Do you like a partner who can dance?

Do you find it attractive/sexy when you see someone or find out that someone can dance? Has someones/your dance moves ever lead to moves off the dance floor?

Personally I LOVE a man who can dance, I find it VERY sexy and I often find that people with good dance rhythm have good sex rhythm too. I adore dancing with my man, but we've never been to a club together. He said he'd like to watch me shaking my arse on the dance floor, but probably wouldn't like other men watching me shake my arse too!

 

ABSOLUTELY!!! If a guy can dance...that is a total turn on...and a sure fire way to get my skirt up past my hips!

Especially if they are dressed well, smell good, and have moves...uhhhgggg...strip me down now...lol...been a while.

 

This is one of those things that I pondered on a month or two ago. Why DO women like to dance? (More so than men.) What's the fascination? Is it because of the flirtation/exhibition dancing permits? Or is it the human equivalent of the pre-mating ritual other creatures exhibit?

Whats up with dancing?

:smt017

 

I would say that a woman is built to dance as our bodies are naturally more curvy and we're supposedly lighter, more nimble and better coordinated (this doesn't apply during pregnancy though!). And I suppose shaking your tail feather is quite similar to a peacock showing his feathers.

I agree with Ice_Ballerina, a man who can dance is a total turn on! If I watch a man with good moves, I immediately relate his dance floor style to his bedroom style. I also love a man dancing with me, pressed up against me. Not necessarily overtly sexually, but with just a hint of sexual tension...it's fantastic!

My man claims that "real pimps don't dance", even though he's actually good. I think it must Nigerian reserve.

 

yes, i have been rejected by the hip hop type of WW because i dont know how to dance to their music, many times.

but regular WW dancing to normal music genres or rock, pop or country, or slow music I dont have a problem

 

You dug up an old one!

Dancing is so fantastic, I can't wait until my daughter is old enough to dance with me, currently it's just me moving her arms and legs for her...lazy little baby.

 

If having good dance rhythm means having good sex rhythm, then maybe I really CAN dance better than I thought. :wink:

 

I don't care so much if she has rhythm...as long as she can shake it.....I'm not really a dancer...but I actually know how to move TO THE BEAT....its hard to explain, but many people...WM in particular don't know how to do this.....a lot of guys can do dance moves but they can only dance to really up tempo salsa/meringue type stuff....anything that's slower and requires a more natural rhythm that's not as choreographed causes problems for some.

 

Having grown up around Nigerians who constantly had weddings, funerals, and such (this means serious partying), I have no problems dancing to anything.

Truth be told, it would be nice if I fell in love with a woman who can dance. Dancing is by itself a form of communication. You could tell a girl how much you love her with the rhythm of your body. I love it when I am dancing with a girl that I admire, and find sexually attractive. The combination of body mind and soul makes it....well.... lost for words. :wink:

 

Ahhh you have put it beautifully infinit! Exactly my thought.

I love a man who can dance, probably because I love to do it myself. I just find it so relaxing and freeing just to let it all out, its a type of expression I guess.

I won't step to a man *just* because he is fine and can dance, but if there is a little something else pulling me there and he has those things, it definately helps.

I don't like when men assume just because you dance in a certain way, you want them all to feel you up/approach you or whatever, but I love moving with a man who I'm feeling- not just a grind but when you really have a rythym together.

I like hip hop and *good* r n b, but my favourite type of music to dance to is ragga and classic dancehall. Not quite sure how a white girl from the Aussie burbs grew up lovin that, but there you go, it's always the music I have really felt.

I think you see the odd white women with rythym but it seems more awkward for white men, though I find men with an eastern european or italian background (I know I'm generalising) can usually move a little more, though maybe I"m just biased cos my own background is eastern european , though I think like in Africa it's more ingrained into the culture.

I love seeing my morrocan friends grandpas and uncles on the dancefloor- those guys have some old school moves and really know how to groove

 

I've dated WW who were big on dancing and thought I was joking [a black man who can't dance? gasp!] when I said I can't dance all that well. I mean, I can handle my own on a crowded dance floor (where you don't really have to dance anyway) -- or for a short time, or if I had a bunch of drinks, but that's about it.

But I've noticed in the last couple years since Internet dating started getting popular, that a lot of women are saying they aren't into the "bar scene." So, there isn't that much pressure to learn to dance anymore since you no longer have to go to clubs exclusively to meet women.

 

true and a good thing too

 

Yeah, you can't expect a guy to be able to or like to dance just because he is black!

 

A Nigerian party...break out the Jollof Rice! I love seeing Nigerians get together and get their groove on, especially the pikins. At my baby's naming ceremony it was so funny, especially when the two men from Guinea joined in too!

 

I don't think that knowing how to dance automatically makes you a great lover because you don't really have to use your feet when you're making love. Yes, you do use the rest of your body and that's what I'm very good at. I'm not a good dancer, but I do have the kind of natural rhythm it takes to satisfy a lover.

It's kind of funny because most of the music I buy is Latin, but I'm surely not a salsa dancer. I also listen to a lot of roots, reggae and when I do dance, it's normally to that type of music. Roots reggae is easy to dance to because you either dance like you make love or you can dance like you're high on ganja. Many of the people in the reggae clubs are so high on the wisdomweed that they dance alone (not that I'm condoning smoking herb, though).

I can kind of relate to what vikvaliant says because most ww I know automatically assume that I am a good dancer just because I'm black. It doesn't insult me, but I hate to disappoint them. Once, at a Marc Anthony concert, a white girl wanted to dance with me but I didn't. I was more focused on the musicians because I have a conga set at home and whenever I play them, I try to practice the Latin rhythms.

Finally, I hope I don't insult anyone, because that is not my intent, but if I wanted to date a woman that could dance I would strictly date black women and Latinas. There are some white women who can dance, but they are rare. And that's what I mean when I say that knowing how to dance doesn't necessarily make you a great lover. Most of the black women I've dated could dance, but a ww I had sex with was better than all of them except for the woman from the Congo I once loved.

Peace.
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minstels and step in fetch it

 

Dancing.

To be honest with you, I do have a problem dancing. I would like to go out with a woman who loves me for me, not because I am black and expected to be a great dancer.

 

Yeah I like a girl who can dance, I'm not a 'You Got Served' dancer but I know how to keep up and I like a girl who can shake her ass and not be a stiff robot. I hate the word 'arse' by the way, so annoying. If they can't dance it won't be the end of the world though, as long as we're compatible.

 

LOL, I like how you throw that 'arse' comment in there. "Yeah, dancing is cool, and I like a girl that can dance. I hate the word arse." LOL

 

a good two step partner is hard to find, but awesome when you get one