How Can A White Woman Not From North America Get a North American Black Man?

I have a question to ask especially the men who belong to North America:

Where does a white woman who may not be from North America start when it comes to finding and getting a black man from North America?

Where would she have to begin or start?

What does she have to do?

What places would she have to go?

What states or territories would she have to visit?

I am curious about the answers that you all will give and looking forward to them.:smt102

 

You're a big boobed blued Aussie banger with a sexy sultry voice. Mission accomplished black men will come running believe that

 

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How Can A White Woman From Europe Get a North American Black Man?

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I have a question to ask especially the men who belong to North America:

Where does a white woman who may not be from Europe start when it comes to finding and getting a black man from North America?

Where would she have to begin or start?

What does she have to do?

What places would she have to go?

What states or territories would she have to visit?

I am curious about the answers that you all will give and looking forward to them.

 

We need a "Like" button up in this piece. LOL

 

I like this thread

I like this thread already

But...

I do not see more images of Australian women with Black men.

I see more images of that in North America.

Image as they say is sometimes Everything.

 

You would have to fight North American white women cus they are aggressive and dont give up their black men easily.The Canadians are laid back but the WW from USA are aggressive and would cut a non American WW in half if they attempt taking their black bull erm men from them.

 

Send us one of these for starters...

 

Points

1. Acceptance: Will his family accept you?

2. Visitation: Is he willing to come and see you outside of North America or are you willing to come and meet him in his country?

3. Personals: Have you tried the personals on this site or any other site?

4. Personal Choice: What are you looking for? A man for a good time or a man for life?

5. Interest/Curiosity: If you see a man that you like do you glance at him and smile at him to get him to be curious about you. You will have to get out there obviously to do that and if you cannot get out use a dating site or the personals of a site and then use Skype to talk to the man until you meet him face to face.

Hope this helps! Again talking about this and doing nothing about it does not make a difference now does it!

 

And Writing An Article Like This Might Also Help!

I found this article on news site named New York Press:

A White Woman Explains Why She Prefers Black Men

Black skin is thick and lush, sensuous to the touch, like satin and velvet made flesh. There’s only one patch of skin on a white man’s body that remotely compares to nearly every inch of a black man’s skin. The first time I caressed black skin, it felt like a luxury I shouldn’t be able to afford. I craved it more strongly than Carrie Bradshaw craved Manolo Blahnik shoes. That phrase, “Once you go black, you never go back” is all about the feeling of the skin.

And I had the socially acceptable explanation for my craving. I used that paucity-of-available-white-partners rationale to explain my relationships with black men for several years. A white woman past forty is often passed over by her white-male contemporaries. She goes younger or ethnic or foreign-born or down the socioeconomic scale or darker or she spends lonely nights at home with her cats. Black men are happy to get the babe they couldn’t have when she was twentysomething and fertile. The laws of the marketplace do prevail. It’s not me, it’s them being the white guys who weren’t after me anymore, or so I claimed.

That’s a lie. The truth is, I attract about the same percentage of available white men my age (and far younger!) now as I did when I was thirty and that’s not including the unavailable white men who want to play around anyway.

Enough white men want me that I was hardly facing enforced celibacy, but I don’t want them.

I want black men. They want me. We look at one another and exchange a visible frisson of sexual energy in the lingering glances. And our attraction is based first on race. We are not those couples who “happen to fall in love” with someone of a different race or more purposefully come together but out of some greater sense of interracial understanding and respect. Not as politically-correct men and women do we seek one another out. The Internet has made it a lot easier for us to find each other now. Men advertise: ebony seeks ivory. Women write: seeking tall, dark, and handsome. Very dark. We are not the same people who say: Race is not important. It is important to us. We have race-specific desires.

Even in a time when nearly 40 percent of single Americans have dated outside their race, that deliberate seeking of the specific other makes some people, especially black women, damned mad.

We are what they denigrate and castigate: white women and black men who choose one another because of our racial differences. They resent our taking their men. Black men are two and a half times more likely to marry a white woman than a black woman is to marry a white man. Black women can point to that statistic in justifying their wrath. But in truth, black sisters, we’re after the sex, not the ringand these guys aren’t the marrying kind anyway.

Yes, the sex!

The woman who goes after black men is a variant of sex journalist Susie Bright’s “white bitch in heat,” a woman who puts sex first even though women aren’t supposed to do that. According to one school of thought, white women turn to black men when their sex drives kick into higher gear and their social inhibitions recede into the rearview mirror. It’s a “yes, baby, now I’m ready for you” reaction.

When we get to the “yes, baby” place, they know it, and they are ready and waiting for us. Black men have more energy, style and edge than white men. They know how to flirt, a nearly lost art among the rest of us. A black man is so damned sexy because he knows how to make a woman feel sexy.

Black men have something white guys don’t have anymore: confidence in their masculinity, their sexuality. They clearly know they’re men. White men appear to be waiting for the latest sociological research study to let them know if they are men or not. Yet black men are gentlemen, something else white men no longer are. They make me feel like a woman, both respected and desired. I can let go of my inhibitions, my need to control, when I am with them. How many white men can treat a woman like a lady and ravish her too?

I often felt in my White Period that only during heated sex does that little layer of air bubbles between me and the world pop and disappear, leaving me open to intimate connection. It takes a lot of friction for two white people to get that close. These black men, so alive with erotic electricity, cut through the bubbles with a touch, a caress, a kiss and the freedom means I can truly touch them. I am like a pampered passenger in a Porsche with an expert driver at the wheel. I know I could suggest a route change, but I never really want to do that. On the other hand, the last time I had sex with a white man, we slogged along a bumpy road in a really old VW, the driver like the typical bumbling tv husband who would neither ask for nor accept the directions he badly needed.

My current lover, a handsome businessman, seduced me via eye contact at a neighborhood bar while I was eating burgers with a friend. Without saying a word, he paid the compliments, asked the questions with his expressive eyes. He didn’t move over to sit beside me and ask if he could buy me a drink until he knew the time was right. Both soft-spoken and assertive, he has impeccable manners and charm. I was kissing him in a cab 30 minutes after that drink.

On another night in that same bar, a different black man, an artist, knelt and kissed my knees.

I am sure there must be some black men who aren’t good in bed. Personally, I have not experienced one who isn’t. (True, I am not dating down the socioeconomic ladder, but I didn’t do that when I dated white either, so the racial comparisons seem valid and fair.) They look better than white men, they touch and kiss and make love better than white men. Statistically, their penises are only a fraction of an inch bigger on average, but they seem bigger and harder.

White men over 40 have lost their waistlines and their zest for life if they ever had it. They carry resentments, grudges and extra pounds in their basketball bellies. Perhaps a good part of that bloat is unhappiness. Even the thin ones look flabby somehow and deeply aggrieved. They nurse the smallest perceived slight longer than their double shots of Scotch. Surely our culture as much as biology turns them into softer, spongier, less-interesting versions of their youthful selves just at the point where women and black men and other minorities are emerging strong. Society overvalues the white man, leaving him angry and bitter when he realizes, around age 40, that he’s not all that.

With the exception of some Italians, white men don’t turn me on anymore.

That admission puts me in the same category as the older man only interested primarily or exclusively in young women. While women my age scowl and frown at these aging, Upper West Side Boomers pushing strollers as the hand of the thin, blonde wife 20 years their junior rests lightly on their arm, I feel a kinship with the old goats. We are the same, me and that bald white guy, drawn to the exotic other, not caring that the object of our desire has no childhood memory of a Kennedy assassination or a typical WASP Sunday dinner of over-roasted beef, lumpy mashed potatoes and soggy vegetables.

Analyze the roots of attractions all you want like scientists have done and you won’t come up with a perfect explanation for why we crave what we do. Desire rises from our depths and is gloriously oblivious to the good opinion of others. Yet until recently, I pretended that my lust was an equal-opportunity craving, because that seemed like the right thing to do.

Halfway through the first glass of wine in my last date with a white man, I realized that little clouds of sadness and self-pity were regularly fluffing off his psyche like the dust clouds kicked up by that dirt-smudged “Peanuts” character as he walks through Charlie Brown’s life. This guy was at least mildly depressed, and I wanted to tell him to exercise, lose weight, trim the combover and get interested in something outside yourself. I would have walked out on him immediately, but he seemed to expect that. I couldn’t deliver the blow to his ego proffered like the naked neck of a martyr to the ax. My Southern cousins would describe his general demeanor as a “hangdog air.” Into the second glass of wine and glancing longingly at the exit, I wanted to hang that dog myself when he mentioned that his face was flushed, I hadn’t noticed, because he’d taken a Viagra “just in case.”

What did he think would entice me more: That he assumed sex was probable because I’m a sex journalist or that he would need chemical help if sex did occur?

I cannot even imagine a black man bungling an attempted seduction in such a sad way.

That was my last token white guy. I recently came out of my racial-preference closet and told my friends, “I love black men. I’m not attracted to white men over 40, and I’m not dating them anymore. Really, it’s not them, it’s me.

Nobody was surprised.

 

One More Thing....

Perhaps this Ezine Article could help you as well...Well Worth A Shot!

White Women Seeking Black Men - 2 Magic Things Guys Want to Hear That They Do Not Even Know About!

For all you cool white women seeking black men you need to know some things that guys love to hear! Why? Well this is key to your success. The perfect black guy is out there waiting for you but you need to know what to say to make them want you.

I have two magic things that you need to say to win this game:

1) Compliment His Body: The easiest way to make that hot black guy feel for you is to first compliment him on his body. I am going to give you an example. You are in the gym and you see a great looking guy. You walk over, but not directly. Work your way around to his area so it does not look obvious.

Ask him to pass you something, as he passes it to you simply say: 'Hey, great body - you must have worked hard'. Follow up with a cheeky smile, and that is it. Do not over do it!

For white women seeking black men this is a perfect move. You have successfully stroked his ego, not come across too needy and you are approachable. All in one move. Cool or what?

2) Say No At First: Yes, I said that. No guy will admit to wanting this but it works like crazy. This is a psychological game that you need to play to make them desire you. White women seeking black men, this is the final winning tip that will have him begging for a date.

If we follow up from our previous example. You have just got this guys attention in the gym and given him a cheeky smile. You need to give it time for him to pluck up the courage to speak to you.

When he comes over, have a conversation and be pleasant and flirtatious. However when it gets to the bottom line say NO and reject his offer. This may seem backward, but believe me you need to take a step back to move two steps in front.

Make him feel that he has to try anything to get a date with you.

 

There is a Point To All This...

There is a point to why I posted the first article and it has to do with the fact that this white woman is not afraid to communicate how she feels and the point is if a lady wants a North American Black man who is interested in white women then you will have to communicate with him.

...Because sitting around wishing just won't work.

 

Answers:

Answer:

1. Go on an interracial dating site or personals site like this one and make your pick.

2. Visit places populated by Black men and research places where interracial relationships are more tolerated or seem to be occurring in greater frequency. This should give you an indication of where to look.

Hope this helps.

 

here's my two cents

* I would look up states that have a good margins of blacks in its whole populations. I'm a Californian, and while there is a black population here, it is nothing compared to DC and Georgia (Atlanta).
* Then I would search the web for clubs that cater to hip-hop,rnb, soul. (Important because you might want to be at more conservative venues)
* Look up some HBCU's or just regular colleges, more blacks in college than prison these years =D.
* Look up events for black business men and entrepreneurs. -Some really cool stuff goes on at those events.
* If your religious, you might want to try some black churches.
* A gym in an area where there are a lot of blacks ~ though this is subjective because there are quite a few blacks in suburbs these days too(although what truly constitutes an area of being black?).

For a white woman, I would say be yourself and look nice! Anything that accentuates your butt is a plus. Also be prepared for the stares, when I'm out with my gf I get stares from older white men, but she gets stares from angry black women, whom are young as well as old. When you goto these events just be aware that there is a generalized notion amongst black women that white women are taking the "good" black men. Black women, who are of the low class ghetto trash variation, will have no problem loudly voicing their opinion on what they feel you are doing in public- its embarrassing.

 

For serious??!!???

I'm fluent in Sarcasm. Alec, that was spectacularly funny. LULZ.

 

as am i. loves you :smt060

 

LOvez U more!!!!!!!!!

 

Great Post

I think you just helped a whole lot of white women with this post. If of course white women will take seriously your advice which Bro was great.

I read somewhere recently that if a white woman is with a Black brother that it takes away from her "whiteness" and that was the theory of one Black woman by the way.:smt072

Honestly to be fair Black women DO deserve to be with Good men just like any woman out there but a Good man does not necessarily have to come from where she thinks he should come from-The most important thing is that He should be a Good man and that is main point that they need to focus on.

 

If you plan on coming stateside, the best place to look is in the major cities or in the Southeastern U.S. Southern states have larger black populations than the rest of the country. And no, I'm not just saying that because I happen to live in the Southeast. It just happens to be a complete coincidence :yawinkle: