Can A Woman's Love Be Bought?

she is right:rock:

 

Romantic love yes familial and friendship no.

At least for women. Money buys security and good times which is the basics for why women seem to love men.

 

LOL. you are setting its off. let me get my popcorn.

women like a man with money it provide security. no different from the caveman days of a man killing animals and growing food for the family and fighting off raiders

 

Hmmmm I have not a man who provides these things... I provide these things for myself. I love men because they provide a cock

 

Older woman perspective kid not the norm at least not within my dating range

 

lol...alright young one.

on the flip side though, what do women provide for men? why do men love women?

for you it would appear a fresh uterus, a pretty face and a tight body.

eventually i hope you realise that we also provide; love, comfort, support, security (if not financial, emotional), acceptance and unwavering loyalty. in same cases, the ability to carry on your family name, and in faaaar too many cases, a substitute for your mother as we cook, clean, launder, nurse and shop for you.

i would also like to add, that whilst we are substituting as your mother, we are also working a job outside of the house, as well as in

 

For me all I want from a woman is for her to give me healthy children and be a good mom to them. And most importantly let me live in peace. Not saying every woman does this but in my experience women cause unnecessary drama in their personal lives and more often than not try to change their partner to suit their needs.

Also I want someone who is capable and willing to provide for themselves. I've been running into too many women who don't want to work lately. Not saying that don't or won't work but too many seem to be waiting to a find a man who can kind of take over(usually teachers from what I've seen)
I'd like to know if anything happened to me that the kids would be well taken care of.

I want to add most real men don't look to their women for anything. Unless its a situation where you're a stay at home mom its doubtful that I'll ever expect someone to do my laundry or clean up after me. I've been on my own since I was 23 and managed to keep my place clean and feed myself thus far. If anything I put in more of an effort to clean up and keep things nice since I know women are generally more anal about that kind of thing

Edit: You know what's funny is when I care about someone all I want to do is take care of them my major problem that I can't shake and seem to encounter are the women who expect it. Fuck that who actually demand it as some type of payment for their time. It sucks all the sincerity out of any romantic gesture. Maybe its a young thing or maybe even a New York thing but it does cause one to be a tad jaded. If its all you see there isn't much else you can do about it.

 

soooo...whilst the woman is still working and providing for herself, who's looking after the children? is it 50/50 share? i can tell you that it's hardly ever the case, it's generally the woman who not only works, but also looks after the children.

as for the non expectation in the laundry and cleaning up department, i'm betting that if you ever do settle down and have a relationship with someone and have kids, she'll be doing all this for you, as she'll be doing it for herself and the kids. same with the cooking. hardly unlikely that she'll cook a meal and you'll come home and make yourself something separately.

 

Well I would expect if I were married we'd save the bigger share of our salaries and live of one for a year or two to save for having kids. After a year or two we could either get a nanny or have family help out(that's how it works in my family)


In my house growing up my parents worked different schedules. My mom worked either from 3 to 11 or 11 to 7 as a nurse and my dad had a normal 9 to 5 so no one actually really prepared meals for us like that. We normally fended for ourselves or when on the days when I stayed with my grandma she cooked for us. I also used to live with someone and she did her laundry and I did mine seperately. It was like that with my parents now that I think about it. I guess my dad figured it was one less thing for him to make my mom do since she did primarily take care of me and my brother growing up.

Btw when you said its normally the woman who takes care of the kid I'd like to say maybe in the past but I know for me I really want to spend as much time as I can with my kids. I want this its not something that I want to avoid. I don't get guys who are ok with never seeing their kids unless circumstances dictate otherwise.

 

I feel you about the kids. I spend all the time I can with mine. It's wonderful to watch them reach their different levels of childhood. And to see them pattern themselves you while taking your genetics. It's crazy. (in a good way)

 

I think our generation had so many fatherless homes we take it a lot more seriously. Dudes felt the pain of not having a dad around and want that for their kids.

 

My dad was half-ass around. Dude piss me off.

 

Can a women's love be bought? LOL You got the money, you get what you need.

 

[/QUOTE]Can A Woman's Love Be Bought?[/QUOTE]
Nope, but it can be rented.

I agree. That could be why I'm so over-weening as a father.

 

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Can A Woman's Love Be Bought?[/QUOTE]
Nope, but it can be rented.



I agree. That could be why I'm so over-weening as a father.[/QUOTE]

I agree on that. why are there so many fatherless homes is another thread all together

 

Can A Woman's Love Be Bought?
Nope, but it can be rented.[/QUOTE]

I agree. That could be why I'm so over-weening as a father.[/QUOTE]

Tell me about it. My parents divorced before I was 2, so I take parenting VERY seriously. That's the only reason I wanted to stay with my ex - to be a daily presence for my son.[/QUOTE]

Sorry Ches, but you know it's true. There are many women (and men share the blame in the powerlessness of women in earlier society and, to a lesser extent, the current one) who have learned to manipulate men for money and many men who view women as sex objects and are quite happy to play along as they objectify the women in their lives.

 

I agree on that. why are there so many fatherless homes is another thread all together[/QUOTE]
Tell me about it. My parents divorced before I was 2, so I take parenting VERY seriously. That's the only reason I wanted to stay with my ex - to be a daily presence for my son.



Sorry Ches, but you know it's true. There are many women (and men share the blame in the powerlessness of women in earlier society and, to a lesser extent, the current one) who have learned to manipulate men for money and many men who view women as sex objects and are quite happy to play along as they objectify the women in their lives.[/QUOTE]

oh boy its about to get live up in here. again the fatherless thing will be a great thread

 

I don't mean that in a demeaning way toward women, but more a matter-of-fact observation on the self-serving nature of gender and sexual relations these days. As for the parenting thing, I stand by those remarks.

 

hey bro...it is what it is. I understand