Do I need to change my ways

I was just wondering, more based upon some of the things you've posted in different areas. Sortof trying to piece the story together in my mind.

He sounds like a really special man. I hope things work out really well for you guys!

BTW - I keep hoping to catch you in chat again. Please feel free to contact me on yahoo IM or email if you like....it's on my profile in here I think. I don't know that I can really be of help regarding your niece, but I certainly would be willing to do whatever I can.

 

Thanks KnCA and I will try when I have more time, tonight I have to do an overnight shift and I'm a bit rushed.

 

I believe this sounds exactly like a case of a good guy being saved from dating shitty women.

Instead of putting it all on you, turn it around and realize how nasty THESE women are. Thank god you didn't marry this ex and found out about her...that god that AWFUL woman who walked out on the blind date didn't stick around, a human who would do that would waste your time, and thank god that woman dissed you before you ran into her at another bar at another time and wasted even more time hitting on her.

Seriously, I felt the same way about myself a few years ago, I could not figure out what more I could possibly do to keep from being dissed in relationships and dating scenarios. Finally I dated two awesome guys and though we broke up, now when I get dissed I am just relieved I didn't give them my time or effort. Plus when guys treat me wrong it just makes my exes and friends who care about me look more amazing and wonderful...and it keeps me from taking future relationships for granted.

Its not you. Believe me. I am never ceased to be amazed how close-minded, short-sighted and utterly disappointing people are. But man do I love my friends!

 

Ok, take it from me, man; just stick on working on yourself.

I have possibly the worst luck with girls. I barely ever get past the flirting/dating stage, in highschool my friends used to laugh at me about it, because I definitely know a thing or two about being the 3rd wheel.

It's weird, though, when I stopped caring about it, things just improved. I can laugh about it now, so my best advice is to just do you.

Now I'm in college in Tallahassee and am heading over to FSU this weekend; I've never had any experience with white women before so this should be fun.