Happy Endings?

All I'm saying is its a different experience fam. Don't knock it till you try it

 

Didn't you just break up with your girl?

 

:smt043 you are hilarious...I can show you stats on murder, rape, car accidents, unemployment etc

but i would be hard pressed to find a chart, article, graph on visiting a massage parlour to get jacked off and would that be okay with a girlfriend, wife...nor do i think a sector of the male population is going to put their hands up and say hell yeah i go once a week...you need to get on that show..."let's ask america" and then you can argue with the host about why you think the percentages are wrong as you get ELIMINATED

 

What are you talking about? You are completely conflating.... you know what never mind carry on

 

The topic about whether or not someone wearing a shirt that said or contained the word "nigger" or "nigga" on it was disrespect & offensive. Especially if a white person was wearing it. Multiple people had already come into the thread & pretty much responded that they though it was disrespect & offensive and they said there was no place for the word at all. I came into the thread & responded that I wasn't the type of person to get offended by the use of the word but I still found the idea of someone wearing a shirt of that type disrespectful & offensive due to the history behind the word. For whatever reason despite all of the other people who had responded prior to my posting my OPINION on the topic, my post was the one you decided you wanted to challenge, by posting all these different & lame scenarios where YOU thought it was okay for someone to wear a shirt like that, even going on some tangent about how it was some kind of "hot" fashion trend that was currently all the rage all over & it wasn't. It got to the point that I had to ask you why did you keep trying to explain to me the how's & why's of why anyone would wear a shirt like that when I didn't care in the least about whether or not someone was ignorant enough to wear one. The end result was still the same regardless. It would still be disrespectful & offensive, in my opinion.


So the reason for you wasting both your time & mine in that particular instance was what exactly??? What was it about my opinion that I posted compared to everyone else that posted a similar opinion that it was disrespectful & offensive, said to you "Ra's opinion needs to be challenged?":smt017

 

Been in a new relationship for a few months now. I don't know if your comment is referring to being lonely, but it has nothing to do with that.

 

I seriously wish I could remember what you're talking about but if I offended you my bad kid

 

I don't see a problem with it, as long as it's a clean place. Generally, I don't think it would be fair of me to monopolize my partner's experiences. I just want honesty, and if it becomes emotional and not purely sexual, I think it crosses over into the "cheating" territory.

 

Dude.....you didn't offend me. It was a "What & Why The Fuck" type thing. There was no reason for it. I don't go into threads looking to "debate" like some of you other posters seem to like to do. I post an opinion on whatever topic thread I peep into if I have an opinion. Period. If you like/agree with an opinion I post, fine. If you don't like/agree with an opinion I post, still fine. End of the day for me, no one's opinion on anything has any bearing on me & what I deal with in real life when I'm not online. Simple as that.

 

aye aye captain lol
Fair enough fam

 

If this is how you see dating then I feel bad for you.

If you feel put upon financially by those you date, get rid of them.

I'm not a big fan of women who expect a whole loada stuff for the pleasure of there company.

 

Then never come to Ny lol

 

Were you having an out-of-body experience when you said this?

 

Thought you were talking about this thread since its opinion based. In the other thread her post factually untrue. Sorry for the confusion

 

I've only had one professional massage, it sucked big time, I had to let the woman know she was hurting me actually. An happy ending sounds like torture to me because I would want to fuck if she started stroking me.

 

I am sorry but anyone who thinks happy endings are not sexual is retarded plain and simple and no amount of explanation would convince the person to think otherwise. Female plays with your dick, you get hard, you ejaculate, its SEXUAL and even a 7th grader would know that smh. People watch too much asian massage porn( dont get me wrong i like it) hence they equate brothels parading as massage parlours as professional masseuse. A professional massage therapist who tugs a client is crossing the line and must actually be offended and report that client if he is pestering her with happy ending
Question, why would any man in his right frame of mind want to have his dick tugged by a woman he is not sexually attracted to and PAY for it?

 

My observation of you over the years is this:

You need to live in another part of the country. Living in NY has given you a myopic view of the world.

Seriously.

You need to have more worldly experiences. I think maybe your eyes would open up a bit.

 

[QUOTtomeiIAH;874904]I am sorry but anyone who thinks happy endings are not sexual is retarded plain and simple and no amount of explanation would convince the person to think otherwise. Female plays with your dick, you get hard, you ejaculate, its SEXUAL and even a 7th grader would know that smh. People watch too much asian massage porn( dont get me wrong i like it) hence they equate brothels parading as massage parlours as professional masseuse. A professional massage therapist who tugs a client is crossing the line and must actually be offended and report that client if he is pestering her with happy ending
Question, why would any man in his right frame of mind want to have his dick tugged by a woman he is not sexually attracted to and PAY for it?[/QUOTE]

Because they're horny?! Men do it all the time!! Ever heard of prostitution?

 

Just found this chart showing the percentage of men who pay for sex, WTH Cambodia?!?!?

Not too sure about "all the time" Ches, while there have been many studies with varying results, most credible studies show that only a small percentage of men actually pay for sex, per below.

"The men who buy sex are your neighbors and colleagues," warned the tease of a 2011 Daily Beast article.
Are they really, though? Fear mongering headlines aside, just how frequently do men buy sex -- and which men when and where? According to a new study, published in March 2013 in the International Journal of Offender Therapy and Comparative Criminology (IJO), 14 percent of American men have solicited prostitutes in their life, with only one percent of these men soliciting prostitutes in 2010.
"Our findings clearly contradict the 'john next door' notion perpetuated by some media," Dr. Christine Milrod, who co-authored the study with Dr. Martin A. Monto, said in a press release. The researchers obtained their results by compiling data from the General Social Survey (GSS), public domain data on arrested customers and an Internet sexual services provider called The Erotic Review.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/29/prostitution-johns-study_n_2973116.html

I must live in an ivory tower, as I know nobody, to my knowledge, that would truly consider going to a prostitute.