Cold Approaching women

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by qwils86, Jun 20, 2014.

  1. andreboba

    andreboba Well-Known Member

    Repped.

    WTF people talking about macking is outdated??
    That's like saying pussy is going out of style.:smt118

    As long as there are men and women on this planet, there will be dudes macking.

    Samson already shut this thread down anyway.:smt066

    BTW quils that example you gave where you cold approached that chick on the street was simple yet too complex for some dudes.

    Some men have a problem just INTRODUCING themselves to a woman which is one of the first lessons every dude should master.

    If you can present yourself and name to a woman without coming off dorky or like a creep, you're halfway there.

    It's a humble yet confident act and one that breaks down a woman's firewall.

    Some people really need an attitude readjustment.

    The one common denominator among men I know who have phyne significant others isn't money or crazy status, they were just charming and confident.

    Deep down they BELIEVED they deserved the woman they approached which makes a huge difference.

    That doesn't mean these cats thought a chick owed them anything, just that they thought they were equal in some way to the females they were approaching.

    If you really believe a woman is out of your league, you don't have the slightest hope of ever getting with her.

    I used to date a girl who worked on Wall Street who was making seven figures 3 years out of undergrad. Her main requirement for a man in a long term type situation is that if she got pregnant and had to quit working for a couple years, her man could support both of them and they wouldn't be broke.lol

    Otherwise she didn't have a beef if her man earn half what she did, as long as he was working in a career that fulfilled him.

    Some of yall sound like you're setting yourselves up for failure before you've ever even started.
     
    Last edited: Jun 24, 2014
  2. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    if the word macking is outdated then ho (bible days), and gold digging needs to be "x"-ed out too.
     
  3. qwils86

    qwils86 New Member

    I don't know if I would go there lookin to wife any of them girls. A lot of pussy selling going over there lol

    Respect
     
  4. qwils86

    qwils86 New Member

    True. Since you brought up the bible, Jesus would of been considered a mack or pimp since Mary Magdalene and them other hoes were supporting him. No offense to my Christians on here
     
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    i wouldnt either but you have dudes go down there wifing them up....fast.

    got a neighbor who plan on moving there.... its crazy.
     
  6. qwils86

    qwils86 New Member

    And I know he's gonna buy some pussy too! Lol
     
  7. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    yep. guess what he talked peace and love and he got murdered...so if chris cant get 100% cooperation then who the fuck are you?
    stop bitching cause you didnt get the ass.
     
  8. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    You speak for a small minority. Again right up there with race and gender doesn't matter. There are physical things that will get in the way as well as certain social things. Q is 6'2 and in shape trust and believe his approach would not be met with the same smile if he were 5'5 and pudgy. He would have gotten a polite smile if that, she more than likely would have pretended she didn't hear him. You can BELIEVE all you want but if she doesn't believe as well you're shit out of luck.
    Its not just a positive attitude you HAVE TO HAVE YOUR SHIT TOGETHER.
    Make sure your employment is on point, make sure your gear is on point, make sure your looks are on point, make sure your education and manners are on point. ALL of these things matter.
    You guys talk like the playing field is leveled. You act like kindness and confidence count if you're not physically desirable. Hope you have that attitude the next time a less than attractive girl with a perky attitude approaches you.
     
  9. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    hell go to any navy base....women from thailand and the phillipines are all over the place. they go on leave/vacation and now they have a wife
     
  10. qwils86

    qwils86 New Member

    Man if I was 5'5" and pudgy I would still have the confidence to talk to women. This is because I would still value myself as a man and my manhood is more important than a woman's beauty.
     
  11. qwils86

    qwils86 New Member

    Those girls are getting their hustle on!
     
  12. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    damn.....do we have to break it down for you.
    no where anyone said you dont need A B C. damn tdk.

    are you that dumb? i get tired of saying over and over. having a good job is good but you still got to approach them and talk proper.

    samson is in a wheel chair...but you didnt comment on that.

    you always want to argue.

    we are trading good game but you want to argue. why?
     
  13. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    And that right there makes you sound delusional. You're one of those pull yourself up by the bootstrap folks aren't you:smt043
     
  14. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    hell yeah.. i aint mad at em
     
  15. satyr

    satyr New Member

    There needs to be a thread about the rock bottom levels of self-esteem on this site. STAT!
     
  16. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    uuuhh, you are the one that said you had nothing to bring to the table.

    thats problem 1.

    you get down on yourself if you dont score immediately.

    thats problem 2.

    you have a seriously negative spirit.
    thats problem 3.

    you havent talked to the chick and you are fucked already.

    macking is in you....not on you
     
  17. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Fam I have no problem getting women I want. The women out number men 4 to 1 here. I'm good, I just recognize what works. I don't see this sea of ugly dudes with hot girls. That's literally like 1 in 50. Talking to women is not hard at all, hello is only two syllables. Since when is talking truth negative.
     
  18. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Those words are just now registering? Lol
     
  19. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    It doesn't seem to come up all I keep seeing is confidence confidence confidence. Just as long as you believe you can get a chick you'll get a chick. So incredibly far from the truth at least it is for earthlings like me lol
     
  20. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    lol....he is like "which way did they go"
     

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