For newcomers: What did I do right?

I don't think I ever got 'hazed' here. I found it quite comfortable and welcoming. Which is good, because I'd be sad if I'd missed out on meeting such awesome personalities.

My advice to newbies (on any forum) is to go slow. Join in conversations, but don't try to muscle in and take over. Don't try to rub your personality or views in everyone's face right from the word go. Take it easy, let people get to know you, then slap 'em in the face with your point of view and beliefs...but make sure they're accompanied by appropriate funny gifs (or a sexy one to distract people from you shitty post :smt043).

 

All this up above. Even delivered her point with her own unique brand of humor. Imma try to rep you, but if I can't I owe you. :smt038

 

You were just cool, you took everything in stride, you didn't come in trying to PRESENT yourself, or trying to impress anyone. You showed a sense of humor, sexiness (which is always good) the ability to carry a conversation....

...really that's all that is needed.

You didn't come in with this idea that you are some how different or better, or more enlighted because you are attracted to black men. I truly enjoy Tree Pixie. You are up there with my favs.

Tam, FG, Tarshi-bear, Sin, stiletoes, Booky, lippy, [yes I said lippy] and Espy.....I'm a fan of Espy even if she pisses me off. (and we argued like shit when I first came here). (and a few others I can not think off off the top of my head)

I enjoy you, glad you came here.

 

Yes ma'am!
ha!

 

:smt060you are saying that like someone might actually question you on that selection...pffft...i know you love me...what's not to love (no need to go into details here or make a list...never said i was perfect...lol)

 

Oh you know I love me some lippy. he he he

You know people come in and the new dudes are mostly looking for some easy white pussy, try to be too street or TOO sensitive, nice guy kiddie bull shit. The women...looking for a lil Negro attention. Maybe a few cock pics...

...the ones who simply come in to get their chat on always end up the ones to are the best to simply talk with.

the are a few on this site I simply enjoy.

 

Thank you! I think if someone presents themselves as being superior because they are attracted to black men - there's a racist element there, you know? Because they are seeing the guy as black first and a man second. There's already way too much of that in this country as it is.

 

Aren't we all looking for a few of those? :smt112

Ooo...I forgot, we now have a thread for that! *runs off to view*

 

birds of a feather...

 

:smt043

 

:smt023

ROFL, pretty much sums it up.

Guess some sign up expecting maybe an interracial orgy sex fest of Babalonyian proportions in the topics being discussed.

Once you actually have to introduce yourself, have actual discussions, etc, it becomes too much effort for them.

 

For newcomers: What did I do right?........................

mmmmmm, smiles.


alexis

 

Don't be annoying, don't be insulting and stay away from stereotypes and you'll be good.

 

Hey!! I know I'm ancient and all, but seriously, if there is a Babylonian Orgy going on around here and I didn't get an invite, I'm gonna be seriously offended!

 

there used to be a time when everyone new was welcome...that was before points...green boxes...rep...mods happened...it used to not be about pictures infact no one posted pictures...it was just all topic dialogue

 

LOL

Your invite will be RSVP'd Pixie, no need to worry.

 

ain't no one messing with my popularity points and shiny badge...!!!

 

BM luv TinkerBell.:smt055

 

ROFL!! Thanks. And to GQ as well, I'd hate to be left out of the orgy.

No one's taking Tarshi's badge - we need it to deflect the sunshine coming out of her arse or we'll all be blinded by more than her beauty.

 

:smt043:smt043

you flatter me, pixie my love...!!!!