french shemale

:smt038 I agree.

 

Gay/Bi/Transgender people are not all confused.

What would you do if one of your children decided he/she was bi/gay or wanted to change gender? Hmm...

 

You know not everyone here believes in god, so that doesn't have much strength. I thought you Christians were meant to be tolerant of all people and love everyone... Blah.

 

I'm glad you would still love them despite your religious beliefs

That counselling to turn gay people straight doesn't sit well with me.

 

As I'm always told when it comes to people harassing me on here, if you don't like it, ignore it. While you may find it personally offensive for someone to be a transgendered individual, you do not have to read her posts or respond to them. If you don't want to be associated with her, fine, don't talk to her. If you don't want her opinion, don't ask for it.

Everyone has the right to do what makes them happy. If "he" wants to be a "she" then it really has no bearing on your existence whatsoever. It's not like she wants to marry you or your children. She's just words on a screen. Live and let live isn't such a bad thing.

 

Preach it! :smt038

 

My POINT was that this person is a PERSON NOT AN IT.

:smt006 Maybe you will have a better time in a "ChristanWomen & ChristianMen" forum. Who in here is gay anyway?

So why are you even saying, "If this is a site for gay & bi sexual persons"????

You're reading people's mind's now?

 

I understand that wasn't your point, but my point is why bother with it if it bothers you so much? It's really a waste of time, darlin. We've got a white guy from holland who runs around here, too, and most people either ignore him or are at least sorta cordial most of the time.

What "this site" thinks about anything really doesn't matter, either. The point of a forum is to bring together people with different views and walks of life for discussion...if she doesn't harass anyone, or insult anyone, or spout racist remarks, then I don't see an issue with her being around here. You and I hold vastly different opinions about a lot of things, especially concerning things of this nature, but I don't take offense at your presence. If I don't want to read something you say, I really don't have to. I personally take offense at people who dislike homosexuality, bisexuality, and transgendered people because my opinion is the opposite end of the spectrum, but I don't dwell on it. There are way too many opinions out there that bother me, but I can't change other people. I can only concern myself with me, you know?

 

She's actually nice. She got yelled at initially for using the word "slut" and we explained to her that it's a bad word in English, so she gracefully apologized and changed her post. Very ladylike.

 

Point taken ladies, I'm going to leave It alone, going forward, I do like this forum so far and I won't leave over this, not yet anyway. I will ignore it. I am not offended. You all tend to be thinking I'm upset, I'm not at all, I'm just re-evaluating what my opinion of this forum is.

OK, I deleted my posts, I'm not exactly backing down from what I said, I just decided not to leave it up, no need to get everyone upset. If you all would be so kind as to delete my quotes, that might be nice, do what you think best.

By the way someone says that Christians are supposed to be tolerant, Well Sarah, Loving people is not necessarily accepting their actions as good. If you really care about people, accepting everything anyone does or says as OK would not be healthy. So I don't! Some things just are more self destructive than others.

I have seen people become so self destructive that they are now dead, from suicide. I don't think it's health, or good to "tolerate" everything out there.

 

Well it's not a Christian forum.

 

Well, in some instances, the person in question is either a man or a woman...depending on your definition...biological, phsycological, physical.

But, she identifies as a woman, believes she is a woman, behaves like a woman. She will legally be defined as a woman upon which time the laws in France allow that (be it after surgery, I would assume), and obviously likes BM. If that's what she wants to be known as, then that's what she is.

There may be BM on here who consider her a woman in every sense of the word...She chose to let us know she is a shemale and we would have never known otherwise. If she's trying to hook up, then it's probably an important thing to let people know if anyone tries to talk to her with the view of a further relationship.

EDIT: My point was, if she considers herself a woman, then a woman she is...and is therefore welcome to post. As is anyone who is respectful of the purpose of the board. Come one come all!

 

For Pete's sake, we're white women who sleep with black men. Aren't we used to being condemned and judged left and right for following our hearts? Let's not judge someone else for doing the same.

 

You are right, and I'm not trying to make it that, I'll keep my religious remarks as much as possible to that section from now on.

 

thanks for your opinion, its very human and open mind ,i'm feeling like a woman and that's my life, shemale or trans what's the problem?, and i'm very disapointed and so sad by the effects of some words and but you can see here that's not win for women ,for gays,lesbians and transexuals (mtf/ftm) in this world !!!!
sorry for my bad english

 

As a Christian..you have to understand that when you like dropping your religious opinions and views on people, some will accept but many will criticize your views. My theory is to let God decide....I am not the judge and I am not worthy to forecast who the Lord will and won't allow into the kingdom of Heaven.

We as people of faith often castigate gays, lesbians, trans-gendered people etc. because we THINK we know what God wants....it is awfully presumptuous of us THINK we do know.

 

I don't mind the criticism of my views, I was simply trying to decide if I wanted to continue to be active here. At this point, I'm still undecided. It's only been one day.

I think scripture is very clear on this and we don't have to THINK we know what God wants.

 

And keeping opinions to oneself doesn't remove the tendency of us Christians to look down our noses at people that are "different." It wasn't all that long ago that Christians thought Jews were evil...but because of Muslims and oil....ideological conservative Christians (what is the difference between that and ideological conservative Muslims...and no not the crazy ones that misuse the Qu'ran) now love Jews..ignoring the bigotry that had occured for generations both in the U.S. and Europe.

 

See my new thread in the religion section please.

 

Scripture also says that we should stone adulterers and children that disrespect their parents and not allow illegitimate children into the church.