Do you believe in sex before marriage?

To have everyday a new sex partner is too much...to wait till you are married, is for me a step back in the past. We need sex for our healthy and our mind.

The answer should be in between, act responsible, be sure that you really want it and never play with feelings and never hurt or insult any one.

Generally, I would say, LESS IS MORE, till you are sure this person is valuable enough to share this special experience with. Then you can have sex 8 hours a day and check out all that comes in your mind..

 

I was referring to casual or anonymous sex.

 

Nothing wrong with casual sex, as long as you're safe doing it. As has been mentioned....sex is fun :smt045. To take it so seriously really kills the fun aspect of it. It's not something just saved for marriage or "the one". Hell no.
I mean, if I waited (for example) until I was married (or found the love of my life) to have sex, hell...I'd have been a 30yr old virgin. Hahahaha! Hell no. I'm not missing out on the fun of sex just because I hadn't found the right guy until I was in my 30's.

Quite frankly. As long as no one is being hurt by it, what people do in their private lives is no one's business.

 

if you have ever had bad sex then you would believe in sex before marriage...i suppose there is always the theory that if you have only had sex with one person that you will never know that it can be any better...

lippy prefers to test drive before committing:smt077

 

Ahmen, test driving is absolutely given!!!

wrom wrom!

 

lol...exactly ladies, i believe whole heartedly in trying before buying...!!!

 

As long as there is a retunr policy Im good LOL.

Seriously, I do not have causal sex, I even went without sex for ~1.5 years, twice.
I just cant, cant explain it. Its not like I have a moral issue with it, its more that I HAVE to have that emotional commection.

Having that said, I cant immagine marrying someone I havent taken for a test drive first! Sex is too important for a healthy relationship - for me.

 

I would have to marry one of you fine ladies first. I recently had a divine revelation that I must maintain my my chastity for the woman that I would like to share the rest of my life with.

I'm all about making love, but for me, it should be with the woman that I love.

 

I sort of given up on that "Wait till married" thing.

 

I really don't think that's a bad thing Gen Y. What Lipstick pointed out is something you should really consider. You do not want to find out that you aren't compatible on a sexual level after you are married to someone.

I'm not suggesting you approach it like it's the buffet at Sizzler, trying a little bit of everything that strikes your fancy, but at the point you believe yourself to be in love with someone and you envision sharing your life with them long-term, I think it's natural and wise for the relationship to include sex. That doesn't mean either of you are bad people of low moral character, it's means you're human, and you want to do everything possible to ensure your relationship has the best chance of success.

I know this may seem a bit like comparing apples to oranges, however you wouldn't buy a car without a test drive, or a house without a walk-through. Why would you commit yourself to another person without knowing everything possible about that person? A car you may have for 5 years, a house 15 - 30, yet you hope to be married to someone the rest of your life. Research is warranted.

 

Yup!!

 

am still a virgin