Do I need to change my ways

LOL...be easy on yourself dude....lol

she came to the restaurant, saw you AND left??..hahahaha,,,now thats funny bro..

But trust me on this kid........women are made to get fucked. YOU seem to be beating around the bush way too much. Forget all that romantic or meeting her at the "restaurant" bullshit. Meet her at her fucking place and rock her fuckin bed, and if she thinks youre taking it too fast....tell her that many women out there would be happy to replace her stankin ass,,,,,and trust me,,she's gonna change her mind....

Look, im not saying you should turn into a complete asshole over night....however,,i find no logic in being a "nice guy" at all.....and youve clearly tried it all your life and it has gotten you no where........my advice is 1) Grow siome fucking balls.....2) chage your game plan...3)get fuckin laid

 

hmm i wouldnt agree...

 

I do agree with this part. Clearly women have shown you that they do not want a nice guy. You are a nice guy and you want women.

See the problem here?

 

I mentioned Terrance Howard in another post and how he's been typecast to play the roles of how some brothers keep the upper hand on women, I think you need to rent "The Best Man" an analyze what his character is saying. Bruh you in Manhattan, Where only the tough survive. Women there are accustom of men dogging them out so they've become tough also. Don't believe the hype opposites don't attract. Skin color is a trivial difference, most people look for people of the same personality and these women sense your a push over. However, on the other hand if you'd like to remain a nice guy, Cinderella will come along one day, but in NYC that someday is more one day. If you wanna get laid and not played... stop that chivalry shit unless your looking for a wife. I'm 5'8 also 163lb... I was voted flirt of the year in high school...I told them I'm not a flirt, I just like whats in the skirt and how it works...Women are the biggest predators(in a good way) they can tell with in 2 to 4 minutes if their gonna give you the draws, the see and sense your vibes. Remember your in New York, not pleasant ville. The creator of this universe be my witness, I have never approached a woman in my life, all my girlfriends and bartering partners approached me, a lot came from word of mouth, women talk to each other like crazy. Hang out with some of your boys who know their way around women, I'm not telling you to play women, because players get played not laid.

 

Like attracts like. Everything you see and everyone you know is offering vibrational signals, and those signals must match before attraction can take place. So even in a situation where people seem to be different, there must be a dominant basis of vibrational similarity for them to be together. It is Universal Law. Within all people there are vibrations of that which is wanted and vibrations of the lack of what is wanted, and everything that comes into their experience always matches the vibrations that are dominant. No exceptions. Let us introduce the word harmony. When two are exactly the same, then their intentions cannot be fulfilled. In other words, one who wants to sell does not do well to attract another seller. But the attracting of a buyer brings forth the harmony. The shy man attracts an outgoing woman because his intention is to be more outgoing, so he is actually attracting the subject of his intention. The magnetized skillet, whose essence is of iron, will attract to itself another object whose essence is of iron (that is, a bolt or a nail or another iron skillet) but it will not attract a skillet that is made of copper or aluminum. When you set your radio receiver to the frequency of 98.7FM, you cannot pick up the signal of 630AM being broadcast from a radio tower. Those frequencies must match. There is no vibrational evidence, anywhere in the Universe, that supports the idea that opposites attract. They do not.

 

So true.

 

The Laws Of Attraction

 

Best advice ever... the chicks will get hot and wet, guaranteed!

 

Yeah, next time you're on a date. When the check comes, take a pen and some paper and add up the shit you ordered. Put the cash for your half down, then slide the bill over to her and keep talking like ain't nothing even happen.

Guaranteed ass, women love that shit.

Hell, if you want to go for brownie points don't open any doors. And I don't mean just for her... I mean period. Make her open the doors. When yall get to the door and she looks at you like "are you going to get that?" just say to her "what your arms don't work?".

 

Isn't it awesome?

 

Women that have "issues" want bad boys. Women that have their head on straight do not.

Women don't want a pushover..but sometimes the ladies can't differentiate between confidence and poor character. Just because you walk like you carry big stick and act suave doesn't make you "confident" any more than a quiet respectful man is "weak."

It's easier to deal with a bad boy because the expectations are lower...the girl doesn't have to be that good of a lady...if she is average..she is still a better partner. A good guy requires stepping up the game and some women can't handle the pressure of flying straight.

If a woman is always drawn to bad boys...she's got daddy issues...she wants to make you the man she wishes her father was even though she knows she can't.

Don't waste your time...if a woman is too dumb to see that being with a good guy that isn't a whiner or complainer....is a good thing for her...then maybe you don't need to be with someone that stupid.

 

Co-sign, co-sign, co-sign. You rock.

 

Very true, there's a saying that "best friends bring out the best in each other" I think Good Men bring out the best in a woman, that is IF she's up to the task. But then again it works the other way around too.

 

nice guys finish last and aren't appreciated by woman, I know first hand. Second women are picky as hell.

 

That's cuz we're looking for nice guys. (With a lot of other qualities.)
Women just get to pick, that's the point.

If you like a woman who is willing to go to bed right off the bat then I wouldn't know how to direct you because that's not the kind of woman I am.

However if you're looking for a long term relationship, then being nice is NOT a problem, it's a plus, but you still need to keep her feeling secure, that takes some bad boy qualities.

I want these traits in my man.

Nice (but not so nice he's a pushover)
Strong (but not so strong he scares me)
Protective (but don't be jealous or keep me in a cage)
Kind (but not so kind I think he's flirting with another woman)
Driven (but not so driven he's a work-a-holic)
Sensual (but not always pushing for sex)
Etc.. (But not so ect..)

Get the drift???

 

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Okay! :smt023 Oh! Do I have to write a message? Just for future reference. If you already reported this one, I won't. Unless I should? Does it matter as long as someone already did? Does it make a difference if more than one does? Thanks!

 

Technically you and Toronto are both right.

A woman that is sound of mind and spirit will have a list that is similar to yours but a woman that has deep seated emotional problems will be just like what Toronto23 is talking about. If a woman can't appreciate kindness....it means she isn't accustomed to anyone treating her well, and that brings in a host of problems that most guys don't want to deal with.

Many 20-something ladies (not all of course) dabble around with the bad boys and most quickly learn that the experience is highly overrated. What they think is strength is actually selfishness and narcissism on the part of their "rebels without a cause." At that point...the biological clock starts to tick and they discover that they want the father of their children to be more than a good time in the bed. The bargaining power that 20-something ladies have is strong but they often waste their time with the wrong kinds of men and by the time they reach an older age..those same guys they had in the "friend" column hold far more chips and are often married to women that had the sense to figure out what was best for the long-term. Consequently the wild girls end up settling for less than they could have had.

God often sends people into your life and you have to be ready...a lot of the young ladies aren't ready.

 

Where did a man your age ever get soooo.... much wisdom?

Very well said!! :smt023

 

I guess that explains why most of the ladies that I attract seem to begin in their mid 30's? Not that I'm complaining or anything... just saying.