has any dated someone they met online ?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Jul 29, 2010.

  1. LaydeezmanCris

    LaydeezmanCris New Member

    yeah totally, i mean, with the woman i dated for almost a year, it was nothing more than just sex but from there, we got serious and I was ready to take things to the next step, but the pressures of her kids' father around made things very weird. apparently she knew that it couldnt really develop into anything, but took me for a ride. she had her reasons i guess ....

    i really don't think having casual sex buddies is that big a deal - when you're single anyway - as long as you're upfront and don't try to make it into what it shouldn't be.
     
  2. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Completely agree.
     
  3. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    I met most of friends I know online. And I've dated some people I met online.
    Most of people I met online were cool people, besides the psycho, lol
     
  4. GoldenVanilla

    GoldenVanilla New Member

    Yeah, I met my man since 6 yrs over the Internet... So I love the Internet 4 life:grin::smt060

    I saw his picture and thought "I want him" and well, I got him..hehe:cool:
     
  5. untitled1985

    untitled1985 Member

    yeah
    arent like 1 in 4 relationships started this way now
     
  6. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member


    i wouldnt doubt it

    sometimes it's easier and more worthwhile than meeting someone in other areas of life. from my experience, it's probably a bit better if you're looking to mentally connect with someone also. you aren't distracted by their physical appearance when you're picking each others brains via texting or phone calls. the pretty looks and etc become an added bonus then.

    it's not like in real life, where many times you're just going off hard dick and big titties.

    :eek:
     
  7. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Amen! Then again, on the flipside, you don't get to know someone that well cause some people aren't as open or the best typists...lol
     
    Last edited: Aug 7, 2010
  8. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    so what you trying to say?

    yo shit aint in the open wit me
     
  9. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    I'm agreeing with you and then I'm pointing out the downside getting to know someone online.

    From MY experience, sometimes, you don't get to know someone as much of course as you do lets say in person or on the phone. Sometimes they will hold back or their typing is bad so you can't, won't and don't get to know as well.
     
  10. goodlove

    goodlove New Member


    that is a very important statement. sometimes or most of the times you can get the full aroma (if you will) from written messages. you cant get the smirk they are trying to convey over the internet that will lead to misunderstanding that they are joking or not. That is why sometimes in this forum agruments are started due to misunderstanding.

    also I agree to a PT that the internet gives you a better way to screen people to a pt and more opportunities to meet people but again the downside is not having the body language that a companies the words to give the fullness of the convo.
     

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