Going White

That is the dumbest thing you've said so far. So where does a responsibility for your own sour ass behavior come in? If I didn't have a father at home would I be absolved from being college educated and finding a decent job? Would I have your permission to act the fool in the streets and be in and out of jail because my dad wasn't around?
Being kind and decent has absolutely nothing to do with having a father or not.

 

Family status is one among many factors that can influence outcomes. So is the quality of the parents you have, economics, etc. There are many two-parent families that are sheer hell as well. These things can influence results, but we cannot claim them as justification, b/c as you said, at the end of the day, we are ultimately responsible for ourselves. But that doesn't mean we should not concern ourselves with providing the best possible set of influences.

 

true but how long to you get use your father as a reason to be a shitty human being? Shit I know people with both parents who are shitty people, shitty people use whatever excuse necessary to be mean and fucked up. It ultimately is a choice at some point. Unlike employment and education its 100% internal.

 

No doubt. No matter how shitty the past was, you can't rely on that to justify being shitty tomorrow.

 

Sistagirl mantra for 40 years is "I don't need a man."

BW grow up without a father and it's automatically the man's fault.

Alrighty then.

 

lets see how long. the bw who comes from a broken home meets you who believe that you dont need to take care of a kid that you help bring in the world...how long will she hold on to that.

she was abandoned once then you abandon her like her dad did...but this time you abandoned her with a kid.

you cool with that right?

 

Abandoned who? Wtf are you talking about? I don't have any kids. Guilty conscience fam? Work that out with your baby's mama, stop projecting.
And I can't abandon anyone who chooses to have a kid against my will, they make their choices all on their own. If I wanted to keep the kid tough titties because it's all her choice. If you have 100% of the choice then shouldn't you have 100% of the responsibility?

 

yup pretty much sums it up

 

you are gonna play dumb now?

you know good and well you said you shouldnt be responsible for getting a woman preggy?

typical ....guys dont want to be held accountable for crap but cry scape goat when they get called out.
my daughter and i are great. thanks. lol

 

Goodlove you're embarassing yourself kid. I never said that. One more time I don't believe in a scenario where I have zero choice in the outcome should I be at be responsible for said outcome. If the kid is already here and/or it was a mutual decision to have the kid I fully intend to support my child. Clear enough for you?

 

It depends entirely on the woman. I love strong confident women that still allow me to be manly, take control and like dominate at times. White women seem to make me a lot happier

 

It's the superiority complex. It's not enough that they are glorified above Black women in every aspect of society and media, they must also feel they have the power to turn Black women's natural counterparts against them. Without the love and attention from Black men, what do Black women really have?

 

Idk. You are a bw, so you tell us.

 

It's a tribal thing, very few men with pride will view outside women, women who come from the seed of another tribe or race of men, as being innately superior to that which comes from him and men like him.
Black men are not only the creators of Black women, but they are in turn created by Black women. So how much pride can a man have if he suggests the women created by Anglo Saxon men are superior or can turn him away from his own kind?

 

Why are you here? To blame your failures with men on WW? To try to say that bm owe you a date just because you are black?

 

Do you ever stop telling Black men et al., how to think and what to do?
From birth to death, Black men are harangued by damn near everybody, damn near every day.
Bore off already and let them BE.THEM.

 

I don't know if it's what you girls are eating or something in the water, but White women are birthing far more girls than boys. In the USA there are currently 4 million more available WW, than WM. Add to that White men's enduring love for Asian women... I believe these are big reason why white women have "suddenly" become open to Black men. Though you girls still have the lowest IR percentages of any women in the USA, Canada and UK. White men complain, but white women are by far the most racially loyal women on the planet. Asian men have something to complain about and Back women date out 50% more than white women do.

 

I've seen and heard some venomous hatred from BM, aimed at BW in IR. The term Bed Wench comes to mind, followed by death threats.

 

But if you feel now that WW are your natural counterpart and not Black women, how can anything Black women do make your head explode or annoy you?

 

I know of Black men who beat their mother's white boyfriend and threw him out the house, simply for being white and daring to love their mother. I often see BM attacking BW, for having IR, they also call these BW's biracial children mutts and hybrids. Maybe you hang with Bm who share your deep love for WW, so they have no dog in the fight. But the majority of Black men seek BW for relationships especially BM who want Black children, these men certainly don't like WM getting with BW. Not all, but it seems to be a growing minority of BM use phrases like Bed Wench, Ghetto Gagger and slave ho, regularly used against BW in IR.
Youtube is filled with this poison from BM.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYDwZvC1cFg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJcOARqc5uQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5v-5YhPau4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9d9w1e9-q0