Gentlemen...

When you add those words it doesn't make it to complimentary

 

Held the door open for these two BANGIN hot white chicks the other day while I was at the mall. They were nice enough to say thank you. Chivalry is alive & well.

 

No he's not. I've tried to keep my comments on guys I like to a minimum, because basically I've given up on finding a BM. Why? They don't seem to give me the time of day. My chances of finding a BM appear to be slim-to-none at this point. I've accepted that.

As for his friends, I have hung out with his friends on more than one occasion and he has hung out with a friend of mine. The friends part is okay, since I don't act my age anyway. LOL.

The flirting part is fun! :smt023

He seems to be showing an interest in me and as for the maturity level: he's matured quite a bit.

About a year or so after he started, the wife of a now ex-coworker of ours told me once, "I really wish so-and-so was a few years older and you were a few years younger. You guys would be perfect together". Since that time, he's matured and he has made comments to the extent of he should be older.

I don't really know what he's looking for at this point. That's not something that we've discussed.

We shall see!

 

That's really weird to me. You're a cute girl and see girls far less attractive finding bm easily. Maybe its the places you go but anyway good luck kid hope it works out the way you want.

 

That's very sweet of you to say, MF. Thanks. :-D

To be honest, I haven't been putting my best foot forward for quite awhile. After the last guy, I decided to stop looking for someone. He just messed me up a bit by how he broke up with me, and I needed some time to heal.

I'm all better now, though I still don't have my mojo back. I'm working on it!

 

I don't quite understand your point Appiah??

 

Your mojo will come back... Your one hot tomalie,,,,,, let that mojo shine.:smt047

 

I want my change to be quarters so I can play the slot machines while the stuck up ladies stand.. :smt003

 

Lol this guy

 

The words all that jazz is normally associated to things uncomplimentary e.g. "he said has no time for me and had to work late and all that jazz" so ending your sentence with all that jazz made the door opening and chivalry stuff you mentioned sound uncomplimentary no need for eye rolling

 

Easier said than to believe but all things happen in time as long you believe. Some call it fate or karma or kismet but as long as you have the hope, desire, and fire, there's always the chance that your glowing ember will burst into a loving flame.

 

Beautifully said.

 

shibby

 

Me not being a veeeeery social and outgoing person I don't constantly run into guys but from the few recent encounters it appears that it is very split.
Some men have gentleman manners,but there's also a good amount of men who don't.
It does appear a little that men mid 30s and older generally behave more gentle-man like (of course there are exceptions on both younger and older end,and maybe the part of the world one lives in and it's values and ethics there play a role).
Would be interesting to see if the now 20 something years olds may change towards that direction or not. Maybe it's a maturity/values matter that can still develop....or it could be a generation and society matter.