Does X Date Black Men?

Taken from another thread:

No they don't and even if they did, so what? A woman still has to like you individually.

I never approach a woman with the intent of learning whether or not she is attracted to black men. Truth to be told, most black men don't give women of any stripe (black, white, Chinese, Malaysian) the incentive to want to date us exclusively. What does it matter if she is or isn't generally attracted to black men? It doesn't and should be as immaterial to your concerns as it is to mine.

Work on your intellectual skills, wit, manners, and address shortcomings (we all have them). Get those insecurities out of your head and you'll be better than all your peers and may actually get the woman you want, rather than just gaze at them with no hope.

 

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You misunderstood what he wrote. The thread was about how am I suppose to know if this person is racist.

And what he was saying that its hard to tell racist women from non-racist women.

 

All of this applies to women too. Awesome post.

 

well said, however i believe that thread was talking about the initial encounter between the individuals, you can be as well mannered, witty and intellectual as the next guy, that doesn't mean that particular woman won't have some stigma or prejudice toward a particular group or another. and how are we as black men supposed to know? you seem to say that like all women will be as opened minded as the beautiful ladies on this site. its like jazz vs metal you make like one but not the other, thats preference.

 

Just because a white woman doesn't date black men doesn't make her racist.

 

Truth.

 

I know that. Thats not what the thread was about.

 

Excellent point.My mom for instance is not attracted to black men and has never dated IR.However she isn't racist.The 3 men I was serious with and brought home she treated repectfully and kindly.
Not a racist.Just not interested in IR dating

 

Black men don't come with a sign saying"I date white women" either. I may give little hints to let him know I find him attractive and see how he reacts.