do's and dont's for men in the nite club

LOL, The music today and always have been for a certain demographic. You would be surprised how many clubs are playing old school music. there is one club in bham called " bell bottoms" they play a variety but primarily early 90's 80's and 70's music. That place would be packed with folks from ages 25 to about early 40's.

there is a club called onas (jazz club) that place stay packed with the older crowd. 30 - 50 and mostly working class and professionals. primarily a black club BUT there are a few whites couples hanging out. they have white jazz bands there as well as black. all types of jazz so it is popping.

To a pt Im like you Im not BIG on clubs....I usually meet women at stores, the university Im attending, art galleries ect... because there is no cover charge and women dont expect to get hit on at those places most of the time.

 

cool avatar

 

yes, dont stalk a woman...that is creepy. you can watch her every move so you can see for an opportunity to meet her but stalking...damn

the dress code must be followed. you dont have to have $1000 outfit to be crisp but even if you have one you can look jacked up...how see statement above

 

Sorry, I misread the "don't take a date to the club" part.

 

Oh ok. I know I can say some wacked out shit sometimes. LOL.

secret between me and you...dont tell anybody Im saying this....but half the times my shit is just joking. LOL.

hell I laugh at myself and say "did i say that" (in the urkel voice)

 

Yeah, I've been hearing about clubs playing old school. My friend was telling me about a club that plays mainly funk. I would be hella down to go, but my friend moved away.

To quote Nate Dogg, "This is where I wanna be".

 

agreed...i don't go to clubs because i feel ancient, and i also prefer to be able to have a conversation without yelling. i go to bars & pubs now

 

ahhh man that sounds cool. nate dogg is a bad bro.

I need to get my jerhi curl flat top together. LOL. OLD school baby

 

that is one thing about clubs I hate. especially when it hits after 10:00 hour. that is when they crank it up. It is a good spot to meet people for whatever situations especially when you vacation.

 

as a matter of fact I feel like doing the Roger rabbitt

 

I dont like competing with the music either but at least at the club there is some expectation that women will get hit on.

as far as ancient why would you feel that way. as stated earlier there are other types of clubs that are conducive for you. BA hit it on the head when he stated that hip hop clubs would be out of the question for someone our age. I would even go as far as 30 and above is too old for hip hop clubs. HH clubs are fairly new realtively speaking

 

As rapper Ron Browz says in a song...No Hand Cuffin' in the Club. Meaning dont catch feelings if you see another guy flirting with the same girl you are trying to mack to. It's all fair game. Just cause you got there first doesn't mean you're who she's gonna choose/go home with/give the digits to....:smt011

 

LOL. good rule for the players

 

for the players that dont know what to do when you got a guy who is playing the sheriff handcuffing a female you will need to wait for a female to go to the bathroom or go to the bar ect...when ever she breaks away from a dude do your grenade macking.

grenade macking is spitting your game real quick and give her your card and move on.

I heard there are several types of handcuffing a female.

the ike turner/gorilla pimping handcuffing- you know. where you going. you cant go .
chili pimping- following a female around
tricking handcuffing- buying shit to hope that she is standing around

LOL.