How do I get a white woman?

Discussion in 'How To Meet White Women and Black Men' started by QMark, Aug 23, 2011.

  1. QMark

    QMark New Member

    I'm single, in my late 20's and I've only had one girlfriend. It was several years ago and the relationship didn't even last two weeks. Since then I have had no luck with women. And before that I had no luck with women either.

    I am open to dating women of other ethnicities as well, but I am especially attracted to white women, so I'd prefer to just cut to the chase and just go after what I mainly want. I've tried talking to women in the past and it doesn't really turn out too well. I'm generally not shy, but I can be sometimes. In the past when I would get rejected, ppl at work or school would ridicule me and gossip about me. I don't even chase after women anymore because I don't wanna be talked about and I don't want to be "that guy".

    Over the years, I've received a ton of advice from friends, co-workers, online articles, and even PUA's (be more aggressive with women, don't worry about trying to get a girlfriend so much, just wait one will come along one day, there's someone for everyone, dress differently, improve your game with women, etc). And it's all so confusing now on what to do to be successful with women, especially white women since not all of them date black men or may be hesitant to.

    I go back to college next month. A part of me is hoping that I'll meet someone there, because lots of guys tell me that it's supposedly mad easy to get chicks in college. But I didn't get girls in high school. Guys also told me when I was overseas that white women go nuts for African American guys, but they didn't go nuts for me. It seems like no matter what I do (be aggressive, relax and don't think about it),that I don't get no girl.

    How do I get a woman successfully without being rejected and clowned? I read something off another forum where people stated that regardless there will always be a portion of the population that doesn't have someone. Should I just become at peace with being single for life and make the most of it aside from that? What do yall think I should or could do?
     
  2. satyr

    satyr New Member

    Play for the NFL.
     
  3. MissWacy

    MissWacy New Member

    as you said you will be in colleg soon, so you could meet a ww there, and yup you will find overseas alot of ww love black men from america etc
     
  4. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    Post pictures dude.
     
  5. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    What's your stats. Age height location income and weight. Let's hear it
     
  6. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    get someone to lure them into a forest, making sure they don't bring with them white pebbles to find their way home (breadcrumbs are okay though). let them discover a cottage built of gingerbread and cakes with window panes of clear sugar. there inside you'll be waiting, posing as their candy man and trap them.
     
  7. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    LOL

    Smile, be friendly and be you...it is not magic.
     
  8. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    you are still very young you have a lot of time ... stop worry if you will be rejected and just talk ..
     
  9. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    You have a couple of options:

    1. http://www.realdoll.com/ (sorry, but I have a smartass sense of humor & I can't help myself sometimes)

    Seriously though...
    2. Be yourself & give it time. You're young so take your time & don't worry so much. When you start school, you'll meet people. BTW, college is nothing like high school so let that experience go & enjoy yourself.
     
    Last edited: Aug 23, 2011
  10. MissWacy

    MissWacy New Member

    LOL ive actually seen one of those things, they are very creepy haha
     
  11. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    The first thing to do to get a woman is not listen to advice from other women. Women are always all rainbows and unicorns when it comes to hookup advice. Listen to the men, we can relate to you... we're in the trenches with you.

    Post pictures and be open to criticism.

    (It's not woman bashing, it's TRUTH)
     
  12. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yeah, I saw one on display in a sex shop last year, & it was creepy as hell. They had her posed with a vibrator they had on special. lol
     
  13. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    I feel sorry for people who are new here who lay it all out and geniunely request help. Then they are made fun of. :(

    Nobody has any reassurance or kind words to help him out?? Seriously??!!

    And DK he is a STUDENT......so off with your post your income crap.
     
  14. QMark

    QMark New Member

    6'2, 170 lbs. I've already posted my age "late 20's". And yes I am a student but I work as well. Will not post my income.
     
  15. QMark

    QMark New Member

    It's not so much the rejection itself that bothers me. It's the ridicule and gossip that follows after. I don't want the reputation or image of being a hopeless romantic.
     
  16. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    There just seems to be some unecessary meaness on the board lately. Now I'm not saying some people aren't getting what they asked for *cough cough* ............Jennyart, Mandingo..nico, list goes on. ;)

    There are some guys here who are pretty successful at getting/talkinig to women. Why not help the guy? Give him some ideas on where and how to meet women??
     
  17. QMark

    QMark New Member

    I know college is not like high school. I should've mentioned in my OP that I have already started college last year, and I didn't get any action then. You and a few other ppl on this board have said that I'm young, but I've seen ppl younger than me pulling girls since I was in high school.
     
  18. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    BOOM!*
     
  19. QMark

    QMark New Member

    Hey thanks for having my back. I generally don't use forums just because I know that kind of behavior is common. But I found this place yesterday and figured I'd give it a go. And I was prepared for silly comments like painero's and whoever posted the thing about the sex dolls, and I was just gonna ignore them and let them crack themselves up.
     
  20. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    There's no need to post your income. Just be you & enjoy being young. ;)

    It is important to be careful about whose advice you take. Some of the ladies have offered good points, but Jaisee is right about it being helpful in this situation to get a good male perspective on it...he's also one of the men here who's worth listening to as well...some of the others, not so much.
     

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