Black man voice

Are you talking size, or as in "resembles a monster?" I haven't seen any with fangs and claws or anything, myself. Have I missed something?:smt083

 

Mine has fangs w/ gold fronts, claws, and spinners for balls.

 

Obviously, I wasn't attempting to be negative or derail the thread. However, I've always believed that you are either, part of the problem, or, you are part of the solution.

Regardless of the intent of the poster, IMO, we should recognize issues and address them. For me, this was much too similar to comments made by social scientists to justify their beliefs about the inferiority of people with African ancestry. If you allow for the credibility of characteristics that you may consider positive, then you give credence to the negative characteristics as well.

I also appreciate both you ladies, Tam and Pixie, for your support of an ideal that seems to be lacking in general conversation often on the forum, that it's very much about individual attraction, that happens to come in a racial package that we find appealing as well.

 

Hmm...the spinners could be quite handy. No batteries required ;-)

 

How on earth was my comment offensive? Of course voices are individual - to think any differently would be ridiculous. I'm merely appreciating a common physical characteristic. Is it any different than the threads talking about WW feet or hair? I don't believe it is.
I say what I do with respect and admiration - however sometimes it's difficult to communicate through text. I do regret if I accidentally stepped on your toes it was not my intent.

Peace Love Unity Respect

 

Thank you. I've been attracted to men of all races at one time or another - it's very much an individual thing. The wrappings, so to speak, that a man comes in are far less important than the man within.

 

Black men in some physical characteristics may be different from white men. Someone may be attracted to a characteristic that one has that the other does not. What's the big deal, really? Why does it have to automatically equate to a bad thing?

There is no 'problem' that needs solving here. Making a situation out of something so insignificant will do nothing but manufacture problems where they need not be.

I like red hair and pink nipples... the earth will not be knocked off it's axis.

 

Thank you for getting what I meant Jaisee!

 

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There's no way to suggest that the comment wasn't offensive as it's totally subjective. For me, as I indicated, it was offensive. Pointing out generalities doesn't support the premise in any way. In fact, each of those items that you mentioned are in part based on stereotypes. Scientific studies have supported the fact that from the time of birth, black people have denser bone densities. Some Black people have wider noses and others don't have wider noses, the same is true of White people also. The same with hair and penis sizes, so what's your point?

I NEVER criticized her attraction to the voices of Black men. I commented on her rationalization as to why the voices of Black people were different.

There is NOTHING inherent about this forum that prevents people from gathering here for many reasons that have nothing to do with appreciating individuality. You only have to look as far the comments of many who objectify the women here.

 

This forum is very equal opportunity in it's sexual objectification.

Heading into a meeting, will comment on the rest later.

 

Puff puff PASS?

 

My toes were not stepped on, I commented on something that I considered offensive. It's quite different than other threads that you have mentioned as people are relating their feeling of attraction, rather than using race to explain differences. That shouldn't be that difficult to see...

Jaisee my friend, I can only suggest that you obviously didn't read what I said before any of your comments, as you missed the point, twice.

 

Well, to get back on topic, I've had a deep voice since I was 14 y.o. You can only imagine the reception I got when I called a girl my age at that point.

I've always gotten comments on my voice as well. Mostly along the lines of, are you a singer, are you a jazz DJ, has anyone told you that you have a bla bla bla. I encountered to so often that I began trying to modify my voice by speaking in a higher register.

 

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You guys crack me up with these videos and gifs you post. freaking dolomite LOL!!!

 

It must be the Soul Train/Black TV Commercials/Quiet Storm Radio voice.

 

I don't think that she was malicious, not any more than I think that guys who post similar kinds of comments about women are malicious. As you know I have commented with equal "fervor" about those too. IMO, when you are in "mixed" company, meaning you don't know any of the people who may be reading your posts, IMO, It's best to defer on the side of less than more.

Thank you for the kind words.

 

I spoke to this man last weekend when I called about this phone stalker and he had the perfect radio voice. It was so pleasant and nice to listen to.

I think a guy with a nice voice is cool, but if I'm not attracted to him, it's not like hes going to get me moist. I've spoken to a guy who sounded like a pipsqueak, yet if you saw him, you wouldn't believe thats how he sounds.