Did you realize that a lot of the ww that date bm are Europeans?

Damn you.

 

Attractive American women can be had as well but requires a wealth of solid game and not everyone is capable of that. Ive dated American before many times over but i still say Euro is better.

 

Smgdmfh I am seriously blown away by this assertion cus these college student s who come as tourists in my country are very open and friendly ( one asked me to rub her back with lotion on a beach within 5 minutes of talking to me. I thought European women were more laid back well, well i am learning(although i know German women kinda like African men)

 

I think the biggest thing that we all tend to over look is that when a lot of ww date black men in America we're black first and men second. Obviously that's not the case of most of the women on this forum but you can understand how that might become tiresome especially in country that has a deep and strong history of disdain for black people. Its juts nice to be treated like a man and that's it. Or until she's comfortable enough to treat me like Andrae. Hope that clears things up a little for you guys.

 

Definitely. Some women tote their black
Man around like they, personally have solved all social justice problems by dating him. Or every second statement mentions their difference not their bond.

You never forget a persons identity of course, but race is not generally a conscious part of your everyday relationship. Of course we mix cultures in food, expectations and language every day at home but it's just normal. It's just daily grind like any other .

 

Exactly. For some it's difficult to see us as just men. It's kind of hard to be partners if you don't really see me.

 

I think it's impossible to be partners if someone sees you as a label (black, pussy, chick, etc) instead of a person.

 

Thx a lot brotha. I take a sense of pride in presenting coherent and powerful commentaries on whatever subject matter i am discussing.

I grew up reading a lot on different subjects and historical writings. While some people love math, science, art, my passion is history and cultures.

 

LOL, hence the denial of equal opportunities, access to education, political rights and one dare not have fathomed looking at a white woman in certain parts of this nation.

You are right in that if a black man was less than them intrinsically, none of the socially engineered race based discriminatory policies over generations would be required to keep a foot firmly planted on the throats of those whose skin color merely happens to be different.

Keep a man ignorant and he will always define himself through the opinions of others instead of defining himself by his own abilities.

 

CAN I GET A AMEN!

 

Yes. this article in newsweek really gets down to the nitty gritty of it all.



http://www.newsweek.com/2009/09/04/see-baby-discriminate.html

its amazing because when i was 10 years old, i have to admit i was very racist. i would say terrible things about the white race, dark skin black people and everything. it was a terrible way to be and i'm still ashamed at the age of 28.

it wasn't until i saw the dysfunction in my own culture, that i began to change. that was was when the journey to a more healthy - state of mind began.

now my goal is to stay on a training regimen where i evolve and go to europe in the right way and find my queen. i feel very inspired.

 

This right here says it all. A brotha is not a Fendi or Louis Vuitton handbag ffs,

In America we tend to be overly freaking race conscious and thrive on stereotypes.

Even in college I dealt with the knucklehead white boys that would come up to me talking in ebonics and asking me about the latest rap video.

 

Good to know you made that transition brotha. It takes personal experience, an inner understanding of treating people how you want to be treated and realizing when we are dead and gone none of the negative B.S. matters.

I would rather live my life happy and fulfilling.

 

Ok, I spewed Pepsi on my screen. That was brilliant!

 

Just in college? I had a chick ask me if i'd ever been stabbed or shot at. I had to school her and let her know I'm a prep school/college graduate if you want Tyrone you better hang out in the projects lol.

 

ROFLMAO. This shit can get crazy indeed because of the images portrayed in the media. Unreal.

 

I am a white-American woman is is half American and half German and I can attest to say German women love black-African men.

 

Black-African men or Black men in general?

 

Dunno, but that might answer your question.

 

I guess I qualify. Heh. But then again, I'm not from there directly.