And yet she's got 390 subscribers and 403 friends. The woman in the other YouTube video he posted "Sahbisun" has 2,009 Subscribers
:smt006you can count lippy on this one...i can't admire a bm that talks badly about bw(as a group) just because they feel the need to one up the sistas on another forum...when the bm here get down on that level it makes me really sad i would like to think that you all a bit more intelligent... i appreciate ajax being man enough to stand up and say something when it is obviously not a popular stance around here...good for you in your choice of the road less traveled
First and foremost, when BW talk bad about BM, I don't feel the urge to fire back and say the same about them. Secondly, there's all kinds of people out there that won't like you whether you're a BM, BW, Asian, etc. Its okay to defend yourself. Do it at your discretion. Some like to confront conflicting scenarios and turn it into something more. I just don't care what the negative comments BW (or anyone hating one me) are saying about BM. I'm not much of one to go and play fair by tit-for-tatting the negativity because it gets nowhere. As for replying with constructive criticism, that's another thing. Basically, I'm not going to bring up BW and tell others about how they talk about us and then mention how I feel the same way about them as they do about me. It gets me nowhere. Let them [them being whoever has their distaste for me] say what they want. Unless I've done something directly to them to harm them physically or something similarly devastating, I probably won't take their words into consideration. It goes in one ear and out the other.
Man, I gotta throw you mad respect for catching that. As obvious as it was, a lot of people missed what was going on. I mean the level of disrespect that she was showing that Brother every time she flipped her hands across his face, and he wasn't even interested in her. And the girl he was dancing with didn't mind him dancing with her. She just wanted this Brother to stop dancing with the White girl. He had three choices: one, walk away; two, knock her the hell out (which was probably her plan to get him put in jail, but brotherman was too smart for that); or three which wouldn't have occurred to me, was to call some of his ghetto girlfriends to come and woop her tail. Cause I can tell you right now, that Sister thought she had an angry evil plan for every idea he came up with to get his respect back. I'm just glad that the bouncer, the white bouncer by the way, went to the source of the problem and threw her ass out. As a side note, there's only a few White Women in the world who absolutely know the truth of how controlled an African American Man has to be when it comes to his temperament when dealing with a Woman such as that. And no matter what anybody tries to say, those type of Women are in plentiful supply in the African American community. And if you don't believe me, in terms of the temperament, two things: the fact that that bouncer went to the source of the problem means that he's seen that action from that type of Woman before, meaning African American Women trying to run the same game like it's brand new. And two: when she raised up on the bouncer? Did you see his level of anger raise? Although he had to control it as well. So no Man, no matter what the color, is immune to be angered by these type of Women.
BA has some real posts fam. I cosign 90 percent of the shit he says. Now if were to ask people the same question about you....
I spoke to my grandmother yesterday. As I spoke with her, I thought to myself, I've had less than flattering experiences with the sistas, but do I hate them, do I wish great evil to all BW? Yes, at times I tend to pain with a broad brush (esp. to the hip hop generation of BW). I thought about my mothers (biological and step), aunts, great aunts, cousins and my baby sister. I thought about the woman who taught me to rollerskate at age 7. I think about the Black women in my short 28 years on Earth and I ask myself do I hate them? No, I don't hate them, frustrated at them, yes. Yes, it pisses me off when a BW passes off a good man in favor of a homothug. Yes I make fun of BW when they do stupid shit and even stupider shit like taking relationship advice from a third-rate comedian and a man who cheated on his wife with another man. It pisses me off when these butch militant sistas poison their minds about how no-good and how much of a dog we are. It pisses me off when BW of that ilk tell well-meaning sistas that they don't need a man. It pisses me off when faux-psychologists and egg-headed academics tell me that I have to like those who aren't attractive for the sake of political correctness. But you know, I have no interest in BW (yes, I am attracted to the light-skinned beauty queens and refuse to apologize for that), but there are waaay too many gorgeous women in the world to have such hangups and to be pissed off over bullshit, because at the end of the day, that's what it all is. So, to the trolls, racist WM, bitter, insecure sistas, etc, I like WW, Asian Women and Latin women. I like attractive women period. If you don't like it, fuck off!
It seems to be the younger (hip-hop) generation of BW (those born in the '70s and later) who have no clue. Many have been taught wrong. I've had ill feelings towards them based on my experiences. I have to let them go in order for me to move on with my life. However, that won't stop me from making fun of them when they do stupid shit as posted above.
FlamingH and Chicity do have valid and legit points. We have to expose the foolishness and hypocrisy on behalf of all the haters.