Can I attract tall hot black men?

Maybe I’m getting old but I think at some point we have to look past all this “do I have the body to attract xyz body”. It sounds entirely transactional and won’t last 2 weeks. Except that’s what you want of course.

 

Thanks for the responses!

 

First, Welcome to The Forum. I've looked at your pictures, and I don't see where you should have any problems feeling insecure about how you look. You're tall and slender, with beautiful legs and a beautiful smile. You wear bikini bras so that tells me that you're not too sensitive about how you look but it's probably about how other people see you that makes you insecure. Look at yourself in the mirror, preferably a full length mirror and look at the different parts of your body which you may think may need work. You may decide that no part of your body needs work but it's the way God intended you to be. Once you have decided that there's nothing on your body that needs to be reshaped or reform then this may help you with your insecurities about how others see you. What is it that mystifies your attraction to black men? Don't be dispelled about the myths, or the generalizing about how black men are endowed. As a black man myself, all men are not created equal in that regard but I can speak for myself, I'm blessed. Answer these questions oh, are you sexually attracted to black men? Or, are you physically attracted to them that makes you sexually attracted to us. All in all it's about how you relate two men not just black man in particular, or is it because of the Mystique that black man for so many years was taboo to white women and vice versa. I can't speak for all black men, but nowadays more black men are more secure themselves, which makes them more of a commodity but not only white women but other women as well. Should it matter that a white woman is interested in a black man? No I think not. And that's not just my opinion but to each his own, and to each her own.

 

I know what you mean bro, brunette does it for me...

 

Is this a joke??? How has no one else publicly wondered if we're being trolled here lol?





(That's all my way of saying that those pictures show an objectively beautiful woman who clearly can attract men of any height, temperature, or color)

 

Hai gadis-gadis

 

I did wonder and she never responded so you are probably right!

 

Lol. No, I'm not trolling. There's a ton of beautiful women in SoCal, and I have struggled with insecurities for quite some time.

 

Are there many black men your age in your area at all? You said it was super white

 

Very few. I live in the Newport Beach area, which is super white and rich. I did go on a date with a 6'5'' black guy last week (we matched on Hinge) and got a TON of stares while out. It was both funny and weird.

 

LOL, my thoughts exactly. If she can attract men in-general, she can attract BM.

 

Welcome to the forum. The conversation is kind of humorous to me. You seem quite attractive and friendly, so it's interesting to hear that you're having trouble meeting interested black men.

 

Well, there aren't too many black men in Orange County (LA is different). And there's a lot of gorgeous white women here, so there's competition as well.

Thanks for the compliment!

 

Why not?

 

You're quite welcome. Best of luck to you in finding whatever you're looking for. Hope the forum is a helpful communication tool to find like-minded people.

 

Thanks! Appreciate it. Went on a date yesterday with a Black man I met on a dating app. Was fantastic. Lovely man, humble, sexy, funny. We got SO many stares while we were out. Not sure why. Lol.