Fatten Him Up

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by satyr, Dec 4, 2011.

  1. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    Are we going to see those magnificient melons anytime soon.
     
  2. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    So much BULLSHIT being spilled in this thread, I don't care who I offend I need to say my peace lol.

    First and foremost, I just knew some female on here would post a pic of a skinny girl with an eating disorder (to put skinny girls in a bad light). I just KNEW IT haha.

    Secondly, I keep hearing from some females on here "oh a lot of my guy friends prefer bigger women". Siiiigh. Again, it goes back to what I was saying. A lot of guys arent that picky. They just want pussy. A lot of these thirsty ass mofos are desperate and not picky at all.

    And just to say again, women do NOT wear extra weight well AT ALL. Anyone with a brain(and standards) can tell you that extra weight on women goes to their arms, thighs, face, neck, ankles(soon to be knackles) and of course their belly as well (sorry bookworm)
     
  3. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    Ideal body types imo. I usually dig the thin, skinny, petite, toned, athletic types (with blonde hair):smt054


    Kristen Bell

    [​IMG]


    Hayden Panettiere

    [​IMG]

    Erin Andrews

    [​IMG]
     
  4. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    No shit Sherlock. Like I said, there are some men out there that LOVE and are okay with fat, out of shape women. They will fuck anything that moves. Most men however prefer slim and petite women that are in shape.
     
  5. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Thanks love much respect
     
  6. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    I don't discount this statement, but I think you will agree that when we are younger, say in our 20"s, when many people marry, physical looks were very important. What we see by a viisual inspection goes further than just "are they hot?" We look for youth, excellent health, evidence of virility or fertility, etc. As we get older, some of those things just don't matter as much any more. We are less superficial. Well, maybe not everyone.

    I can and do still attract slimmer men, and if I met one that I really clicked with, I wouldn't walk away because he's not built like what I prefer. But my eye is typically drawn to something different.

    Tastes do change. What I am attracted to now is vastly different than what I was attracted to in my 20's because I'm a different person now. And then, sometimes we simply can't be attracted to what we used to be because it doesn't exist: I used to be attracted to guys with dark hair. At my age, most guys don't have ANY hair much less dark hair!

     
  7. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Doesn't say much for a lot of men now, does it? And they say women are shallow.


     
    Last edited: Dec 9, 2011
  8. swirlman07

    swirlman07 Well-Known Member


    You are guilty of changing the dynamics of the discussion, lol. The issue is solely about body types, not physical appearances, and not about what life style we want at different points in our lives. The whole point of the pictures was to show different body types. For that reason, the analogy of hair doesn't work, because, again, that's not the discussion, for the moment.

    Now, to an answer, no, my tastes have no changed since I was in my 20's because I've always considered the traits of a person I dated as the most important aspect of dating. But, what I desired as a body type and experienced hasn't changed through that period of time. Why would it, if that's what I was attracted to?

    By the way, even as people age, I believe that most associate vitality, youthfulness and general health by body type, whether rightly or wrongly.
     
  9. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Body type is part of physical appearance to me, so I disagree. But I'm too tired to argue, so carry on.

     
  10. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    B

    S
     
  11. swirlman07

    swirlman07 Well-Known Member

    Agreed, but that has nothing at all to do with the fact that the discussion is not about general appearances...as per the title of the thread. But, carry on.
     
  12. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    Just how old are you by the way?
     
  13. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    Say what???:confused: Umm that doesn't make men shallow at all, that makes a lot of them accepting of ALL types of chicks. How is this hard to follow again?
     
  14. satyr

    satyr New Member

    Iggy, pretend that you went to a better school and stop posting pictures of the unattainable women who turn you on.

    I also think that women are way more forgiving of male physical shortcomings than men are of women, largely because we aren't as highly valued for our good looks.
     
  15. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Only if we have other things to compensate with but usually that's after getting to know us. Everyone is shallow on first impressions.
     
  16. christine dubois

    christine dubois Well-Known Member

    True...in my 20s, I was attracted to very slim men, too, I didn't like the musculaire body types. But I assume the reason was that I was that skinny type, too and a much bigger man made me feel like a mouse.. Today I am between slim and curvy and it also changed my male type of man..
     
  17. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    Yeah if the man has a huge bank account, its all good. Come on how naive are you?

    And while those 3 women I posted are definitely unattainable, I do date ww with similar petite toned body types (that are also blonde):cool:
     
  18. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    Since Chesbay said the same thing am i to assume that as women grow their expectation of the physical attributes of a man is lowered? Am i also to assume that women choose their men base on THEIR (i mean the women) body structure?
     
  19. christine dubois

    christine dubois Well-Known Member

    Sorry, the first sentence I don`t understand...to the second, I can only say, how I felt in my 20s and how I feel today. Many times I've heard other women saying that the body of her and her man fit in each other, perfectly. So, I think I am not the only one feeling/thinking like that.

    On the other hand I see several couples on the street that don't fit visual together in any way. He very skinny, she overweight..

    Apropos, I was always impressed, how respectful older people are treated on your continent. It's sad, how you always have to battle for that older people (men and women) are not automatically ugly or less valuable than younger ones..
     
  20. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    you do change a little with the time on what you like .. when i was a teen and up to 25... i will not even bother to look or care about any man that does not fit what i liked then (only i can count from just looking as was married very young so can not talk about relationships) .. now i just maybe more open to more looks ..
     

Share This Page