/lassie-toverrijst/
The only thing you have to do is calculating your chances by following a lot of math classes.
Is this what you are trying to suggest?

 

Not gonna lie, I get intimidated by certain women...I don't know what it is, is it their response or the fear of rejection, though honestly I've never been brutally rejected. Maybe sometimes in the back of my mind I don't think they are my type or would be 'into' me (though I've been told I'm very attractive)...unless I get a small look with a smile or some indication of interest it's like I smell blood and I will go for the kill.

I do try to cold approach and I'm very friendly. Actually have had some success with cold approaching, but there are certain women I'm into that if I do actually care and I think they are more my 'type' I become less natural.

One of my types so to speak I have trouble with...preppy/professional white women. Something sexy as fuck about them to me.

 

You remind me of me. I'm twenty-six and I've never been in an actual relationship. I can probably relate to you more than anyone else here and I've been given all of the typical advice that you mentioned (give it time, be yourself, be more aggressive, etc.). After repeated rejections I also ceased to chase women with the same enthusiasm that I had before.

I don't think anyone gave you reassurance because there is none! People die alone every day. Relationships are not guaranteed. It's a reality - possibly my reality. The incredible marketability of female attention says it all. Women get paid money just to talk to guys. Male attention will never be as marketable because most men are already eager to interact with the opposite sex. My solution is to not think about them so much. Although it's a poor solution, it helps me to cope with my involuntary celibacy, a condition that you can read more about by googling.

 

A lot of women end up alone as well, I don't think this issue is a gender based one. There's a very thin slice of the female population which fits your marketable criteria. Women who are not "traditionally attractive" or who are older, or overweight, or disabled are disappeared in our society, too.

As a younger woman I fit the traditionally attractive mode, and certainly had no trouble attracting men, but attracting men in general isn't the same as attracting the *kind* of men you'd want to be with.

 

It is largely gender based because dating for men and dating for women are not the same. Norah Vincent went undercover as a man for eighteen months and I believe that she describes it better than anyone. "I was an actor playing a role, but these women had gotten to me nonetheless. None of these interactions mattered. I had nothing real at stake. But still I felt bad.

So how must men feel when it’s a true encounter and everything in the game seems stacked against them? They make the move, or the women bluff them – without tipping their hands – into making the move. The guys step out (stupidly, it now seems to me) into the space between, saying something irreversible and frank – a compliment or an out right indication of interest- and most of the time the women step away, or laugh disdainfully, and the guys are left with their asses in the wind. That’s the sport, and men are the suckers. Women guard the gate and men storm it. Natural selection is brutal, and women do, in the immortal words of Jim Morrison, seem wicked when you are unwanted."

That's true, but even women who aren't marketable are often haughty and behave as though they are marketable. I've been shot down by women who aren't as fit as me. Lord Chesterfield was right in his observation that any woman who is not absolutely ugly thinks herself beautiful.

A guy who is traditionally attractive can have considerable trouble, whereas a traditionally attractive woman almost never has trouble. Usually, if I do see a white woman with a black guy she's overweight or she's older. Since white men generally have higher physical standards than black men, black men are the next choice for the less desirable white women.

This is only relevant if you believe in things like "true love", which I don't.

 

I remember giving you advice...lol

WB

 

Wow some of you guys make me wanna slit my wrist talk about downers lol. Fellas its simple just focus on doing things you like and stack PAPER and stay in/get in shape. Its a simple formula and works very well. Oh most importantly stop listening to other women on the subject because as well meaning as some of them are
1. Most of them have a hard time figuring out what they want themselves so how can they coach anyone?
2. You can not ask prey how to capture other prey. What experience do they have getting women? They know what they like to see men do but they have zero clue how to do it.

 

Look , I have had some success so I cant complain toooo much about rejection. However, I could do better. the thing is fellas rejection is part of it all. you just have to read what I and the other dude stated. trust me it works. dress in some decent clothes and nice shoes (slacks, dress shoes and ect..) they dont have to be expensive. I bought some dressy T-shirts for only $6 and put em with slacks and boom there you go. get rid of the sports related clothes...its not mackish.

next smile. walk around with a good mood and they will feed off of that. its ok to have a script until you feel comfortable in your own skin.

when I was in college in the early 90's I was in my early 20's and I was living with my mom....I was talking to a girl and the first thing I told when she picked up the phone. "I was thinking of you ...." . My mom stated "damn you said that to the other girl you talked to before that one. you are a sick puppy. LOL" But she knew men were like that from jump. when you get successful with one woman...use that as a guideline for the next...you will have to tailor it for anopther but the prinicple is still the same.

also there is a saying in the military..."when you have two you have one....when you have one you have none." get multiple women (let them know you are not committed to them. they will respect you for that) and say it right.

Its not what you say...its how you say it.

LOL. so well stated.

 

strong forever alones itt

 

Women are human beings, not prey animals. Jeebus.

 

Trix your feminist nonsense is getting just a tad boring now. I compared the act of dating to hunting because that's what is. Men seek out women its primal. When I see women asking out men as often as men ask out women then I'll concede until then you have no point my friend.

 

Noting that woman are human beings isn't a "feminist" statement. It's actual fact. Jeebus.

 

Trix if you honestly believe that for a second it was being suggested that women aren't people you don't understand the concept of an analogy Jeebus

 

It's about as unpleasant to see yourself referred to as prey as it would be for you to see yourself referred to as an animal because you're black. It's a pretty jarring, unlikable thing which makes you wonder "Does the speaker really see women as prey animals?"

 

It surely doesn't happen overnight. It's a lifestyle, just like being a ladies man is a lifestyle.

I totally agree with this view and stress it as often as possible. A woman could never give her son any sound advice on dating because she would only give him superficial advice. She's not going to tell him what his father did to get her all hot and bothered. What she's going to tell him is logical things: be a gentleman, don't slouch, pick her up on time, etc. Logic in itself is not enough because logic is not what gets us aroused.

 

You're on time out my friend. We need a break from eachother. You are too easily offended you too often take things so far out of context I question your mental health. I even explained why I used prey as a hunting example and brought to prejudice. And sexism. I don't dislike you Trix but a break is needed kid.