The saying goes,"You can look but you can't stare." I have seen many women in the grocery store. Conversations were as limited as they were brief. I seldom notice a woman I am physically attracted to. In the store, I have an agenda; shopping. When that is done, I leave. That is all. Sure, I see employees who are women. I chat with them briefly. But, nothing more. I had met a cute woman from Peru. But she has a boyfriend.
In general, I compare others to the physical "type" of the man I'm with. If I was dating a chubbier, taller black guy... I'd find chubbier, taller black guys more attractive in general. Then, if I'm dating a short, skinny guy.. the short skinny guys appear more attractive. Just because they're "closer" to the one that I like. As for now, I like someone, him and I are nothing official but there's... something. I'm single, but still hold out for him. No one else comes close to him, and I'm sure as hell not willing to risk losing a potential good thing. If holding out is for nothing, well it's still better than fucking half the campus
thanks. its no reason to be sad perse.... I hate it she died so young but we had a wonderful time together. it was sooooo peaceful and relaxing...... we didnt have sex we had spiritual reconnections every night.
Yes, when I'm in a relationship with someone I don't have the urge to be with another sexually. I still have my taste however.
If I fall for someone its almost like other women don't exist. After a while and I sanity returns then I once in a while I'll enjoy the view, no harm in that.
