Has this ever happen to you?

Has this ever happen to you.

don't know if this has been covered . But at work I get approached by a group of coworkers asking me what RACE are you most attracted to . This has happened in different stages of my life . maybe i would say about 5 times.
as a Black man I can't just come out and say WHITE WOMEN (i like latinas as well) especially when there black women present. Remember this is at work , i will face scrutiny for this . I tell them none of your business.
then they get offended that I don't want to answer .
then they say ,i love all pussy ,it's all pink in the inside(guys talking here)
But i know they are lying ,everyone has a preference.
why do they want to know which race i like the most? are they trying to out me? as someone who likes white women ? I think they are !

 

Not as you have experienced it. I have met many black men on the job years ago, who were attracted to white women, as well as any woman of any race as long as they were attractive in both looks and attitude. But some of these guys do spend a lot of time with these white women. I once went to lunch with two Chinese-American women. However, nothing happened because they had boyfriends.

It is not evident in the beginning to learn what a person's dating habits/preferences are. I remember in college, I met a girl who sat behind me in Spanish 1. Although I was not aware of it at the time, her body language told me that she was attracted to me and she was a "Southern white girl" or "GRITS"(Girl(s) Raised In The South). However, I had no idea what she saw in me and I was going through a difficult time. But we remained friends until she quit school and devoted her time to the U.S. Army. But she was attracted to black men.

There was another girl on campus who was a plain girl on the girl's softball team who simply advertised that she liked black men by wearing the X on baseball caps, t-shirts and baseball jerseys because of the film Malcolm X. She hung around a lot of the black athletes on campus(no doubt she dated one or two of them).

In my experience, discussions about race are not brought up unless people feel comfortable around each other enough to discuss it. I've had many of these discussions. I even have met a few black women who expressed a desire to date and marry a white man.

 

what you wrote about is something different than what i'm talking about.
you are talking about your experience with people and interracial dating.
I'm talking about a group of people coming up to you ,asking you what race do you prefer to date the most. which is none of their business.

 

That has never happened to me.