Colorism

Wow. Really???:smt042

 

Would your imaginary white boyfriend still date you if you were a white woman??

Would you even be here if this was a BW/WM site??

 

yes i would if she had the same attitude and positiveness, and active lifestyle and values and beliefs, i sure would

 

+1

 

Methinks the OP is gone. She hasn't logged in, in days.

 

Ooh, Christmas came early!

 

wow i didn't know ppl keep up with my logs, i have a life ppl, i've been busy savings lives, and who would have thunk black women could do such goodness in the world! lol by the way nice shoe :smt001

 

I'm curious why do you come on here?

 

i come to play out of fun and curiosity. I go to lots of different sites. At the end of the day ppl are just ppl, we bleed all the same. Its the internet ppl go and say what they like. That's how I live my life and that's how I surf the web.

 

Yeah, my man likes women of all colors so the only difference would be we would get less flack for our relationship. A person is a person. I would never date a BM who only dated me because I'm white. I would think he had a seriouse complex. I can understand being attracted to one kind of person more then another, but to not be able to recognize beauty in all races of people is strange to me.

 

I agree with a bit of this. I'm dating for a good fit.:smt054 any color will do. lol I just need the right person.

 

Same here basically. My man doesn't have any special affinity for whiteness. Just a special affinity for meness. So if I were a different skin color with the same meness, he'd still be with me and my ness, heh.

 

Honesty is the best policy.

And on that note I have to say...


Ditto for me..



























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What are you trying to say?

 

So I cant sleep - darn timediff between West and East:

So I was thinking about something my trainer said to me a few days ago..

He is of Mexican decent, second generation.. a white Mexican if you will..
we were talking about our neighborhood and he was complaining about the "damn Mexicans moving in amd messing things up".
WTF???

 

LOL! Mexican people are kinda odd about that FG. If they're what they consider pure Mexican, they look down on anyone who isn't, at least all the ones I've known did. Then you have some that are born in the US and they consider themselves 'white', and look down on 'mexicans'. It's a bizarre thing to try to follow.

 

When he was talking about it - I got a clear sense it was a case of clorism.. his friends are mostly "wite Mexicans", second generation - and he is not really mingling with the darker Mexicans.. in our neighborhood.. they are mostly second generation as well as he is. That is what I was reacting to.
I just scratched my head.