Black guys like white girls because they're white

Well first I'd like to clarify that what I'm typing about pertains to the U.S. and nowhere else seeing as I don't know how black-white relationships are outside of the U.S. Now here goes...One of the largest and most frequently appearing stereotypes is that black guys like white girls just because they're white, which is of course WRONG. For me it's much more complex than that and based on my personal experiences. For example(# 1), when I'm around white women I feel like I can be myself and I don't have to try to be some hard core, pistol packing thug or something that I'm not. Most black girls have told me from their mouths that they like 'loud guys', and I'm just not obnoxious, it's not me. Of course I like to talk but not so that the whole world can hear what I'm discussing with my significant other.

#2 Most white women, not all, have goals and are not waiting for a sugar daddy to scoop them up in his Escalade on 24s.

#3 I never even liked white women at all until I start interacting with them more. I thought their asses were 'too flat', their dancing skills inadequate, and their mentalities 'too preppy'. In fact, I was kind of racist towards white women.

#4 Yes, I do like the way white women look, not because they're white but because there's more white women in shape than black women.

#5 A lot of black girls could care less if you're with a white girl unless they find you very attractive or you have money. So the bitterness basically boils down to personal gain.

I know this has probably been discussed numerous times but I never really posted on here much before so I figured I'd give my two cents.

 

yep, i dont care if they are white, I am interested in the interactions that we have. I just have more in common with them, they seem to be more adventurous and active and i am physically more attracted to them.

 

Preach on!

I can definitely attest to #3. I wouldn't have called the way I felt a racist attitude, though. I just didn't feel shit for them, to be honest, until I started interacting with them. It proves how far a little exposure can go. I learned a valuable lesson during that time. It's all in fate.

 

I am attracted to white women, but not all of them. So, I can't say that I 'like' white girls, especially because they are 'white', in fact, many black men don't necessarily 'like' them any more than black women, but for individual reasons (whether biased or not) they choose to be with them.

 

totally right Sardonic, some WW look like dead people standing. not all ww are all that gorgeous, just like not all black women are angry or have bad attitudes. Some southern black women are so very very nice--like my mother, grands and sisters and aunt, they are all darlings.

I hate when people talk about how can you date WW, when your mother is a BW, its like slapping her in her face.

I tell them, i love my mother and sisters, great respect for them and most BW---that doesnt mean I am sexually attracted to my mother or sisters or to all BW

 

Yup, number 3 was all me not so long ago. That's what stereotypes do though, cloud your mind to the point that you can only see what the stereotype internalizes. And I would call my attitude racist because though some of my best friends were white I looked down on white girls. Lots of racists say 'oh some of my best friends are black' or 'some of my best friends are white', but in the end racism is racism.

 

Every time I look at the title of this thread it seems a little...er...silly. "I like white girls because they're white"? Well, if you like white girls, it must be to an extent because they're white, because it's the only common factor between all the white girls you like! But then who just likes someone because they're black/white? I thought this whole website was against that attitude?

 

liking white women just because they're white.

I'll admit it freely. I love white women because they are white.

 

i love WW because of the delicious chicken salad on white

 

Re: liking white women just because they're white.

Peace. :twisted:
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"....strong and stout"

 

i like WW because they are HOT

 

I don't necessarily love white women...I'm an EO person...I've never tried to go out with anyone because of their race...but because of the way they've treated me.

Yes, my g/f is a WW...if she were Mexican, or Black, or any other race, and had the same personality that she has now, I'd still be with her. That's just the way I am. I love her to death not because she's white, but because she loves me to death, and she treats me just as well as I treat her...

 

Well what I'm saying is that I won't date a girl just because she's white. My uncle has dated white girls I think just because they were white. That could be the only reason seeing as the white women he's been with are neither beautiful, intelligent, or funny.

 

And there it is.

 

Overgeneralization

Despite the increased frequency of "interracial dating," I think it would be unrealistic to assume that an African American man would not like Tyra Banks or Halle Berry. I know they are also popular among white men.

 

I love white girls who act white. The more WASPY, the better! How can you not love this...

 

When I think WASP, I think Martha Stewart. 8)

 

I'm not familiar with the term "WASPY"? I'd say what I like about WW most is basically their recessive features. That's a major turn-on for me. Other than that, I love beautiful women of all races. The reason I'm at this site, is because many of my relationships were w/ non-black women. So I figured I'd check out this site since it catered to BM in IR relationships.

 

The recessive gene / dominate gene thing does have a lot to do with some IR attractions.
However Darwinism is not as sexy as posting pin up pictures!!

Go figure. 8)

 

I wouldn't act black, even if the guy liked that. Besides, I don't think most black guys want that from a white girl anyways. They all seem to love that I'm like this little beach girl.