Cultures & Attraction

Re: It was about something different for my hubby and I

kenny, do you have a myspace?

 

Re: It was about something different for my hubby and I

Yes, but I m still working on somethings but you can visit it.
www.myspace.com/the_truthx_man

 

Re: It was about something different for my hubby and I

thanks! i just visited it...it's coming along. :wink: i have one too...it's www.myspace.com/suprchicky73 mine is set to private though, but if you want to look at it, just send me a friend request.

 

hi everyone

i have read some of the storys in here so here's mine

i am a 29 married white woman who has been married for nine years now, our marrage is so-so with good and bads

one night we went out to this really nice hotel for dinner and they had three musicans playing music for everyone, and they were all blackmen.

we were seated right next to the band and i was placed facing them while they were playing.

there was this tall good looking guy playing the guitar and i was staring at him and he was staring right back at me.

after a few mins of watching him playing and moving around i found my self getting very excited, so much so i could hardly talk with my husband.

when they had thier brake i had to go to the wash room,,i really did have to go and when i came out, the attrative black guitar man was standing there.

he ask me how i liked thier music and i said i loved it and he thanked me and told me he would love to chat with me some more sometime and he asked me for my cell number, to this day i dont know how i could give it to him, but i did.

to make a long story short, i found out he is 36 and also married.and wants to take me out from the first time he saw me.

he called lots of times and every time he asked me out and i said no, but after about a month i told him ok but just for dinner and to talk.we had a wonderful time and i found him to be a very sexy man.

after going out with him a few times he told me he want to go to a hotel and make love to me. i have never cheated on my husband but i had run out of no's for this gorgeous man. and that i would meet him there the next day.

the next day i left work at noon and was in a hotel roon at one with this man, i cant tell you what happened, but all the storys i have heard about blackmen were so ture with this man.

my godness he is just gorgeous, strong, very large and a total sex machine, took my breath away.

i did it with him only two different times, he is from an other city, if he wants me again of course ill go to him,i think of him all the time.

crazy me

 

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I want to bite.....really I do! Just can't because it would be ugly :twisted:

 

OK I tried.

First of all this should have gone under the Stereotypes and Myths thread

OR

You could start a new one...............

Ho Fo Sho

 

Culture & Attraction

I wasn't "looking" for any particular man, white or black. However, I met a "hood brotha" at work and we became friends. I've never dated a black man before. I just never really thought about it and had been in 2 serious relationships in the past 20 years. Plus, I never thought black men were interested in me. But, this guy is the nicest, most down-to-earth guy I have ever met. He holds nothing back, says how it is, and we laugh about it. And because of that, I find him extremely sexy. He lives in one of the worst sections of the city (murder,drugs,gangs) but somehow I have connected with this man. I can't explain it, but I do love it!!!

 

An urban brother-from the hood, with soul expressed from singing the blues....

 

Your country has only like 2 blacks,,,,,,fuck you know about gangstas,..lol

 

Yeah and blacks are really gangsta in TORONTO. :roll:

 

I’m not sure if I’m answering the question correctly for I don’t fit the criteria kenny_g mentioned. My demeanor is more to wards the Preppy (The American Golfer Tiger Woods best suite my stature) lifestyle which, is easily identified by the type of clothing I sport. However, I will share my thoughts on the subject off hand.

When I date out side my race, it is obvious both of us are attracted to one another from a physical standpoint. Place of origin (Where you were born) generally comes up within five minutes of the greeting in which, we both question what is it like to live there and, that is basically it. Sure my ancestors are African and, hers may be European, Asian, or Middle Eastern but, it doesn’t mean the whole relationship needs to revolve around those continents.

I am in no way tooting my horn. Every girl I’ve dated, past and present, say I’m different than the average guy (Of any race or ethnicity) they have gone out with. Could that possibly play a factor, I have no idea. However, I’ve never encountered any girl trying to impress me with their knowledge of Afro centrism.

Let the truth be told, I’ve dated so many girls who reside from all parts of the globe, race is the furthest thing from my mind. And, I can assure you both parties will share their heritage amongst one another when the time is right. The first sign is when she becomes so comfortable with you she speaks to you in her native tongue.

Cheers!