Does she like a brotha:What I learned

*Update*
Hey guys,

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=20679
Basically you were right. The women I mentioned in that post I think was trying to be friendly. I finished my workout and just went to say hello in her office today. I haven't seen here in six weeks or so due to work.She is a sales person at the gym I workout at. We never really talked before. She said something "hey nice to see you. Go ahead and have seat." Etc.... Again, we never talked before and she's telling me about how she likes the sales job, her sister getting married, and just life. I was suprised that she seemed confortable with me. Basically getting to know each other. She is seeing one of the personal trainers there. So I couldnt ask her to lunch.

What I learned as a man is if a women shows interest, do not wait. She will lose her interest. As a guy, I just had to except that certain females don't see you as a boyfriend and just as a friend. My old workout partner was very very pretty, but she just saw me as a friend/person to workout with. I had to learn to accept that. I never hung with her or bothered her outside the gym. We texted each other every once in a while, but that was it. I really really liked her hard. Either or I also learned to talk to as many women as possible and don't think to much. Sorry for the long post.

 

Are you?

 

:::Light Bulb Moment::: :smt115

Just being genuinely friendly and outgoing without expecting anything out of it makes everyone's day better...taking you to some places in some instances. Good to see you are understanding this.

If anyone gives me eye contact, I make it a point to atleast smile and say hello, wasup or a head nod.

 

even if they're a mannequin huh

 

:smt081

Even mannequins deserve a polite hello.

 

:smt043

 

Thanks for the update shman.

Northside you keep being friendly and one of those mannequins will notice you one day and say yes to your advances. :mrgreen:

 

Hehe! :smt081 And the cool thing about mannequins is that their parts are removable! Maybe even interchangeable, like Mr. Potato Head. You can create your own custom mannequin! Not very cuddly though.