Can you wait?

O.K. she is new,……. to you, she is very attractive,….she has a soft sweet kiss and a warm hug. She does something for your feelings you haven’t felt for a long time. She is sexy in the way she carries her self—but she is also a lady. She is also a lady…..so for her….this new sweet lady…can you wait…..should you wait.
Unlike so many others you have forge arrangements with to serve your needs, she is different…..Its like you want to preserve her and what you have with her (that sweet old heart fluttering, grade school puppy love)…..You understand that when you sleep with her----one of 2 things will happen,….you will either bond with her more because the timing was right, or you’ll feel there was nothing there….because beside the experience, nothing was woven…and now its time to get up and leave…should you have waited longer…….If you were guaranteed 4 straight years or more of hand-in-hand happiness….. Can you wait…. however long, until its right? Can you wait?

 

Can SHE wait?

 

Now, I say: WAIT! Where are fullstops at?

 

I can't wait. I would have at you

 

Why do you have to leave after only having sex once?

 

A lady needs a gentleman

You describe this woman as sexy and a lady. This is a dangerous combination... She can destroy you. Therefore, wait, show her that she can trust you and try to find out,if she really is, what you imagine. To have sex with a woman is simple. To deserve Love, this deep feeling, everybody has to suffer for..With the time you will see, both, how it can go on...

 

the term lady is a social conception, and it invokes certain values and conformity. So in a sense, if you don't want to buck the trend, you can go along with conformity.Dine and wait for her, meaning observing all societal obligations from a deserving gentleman.

But someone may come along and may not conceive her as a lady, but see her as human, a woman that has needs, emotional and sexual needs being amongst them, and that someone might be anxious to meet those needs, and the lady might buck the trend. There goes Ms Lady!

In each sense though, perception is reality. So better to go with what floats your boat.

 

I learned the hard way that what will be will be. Sex doesnt negatively effect the potential of a relationship, it only speeds up the inevitable.

My father told me along time ago that women respect the physical attraction and yearning a man has for a women and underneath it all, would rather a man go after what he wants .

 

yes, exactly.. can you wait? or will you be turned off if its a loong wait?

I know the men I made to wait were crazy about me. But did I really want them? no. so where do you find a balance? how long do you wait? and when is it right? I guess, you will know when it is right, right?