Do you see different interracial couples everday?

I live in smallish southern city and I see IR couples almost every time I go to Wal Mart, but not too much elsewhere.

 

I see different ones on a daily basis...mostly asian/white though. However, I do see black/white regularly too. I'm also noticing more variations like bm/aw, bw/lm, bw/am, ww/am and ww/lm. With so many latinas and asian women dating/marrying out, I think it's giving ideas to their men and creating shortages. Heard some areas in China have severe problems with overpopulation of men.

 

yes, I see them all over all the time--from Virginia to Philly, from NJ to NY and New england

everyday like normal here

 

While shopping last weekend, I saw a few IR (Black-white) couples, but all of them were BM/WW. According to some stat I read somewhere online, over 70% of Black-white marriages involve BM and WW. I wonder what these stats mean.


PS:
A link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_couple

 

I don't see many non whites here full stop, let alone many IR relationships. But when I do, it's usually BM/WW. The few black men I've seen here have either been alone, with other black men or with a white woman (I can think of only a hand full I've seen with bw or aw etc).

I previously posted some stats about IR relationships in the UK, I can't remember what they are now, but it was something like around 60% of bm in the UK have a ww partner, and this increases with bm from the Caribbean. Also, the UK has the highest birth rate of mixed race babies in Europe, possibly the world but again I can't remember.

 

on the rise

I saw a lot of these relationships and marriages when I was living in Germany during the mid-80's; I was a former military brat. I saw maybe 1 or 2 when I came back to the states, primarily NC. Where I went to high school, it was very segregated; I went to a school that was about 85% black, but I hung around the white students on and off campus.
I got several comments that I should not hang around the white students and be interested in the girls, but I ignored them. I no longer visit my old school because I heard it had racial problems and it is very segregated; I say it is now 98% black.
Now, back to the topic of interracial relationships, they're on the rise especially here. I see more and more of them while I drive around the area, which I do for a living, and I feel they will be the majority of marriages in due time, whether some like it or not.

 

Yes and no. On occasion I do, but it's usually during prime time hours when I do.

 

I would say that I see IR couples nearly every day where I live, however it's primarily wwbm.

 

Re: on the rise

I dont think that will ever be the case anywhere, especially not between blacks and whites.

 

I dont know, but that tends to be the pattern between blacks and whites in America, barring prohibition of bm/ww unions by legal or extralegal means.

 

Were I live i have seen pretty much everytype of interracial relationship; wf/am, wf/bm, bf/wm, bf/am, bm/af, bm/ME(middle eastern) F, etc. Cause here in the part of Michigan I live at there is alot of Indian/Pakistani/Asian/Middle Eastern people so I see a wide variety of interracial couples.

 

My god, I knew that it was somewhat more common in the UK, but I had no idea it was THAT serious. Do you know what the IR rate is for black women? Do you have any sources for these stats?

 

I googled for the stats, think they came from some national statistics department or something. I can't remember what the stats of IR are for bw, but they couldn't have been that amazing or I would probably have remembered.

 

GraphicsRat said:
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While shopping last weekend, I saw a few IR (Black-white) couples, but all of them were BM/WW. According to some stat I read somewhere online, over 70% of Black-white marriages involve BM and WW. I wonder what these stats mean.
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I think that one of the reasons for it is, many times, wm love to fuck bw but they often won't marry them. Most of them just want the sex. It's almost like it's some sort of interracial experimenting for them. You'd be surprised; some of the most bigoted, uptight wm have been there and done that. Many of them claim that they don't hate blacks and they are partially correct: some of them only hate black men.

I'm not saying that it's always like that because there is a wm on my job who's happily married to a bw. I notice that he doesn't have many white friends and he's more comfortable around blacks. But most of those same wm who give his kids funny looks are married and still trying to get laid with some of the black female secretaries there. White men fool around with black women just as much as bm fool around with ww. They just are less likely to make the full commitment of marrying them.

There is a street in southwest Atlanta named Metropolitan Parkway. That street is well-known for the black female prostitutes who strut up and down the area. It is in a predominately low-income, crime-ridden black neighborhood, but that street is very popular with white, suburban men. Now why do you think a wm from the suburbs would want to cruise up and down such a street? Hmmmmm....

As much as people are critical of bm/ww relationships, they should at least give bm credit for marrying the ww they're involved with. Even those who totally disagree with IR relationships should grudgingly give bm that much credit. Most bm who date ww aren't ashamed to go out in public with them. And they don't wait until there aren't many whites around before they approach them, either. That's totally different from SOME of the wm I see at work who wait until elevator doors are closed or until few bm are around before they make their move.

I'm not saying that all bm who are with ww are noble knights in shining black armor. There are some bm who won't admit their affairs with ww; and some of these bm are already married. But I am saying that bm are more likely to marry ww than a wm is to marry a bw. Why? I have no idea. It's not like we are going to lynch them or anything, hahaha.


Peace.

 

mosiah, did you write that book? You are so smart and always say the most intelligent things my brotha

 

I think that one of the reasons for it is, many times, wm love to fuck bw but they often won't marry them. Many bm are the same way about ww and they have complained about feeling used by bm as well. You said your deep affinity for ww was sparked just from watching IR porn, but I know you are ready to go the distance now. It'll be great for you when the fantasy finally becomes a reality. Most of them just want the sex. It's almost like it's some sort of interracial experimenting for them. You'd be surprised; some of the most bigoted, uptight wm have been there and done that. Many of them claim that they don't hate blacks and they are partially correct: some of them only hate black men. Yes, the the same goes for bm who hate wm but place ww on the apex of highest pedestal. The major difference is bm know ww do not hate wm so they must temper these sentiments while in their presence. Some bm have no qualms about ww who hate bw and give them free reign in their expressions and actions.

I'm not saying that it's always like that because there is a wm on my job who's happily married to a bw. I notice that he doesn't have many white friends and he's more comfortable around blacks. But most of those same wm who give his kids funny looks are married and still trying to get laid with some of the black female secretaries there. White men fool around with black women just as much as bm fool around with ww. They just are less likely to make the full commitment of marrying them. Some bw are curious about fucking and experimenting with wm to see if there's actually a difference in their sexual prowess, but don't want full time commitments from them either. I think more women tend to shun the hassles of dating IR than men.

There is a street in southwest Atlanta named Metropolitan Parkway. That street is well-known for the black female prostitutes who strut up and down the area. It is in a predominately low-income, crime-ridden black neighborhood, but that street is very popular with white, suburban men. Now why do you think a wm from the suburbs would want to cruise up and down such a street? Hmmmmm....There are also areas in NY where these same type of suburanites come looking for bw and bm for the same thing. A black male friend said ww cruise his neighborhood at "night" looking for bm, but don't want to be seen with them during daylight hours. It goes both ways. Look how ww will remain married to wm, but will fuck bm in their presence for entertainment purposes...but do NOT want to marry their "bulls". They can own a bm exclusively...down to his bone marrow without being committed, and many bm are all too willing to submit to these terms and conditions even when the white husbands display homosexual tendencies. I saw a photo with the caption "hubby helps out"...the wm was sucking the bm's dick to prepare him for his wife who was lying close by on the bed. Yes, white pussy is that precious and overpowering it seems.

As much as people are critical of bm/ww relationships, they should at least give bm credit for marrying the ww they're involved with. All of you do not want to marry ww you fuck, but yes, many bm are extremely willing if only the ww would desire the same. The supply of ww does not meet the demands though. Since many bm consider it a step up when marrying ww...sometimes they consider it a step down. Even those who totally disagree with IR relationships should grudgingly give bm that much credit. I definitely give you credit for wanting to lay full claim to ww...no doubt about that. Most bm who date ww aren't ashamed to go out in public with them. And they don't wait until there aren't many whites around before they approach them, either. There an intense pride when a bm has a ww on his arm...they know it and some does everyone else.That's totally different from SOME of the wm I see at work who wait until elevator doors are closed or until few bm are around before they make their move. Perhaps, but many ww are the same way and do not want to be seen in public with bm...that's why they formed a group called black fuck buddies on Yahoo for extremely discreet encounters with bm. I'll also see if I can find comments from a thread asking bm if they are willing to skulk around and hide in bushes when to dating ww.

I'm not saying that all bm who are with ww are noble knights in shining black armor. There are some bm who won't admit their affairs with ww; and some of these bm are already married. But I am saying that bm are more likely to marry ww than a wm is to marry a bw. Why? I have no idea. If you are honest and observe closely, you'll see that the majority of ww who have children with bm aren't married to them. If you read those vintage threads you'll find a comment from a bm acknowledging this trend. WW are now joining the ranks of bw who have been abandoned by bm to raise these children alone. It's going to be interesting to see what happens when this wave reaches the point of saturation.. It's not like we are going to lynch them or anything, hahaha. Nonblack men have told me of problems they've encountered with bm while out in public with bw. They worry more about violence from bm, while some bw might simply make comments. Big difference here. Yesterday I was in Harlem and observed a bm berating an indian looking woman for talking to a wm outside of the station. They were complete strangers, but he took that much offense and that woman wasn't even black. She hurried along and totally ignored him, but I couldn't get over him doing that.[/quote]

 

True, but neither bm nor wm have a monopoly on this sort of behavior. Neither, for that matter, do men, period. I'm sure you know that lots of bw who are in relationships with wm hate white womens' guts. I recall reading a thread on a forum for bw with biracial children where numerous bw stated that, although their children had white fathers, they would be horrified if their sons dated ww. On another occasion on the same site, a ww with a biracial child made a friendly introductory post, asking if she would be welcome to post on the site. Suffice it to say, she was told in no uncertain terms by a number of posters that she was MOST unwelcome. :lol:

You seem really fascinated by this cuckold subculture. :lol:

Certainly you realize that these people are a tiny minority, hardly representative of anything.

I dont how common these incidents are, but I've read numerous anecdotes on different forums about bw assaulting ww because they were with bm or had biracial children. One guy said that his white female roomate was severely beaten to point that she required skin grafts on her face after being jumped by several bw because she was with a bm. I also recall a post where a ww said that she was beaten by several black girls because she had a biracial baby. They actually beat her in front of the baby. :shock:

 

Well, Lexington, if you've seen all this nonsense you say, and if you know of so many people with race complexes and such, you should also see that our best bet is to step outside of the racial equation, and mix (or not) as we see fit.

Surely you can agree with that!

Yet you're constantly slandering bmww relations, and you're also willing to slander bm in the process. That's something you accuse bm of doing to bw, in your numbered list in the other thread. But it's okay when you do it right?

There, you also write that we can't get over the "rejection" we experienced in our youth -- yet here on whitewomenblackmen.com, it seems you can't get over the fact that we like white women, which from your perspective hurts like rejection...

You're desperate. If anything, you should be devoting your energies to strengthening bm/bw relations, instead of weakening wwbm relations.

You think you know so much about black men, yet you can't see your own complexes (and your own hypocrisy). All these stories you tell about what happened to others, but you have no clue what happened (and is happening) to you...

 

I'm not so sure of that.

Some of the posters used extremely hostile, racist language in addressing this woman, so it was bit more than her getting the "cold shoulder." I dont think she continued to post after that one thread, although one of the moderators did apologize for the rudeness of some of the posters.

I admittedly dont know much about this scene. How "real" is it? I cant imagine that there are more than a handful of people participating in this stuff.

I too feel sorry for the handful, if any, children that have ever been born from these liasons.

BM or WM? No. WW? Almost certainly yes.