Black men prefer easy women????

Hello to all,

I am a Italian woman, recently I went to another country with my brother and his wife. He was about to take part in a nautical competition , so I thought it would be nice to meet another country and as a casual thing we went to an hip-hop local club. My intention was to have a good time dancing and nothing more. My sister-in-law and I were dressed in conventional clothes (I had a brown jacket and a grey skirt a little over my knees and black shoes).

All the four men I danced with didn't wait more than 15 minutes before put their hands in my ass or kissing me in the neck or try to seduce me in any way they could. After some hours I started a good conversation with a nice beautiful guy, he was nice with a beautiful smile but again, when we were dancing around he proposed me to go with him. I declined and said him I was not going to go to bed with somebody first night, even the second or thirth or fourth night.

He seemed to lost all interest but stayed with us, he was very funny and I liked him a lot. Suddenly a big-breasts long hair Blondie girl about 30 crossed us. After some minutes while he was looking at her he quit us and went over her. I can even seen him going out with her after half an hour or so.

I went four nights and the 2 other times I crossed him he seems not to see me. I know I am not ugly (If I can say I am quite attractive) so what's the problem? I remember a friend of mine said me that I you don't have sex with some men the first night they don't go through. Are this correct with many black men???

Thanks in advance for your answers

 

Hello Firzana, welcome to WWBM.com,

I'm not a clubber myself, but I believe some men, go to clubs to find someone to take home for the night or something like that. Looks like you met one of those guys, and he just happened to be black. Trust me, there are more of his type, men black and white, who go to the club not just to dance or socialize, but to get some "action".

One bad apple doesn't spoil the lot!

PS:
Just curious, what's your interest on this site? Are you into black guys or what?

 

I got the message

Yes, I know there are a lot of men who are interested only as long as they can have sex in a short delay -usually married guys or so- but the myth about black men is that they are interested in easy women and after having a look on the forum I find that there are a lot of messages kind: "I have been with 2 russian girls and 3 english" so on...

In response to your other question: no, I am not into black men, but I guess like many other women I feel myself the "attraction factor" perhaps as a consequence of the "curiosity factor".

 

Re: I got the message

You fail to realise the same behaviour is prevalent amongst white women also:

"Why I like Black Men" by abbie

Or

"Serious Dick question for the fellas" by Iffywiffey

"Do you prefer Interracial porn? If so what variety?" by Iffywiffey

by lainarain

I could continue on, generally speaking, BM are nothing more but mere entertainment to most WW also. Also I get countess propositions to into a cuckold relationship, it seems WM and their wives have abnormal views of sexuality. Can you say the majority of the white race are abnormal?

 

Re: I got the message

Did I really say that??? I hope 7, you know enough of me by now to know my intentions are anti-racist.

 

Well

I have some girlfriends who thinks that way, it means black men= sexual entertainment, size does matter etc etc etc. On he white men and wives, having been married for 11 years I had a normal, quite normal, sexual life with my husband and same counts for my brother and his wife.

But I must say I have known some wives, classy conventional married girlfriends of me who fantasize about having sex with other men, it could be black or not. I guess the problem with these couples is not to share their fantasies but try to realize them. I tend to localize these behaviors in the northern countries like Sweden and Netherlands -too "modern" for me- or in the USA and Canada -because of the sexual repression- but I could be wrong.

I'll never be into these things for instance so I can be considered "normal". :wink:

 

Re: I got the message

The facts are: there are Black men who are generally interested in WW, the opposite is only true if sexual overtones are involved for WW. In today's world of Global liberalism - the media in repugnance, pushes this ideal. Pushing ideals of the majority; as if BM live without standards - regarding women, the quality of the women and the quality of life. No self-restraint over our Mind, Body, and Soul. These ideals do not even come close to the majority. That is why any women who believes in the filth the media spew is pathetic.

Then when you challenge these women with their half truths, they become ashamed, defensive, and illogical. Why you ask? It challenges them to THINK and use their logical sense deep into the issue, deep into their psyche as they do not want to admit to their fallacies. Women especially, do not want men who challenges them to THINK. Why? Another one of media's push of social programming - the majority of women ACTUALLY believe men are stupid; ESPECIALLY Black Men. But I am still waiting for women to formulate philosophical truths that are not half baked theories.

 

There are men (and women0 of all races who just want an easy lay. It's not based on colour at all, but more personality and circumstances. The same woman can go from man eater to monogamy dependent on the right circumstances.

And in the clubbing scene, you're always going to get a few more of the man/woman eater types as the name of the game is fun.

 

Some points

Well perhaps I explained myself wrongly, so I wanted to say, in the clubbing scene, a lot of women (asian, white, black) are looking for sex with a black guy, in this particular local club the few let's say (and I don't like the expression) "black stallions" are hunted by lots of women it means if one of them are interested on you and you don't offer sex for the first night there are a lot of other women ready to fulfill his requirements, so he pass away and ignore you.

I assume many black men are comfortable with his image of "black stallion". The more the myth is perpetuated the more women go over black men, so no wonder black men are considered "sexual objects" by many white women :roll:

Negative aspect, there are many elegant, serious women interested in a particular black men who are afraid of this image.

Seven, I could admit you are right about some of your points. The medias portrait black men in a primitive male narrow-minded, only good in music and sports, sexual predators style. But again, there are at least some black guys who like this image.

 

We should probably try to move away from the term black stallion, I for one find it pretty offensive and I'm not black. There are black, white, green and pink men who enjoy living within a fantasy where they are heartless lotharios - not one that they find it easy to keep up indefinitely, one must say. Then there are others who aren't interested in involvement and limit their activities to sexual ones...but everyone has a heart and I would say that they are still playing a role because many women have fantasies of seduction and domineering men, so many will lap it up. This isn't really colour based but many women will see a black man as forbidden fruit, which can only help them in the great game of sex.

Obviously beyond those rather one dimensional individuals there are the men who make loving husbands, fathers, lovers and who would be very upset to be described as a black stallion. My partner is deeply, deeply sexually attractive to me...but more so now that I know him for himself.

 

Firzana:I would like to attempt to address this issue for you.

first, you went to a club--which for most people is where they go to pick up sexual partners--that is why most people(white, black and others) dress very sexual or provocatively! also, when alcohol and sexuality mix, there tends to be problems.

"Some" Black men try to live the stereotype of the black sexual man and sports guy, but that doesnt mean we all do!

It is quite interesting that you didnt look at my posts on here trying to explain that there are black men(like me) who respect women, who understand that a relationship is not based on Sex but on communication, interests, respect, and love.
I dont go to clubs but if I did I would be there to meet a nice woman to talk to, perhaps dance with and perhaps ask to go on a date for dinner, coffee, cinema or a walk in the park.

NOT ALL of us are like you describe--and by the way, Italian men are seen around the world as trying to be sexual with all women, so why do you describe only black men and dont look at your own country men??

 

Exactly - I think I used to be more promiscuous than my partner before we met. He hates the idea of one night stands, and it would be a waste as he's very affectionate.

 

Yes

Tuckerreed I'm going to have a look on your posts :wink:

I agree with you more than perhaps you think. Note: I was in that particular club as a casual thing, music is good (no reggaeton) and a lot of funny people and good dancers. Besides I am not in Italy right now so I can do whatever I want without make me put myself with the finger.

Yes, I guess many black men want to be seen as men and not as "sexual machines", the same counts for Italian men, many Italian men are players, not serious about women, liars and pretentious. There are some years a funny image of an Italian couple who goes around the world shows a girl in bed waiting for his man who was looking himself at the mirror.

And it's the reason why so many Italian women are looking around for other men not-Italian I guess.

 

It's funny how your thread started off with a stereotypical question, based on stereotypes portrayed by the mass media, which are reinforced by white privilege, and you, yourself, are only here to find answers to a stereotypical question, but have no interest in black men, then compare us to Italian men on top of all this... :roll:

and, 7 and tucker have already said it best. For some reason, it's always us who prefer women who are loose, when it's usually the loose ones who chase after us the most, only wanting one thing from us. :roll:

Chalk that one up as black men being savages again, if you like...

And, what do you expect from a night club anyway? Isn't one night stands what they are for? I never go to any of them, nor have I ever been to one. I don't see the point of it, except for sex, which isn't a good point at all.

 

I agree completely with you.

 

Firzana,

In what country did you meet this awful negro? How dare he make advances on you in a nightclub, no less! You know, no one ever goes to nightclubs looking for a fling. What was this guy thinking? The nerve, the nerve of this negro!

I can't speak for all black men, but in my case, I don't like it easy. Part of the fun in pursuing a good woman is the hunt itself. I would not trust a woman who gave it up too easily. I have had a one-night stand before, but in most cases the sex is better when the woman makes you work for it.

I don't think many black men nowadays are reaping the benefits of some stereotype. Most people don't believe that myth anyway. That's just as rare as the women who believe the Latin lover stereotype. If black men are using the black stud rumors to their advantage, then so are the Italian men using the Italian Stallion thing to get girls. Every race of person has some sort of sexual myth. In America, some white men allow themselves to be portrayed as being the best at oral sex. It goes across the board; it's not just the black bulls.

Now, on a lighter note, I have to admit that I like Italian women. They are just plain hot, in my opinion. I like their eyes, their accents, the way they move, their style, and the way they cook.

Firzana, a question I have for you is this: What do most Italian women think about black men (besides the stereotypes)? Inquiring minds would like to know.

Peace.
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"Your wife moaned like a whore when they ravished her...."

 

Oufff

You are making complicate the simple.

1) I am not subscribing any stereotypes, certainly the medias portrayed the black people (not only men) in a certain way, perhaps I assume black men are different from white men in any way (more muscular built, perhaps more self-confident...) and that can create a certain amount of attraction. Natural as long as you are not portraying a race or ethnic as "sexual objects" isn't it?

2) Many white women approach black men because of the myth (big black penis and all these stories). If there were no "black stallions" to go on with the myth, I think the amount of white women looking for black men (even the honest, tender, fairly careful black men) will fall down drastically.

In this particular, a local friend, a woman in their forties, very beautiful and elegant, married to a white guy, when I confess her I was in this particular club looked at me embarrassed "Oh, you must take care of yourself there" she said, obviously she was afraid of any interracial contact. I answered to her that I was not looking for sex or love, just music, dancing and having a good time. The conversation turned into the black men in particular and it was funny because she was afraid but at the same time she was too much interested about all this "night clubs" and "black-people" than she was supposed to do, it was really funny, not hard to imagine what kind of fantasies she can have.

3) There are many Italian women interested in black men, a couple of years ago I remember as a consequence of a poll, more than 30% of Italian women admit they find black men more attractive than white, but as in everywhere, there are many differences, the large industrial cities in the north (Milan, Tori no) are supposed to be more an "interracial paradise" than the southern ones (Reggio, Palermo) the only exception could be Naples.

 

ciao firzana: I dont doubt you are being honest and come here with the best intentions, but you must understand that stereotypes can be very dangerous and is part of the cause of racism, hate and genocide all over the world.

the black men that you met at the club there in Italy do not represent all black men in the world. I can list a number of black men who dont fit that stereotype 1) Colin Powell 2) Arthur Ashe 3) Will Smith 4) Alfonso Rubiero 5) James Earl Jones 6) Jason Blake

these are popular people who dont do things like that and there are millions upon millions of black men around the world who do not do these things.

there are millions of white men around the world who have raped, killed, sexually assaulted women--but you are not asking about their sexual behavior, WHY?

The European men went all over the earth, raping Asian women, Raping Latin American Indians, the American Indians, African Women and yet you are wondering about a few black men dancing sexually with willing women in a nightclub, what a shame!!!

black men are just that MEN, with black or brown skin. some of us have white skin and you cant tell whether we are african or african American at all, so then what happens to the stereotype then?

the men who did that to you are just individual men who are probably idiots, but they are INDIVIDUALS. Dont blame all of us, just as you would not want US to blame you for Slavery, or the HOLOCAUST or the POGROMS.

 

Along with what Mosiah and tucker recently stated, it seems like people like you, Firzana, have nothing to go on about black men, except for what YOUR OWN personal experiences are or were. Anytime someone has an isolated experience with a black man or black men, people WORLDWIDE insinuate that WE ARE ALL like this or that, no matter how positive or negative the experiences are or were, but if it were white guys, or Asian or Hispanic guys, then somehow, it's always a coincidence to people, and doesn't have anything to do with all of them.

I wonder why we black men can't be seen the same way individually. Maybe it's because we are black men???

Also, you continue to agree, then disagree over and over again, so I don't trust your judgment at all, especially with your intentions being here.

 

Lol please, like it only happens to black people.
The very 1st thread I replied to here was "The Germans are at it again" which means because of one recent event, all of Germany is seen as the same, as nazi's. I live here, and I know that white Germans are all connected as nazis when the majority of people clearly are not. I could probably name examples for every race where everybody is treated the same because of a small minority of the group, it's being human. The fact that you think it only happens to black people Genie is terrible imo.