Dumb things I have seen on dating website

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by stiletoes, Dec 5, 2012.

  1. roadlesstraveled

    roadlesstraveled New Member

    I've had as many dates from a site that's not technically a dating site as from actual dating sites, and for the most part I've had more success with the ladies I met from the non-dating site. In fact, the only unpleasant dating experiences I've had have been from a popular, advertised dating site. Two really memorable ones: One woman was super insecure, thinking I found her unattractive, and always wondering if I was talking to another girl (which I wasn't). No, she wasn't what I typically go for, but she was cute and I wanted to get to know her. Her personality, though, was definitely unattractive. So that ended pretty quickly. Another lied about her age, and ended up getting ME in trouble. That was CRAZY, and there's a long story behind it. It's a shame though because she was really attractive and I'd say there were sparks.
     
  2. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    Some guy has been sending me emails on this one dating website for the last couple of days and I've very politely said that I'm not interested and te fact that he lives in South Africa just wouldn't work even if I were interested.

    I woke to this message this morning:

    "Distance too great for what? Don't you believe in romance? I would move to Australia if I found the right gal! My brother already lives in Perth! A lot of whites want to leave S.A."

    Really?

    I mean, REALLY????

    Then someone is Manama, Bahrain contacts me, wanting to date and is 29

    Got a guy from Jamaica who is coming over for a holiday and wants a hook up

    Just pathetic
     
  3. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL. i was just using colors as an example of how to change a question into a more open ended convo.

    oh so tell me ...


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    whats your sign?
     
    Last edited: Dec 9, 2012
  4. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    Well at least you know that he's willing to travel lol. That's gotta count for something.

    Also your new avi is awesome.
     
  5. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Speaking of people who shouldn't be dating because their life is not in order, their is an influx of preggo women looking for their free rides and meal tickets. If I was a single pregnant woman, I would be scorned like a motherfucka and dating wouldn't even cross my mind.
     
  6. buglerroller

    buglerroller Well-Known Member

    I'd date a preggo lady, at least I know it's not mine.
     
  7. FG

    FG Well-Known Member


    HAHAHAHAH!! You guys crack me uuupppp!!!!!!
     
  8. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    Recently one guy made it his mission to only write to me in poetry form.
    Everything would rhyme and there would be hidden meanings that I kept missing.
    That gave me a bit of a headache.
    Eventually I stopped responding.
     
  9. luvattractivewomen

    luvattractivewomen New Member

    Wow... I can't believe I forgot about those types. I used to find it amusing when they get mad at you for not being interested. I put "No pregnant women" on a couple profiles but they aren't likely to read your profile. So they message you anyway. What has happened to the world?
     
  10. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    Some people seem to like a challenge,to be the one to change a person's mind about something.

     
  11. luvattractivewomen

    luvattractivewomen New Member

    If a woman is looking for friends while pregnant, then have at it I guess. But, I find it rather annoying when some come on there to find a man to fill in the void their "baby-daddy" left. In my younger years I was naive and idiotic and thought, "Everyone deserves a chance". So, I dated a pregnant woman. It didn't last long, but I found that she wanted me to play taxi driver, pay for things her "baby-daddy" should have paid for and so on. It lasted for about two weeks. She asked if we could still be friends and my optimistic dumb-ass said, "Sure". Needless to say she kept requesting the same things. I learned a valuable lesson from that. Man... I was dumb back then.
     
  12. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

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    Lesson learned!
     
  13. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    That's why I absolutely hate when any woman calls me nice. It just equals chump ass dude who will do shit when the guy I really wanted won't.
     
  14. luvattractivewomen

    luvattractivewomen New Member

    LOL, I'm still a nice and approachable person. I just believe the one place to maintain prejudice is when finding a partner. You have to weed out the bad ones. I also believe that one of the reason why unemployed dudes who live in their parent's basement, and pregnant women or even "baby-mamas" looking for a meal ticket have no issues contacting people on dating sites is because we are pretty much no longer allowed to have shame. You can't shame anyone, you don't have to have any shame, and if someone says that you are wrong you are just judging them and you are a bad person for it. Dating and choosing a partner that you wish to be with for the rest of your life is the one time you should judge. Oh well...
     
  15. luvattractivewomen

    luvattractivewomen New Member

    Indubitably
     
  16. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    you're such a nice guy

























































    you chump arse dude :smt023:freehug:
     
  17. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    So not my friend right now lol
    But real talk girls would never ask the guys who treat like them shit to that kind of bs but they'll still let them fuck. Plain and simple rule is save all that inconvenient kindness for someone who is willing to be inconvenienced for you.
    Nice guys get no love. Just the way it is.
     
  18. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL. hell yeah. it is also saying this in reality
    " thanks for buying me dinner and fronting me money I will not pay back. btw I need a ride to this place...Im gonna go suck this guys dick who never done anything for me at all because he doesnt have a job and he looked so cool and yes .....you are a simp"
     
  19. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Amen sir. And women are so often baffled why they keep meeting shitty guys lol
     
  20. Caerdydd

    Caerdydd Active Member

    More reality, there are plenty of guys who enjoy treating women like shit but I also suspect there are plenty of guys who would rather be good to their women but "feel forced" into becoming a holes as their women would leave them. Unfortunately I'm speaking from experience.
     

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