"Guys are Clueless"

maybe this is why I never get lucky..
:cry:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/livescience/20080320/sc_livescience/cluelessguyscantreadwomen

 

I can definitely relate to this. I've always had one heck of a hard time deciphering cues from women. Especially the smiles that they give. For instance, if i look a female directly in her eyes and smile, she'll smile back. Sometimes i think she might be interested, but the majority of the time i think she's just being nice because i smiled at her first. There have also been times when a female would smile at me first, and i would still be oblivious to her intentions. I think this is what separates guys who have all the dates that they can handle, from guys who find dates sparingly. I'm certain that if i could pick up on some of these cues a little easier, i would have had 3 times as many girlfriends by now lol.

 

bryant...it continues to boggle my mind that you do not have women beating down your door with a line around the block...

 

I know...it is such a strange thing isn't it lol. The reason why i liked this article, is because i think it hit the nail right on the head for me. There have probably always been girls interested in me, but i could never pick up on the signals in time to notice. darn it. i guess that's my curse. :?

by the way, lipstick, really glad you haven't left the forums. :wink: .

 

It is a good piece. I wished women can read this and apply it to meeting the man of her dreams. Bryant,if the women are a bit bolder things would go smooth. Interpetation is the key.

 

It should be called "Guys are not mind readers".I'm so tired of these liberal studies putting all the blame on men. How about we stop playing games? You take a gesture wrong and you could end up in a sexual harassment lawsuit or getting kicked in the balls.

 

This article explains exactly why I ignore most things women do in my presence: Smiling, eye contact, etc.

I don't have the time nor energy to decipher the subtle hints. Talk to me. Have a conversation. Don't flip your hair, etc.

 

Yawn, more man-bashing.

 

I agree, if they want to date the man whom they have a crush or attraction just be a little bit assertive.

 

I love this article! Thanks guys for your coments you all helped me be more out going. I did more than look and smile and just walked up and introduced myself. It was not as hard as I thought it would be.

 

haha bry...

Ive been in the same situation bro. I was on the bus> A nice looking girl (with a nice ass btw) walked towards me and sat>> I looked at her, and she looked back>> A few seconds later, she looked again in my direction. Then she got up and and retrieved something from her bag (top corner of bus)...she was clearly trying to show me her ass (rotating it and shit)....lol...she sat down again, and smiled. I just looked at her with an arrogant glare............long story short, she asked me if i was going to the same city she was...i said HELLl NO.....and she instantly said "shit",,as if disapointed by it......so realizing this,,i thought damn,,i actually got a shot,,,lemme try and ask her number or something...lol..

I asked her "Yo whats ur number"....she said..."uhhh,,,i dont have a cell".....and almost instantly her phone began to ring....lol...fuckin lying ass bitch....

I hardly ever ask bitches fo their numbers these days...i just drop mine in front of them...lol "Hey my name is jay- i have no time to talk,,,,but heres my number,,use it"...lol..works like a charm

 

Hey miss red.

Guys tend to sense when a girl is shy. A guy like me would certainly use that against you to an extent. That is, if you came up to me and introduced yourself and i felt you were being shy about it. I would without a doubt be an asshole to you......

For example: You walked to me sayin; "hi you have the time?"..id look at you and if I sensed a level of shyness- my respons would be. "Whats in it for me"..??..lol..or id tell you to fuck off, depending on the setting. But eventually id give you my number and we'd soon meet up at your place.

 

I called the guy who gave me his number! But he is not calling me back

 

Redlady, if homeboy does not call you back then he must be a coward. Does he have a text on his phone? Try that also.

 

BM....jeez man, your posts are always too funny. anyway, from reading your story, it sounds like the lady was "definitely" interested...but the confusing part is why she all of a sudden started to act like she "wasn't" lol. when she asked you what city you were going to, and then said sh*t when she found out that you weren't going to the same one, to me it obviously sounds like she had interest. but like i said, i'm terrible at reading between the lines with women, so i could be wrong of course lol.

 

BMJ,
That's where you lost her. It happens in a split second. I hear too many ladies say the guy was fine, until he opened up his mouth with, "Yo What's Ur Number"! You're better off with "Hi ya doing? My name is..." and show her you have class, unless you're sure she likes the "Yo" type of approach. Some may, but most may not.

And Bryant, if you want more dates guaranteed, just don't be afraid of rejection, and play the numbers game, the more you step to, the more your chances of getting a date increases. Sure, you're gonna hear a lot of No's, but don't let it get to you, just move on to the next, especially focusing on the women who look you in the eyes, and smiles at you. Your chances are best if you go after the flirty ones, and eye contact with a smile is definitely flirty. Look at it like this, you approach 1 girl, you run a 50% chance of hearing yes, but if you talk to 10 girls, the odds are 10 times greater at least one out of the 10 will say yes. IT WORKS!

- A closed mouth does not get fed

 

Guys are clueless

The guys that are have never been whores....

 

I need find some of yall clueless ones then! Dang I have met two married just out f*** in the last two weeks. :evil: One tonight, hey baby wanna go to a hotel? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

 

So, if a girl appears a little shy you act like a diva and expect a doormat response? We'd better not approach guys like you in that case. What do you expect her to do so that you don consider her 'shy' then?