Biracial men?

Strictly observation : Your profile/avatar says you've been a member since 2008 and you've already stated you've left this site on more than one occasion for what amounts to you don't like the overall vibe of the forum. This is further borne out by your broad assumptions about everyone here, so clearly you seem to think you know people here well enough otherwise you wouldn't be logging on to "spark conversation" & "share knowledge". But I digress. Carry on with the discussion that has so far had pretty much everyone responding with the same answer of "Why Does It Matter or Why Do You Care" to your original inquiry.

 

good looking out...do you have knowledge of wyoming?

 

I log out and I come back in hopes that a new batch of minds are present...or that the old batch have become interested in different material...but each time I come back, I am sadly disappointed...And I don't know anyone on these boards, and as you witnessed i don't pay much attention to names as of yet. But truly the only reason I am here is to provide and receive knowledge...The only reason...I like looking at hot women in yoga pants...bikini pics...etc...but that is not knowledge...a forum is created for discussion...Not once in this thread did I feel I was offensive, just merely mutual...Yet I feel like I am being attacked and all I did was ask a simple question. And it matters because a person thought about it and that is all that is needed to pose a question. And I care what people really think. Everything matters, from big to small.

 

Dude. Seriously? If you date interracially as you claim you do then why would you ask a naive & basically ignorant question like do white women consider biracial men "less black"? And how & why did you even think that of all topics to have deep & interesting conversation as you claim to want from people here, that would spark interesting conversation?

 

i m not getting it either.

 

Besides the fact that you will never see the same real estate ROI in Wyoming as you do in Florida? Dating also seems to be among your current priorities, do you really think the women in Wyoming will compare to the diverse group of residential women and tourists in Florida? Along with the other things you are currently juggling in your mind right now, can you honestly justify a move to Wyoming as a good decision?

 

And that's how he's telling on himself. If he dates interracially, especially white women who are attracted to black men for who we are as a person, then he'd already know that white women could careless about how "black" someone is regardless of shade of skin & racial makeup. I'm quite sure any man you find yourself attracted to is because of what kind of person he is as a whole, even if you may have certain preferences when it comes to physical appearance, correct? You're not hung up on how "black" he is.

 

He's making life extremely complicated.

 

you know i thought of replying several times but it is confusing. first of all... if i meet a black man (light or dark) it would never come to my mind to ask him how much in a percentage he s "black". besides that,that point reminded me strongly on the nuremberg racial laws, which left a bad taste in my mouth from A.
then i wondered if it was about the darkness of the skin and shaked my head again. coz if it was i cant agree on the blacker the better either. men from senegal and neighbouring contries have a very dark skin tone that i m not attracted to. (now talking bout looks, which will anyway not be the main reason for me to be with someone)
and then finally i will have to agree with you on the general note. after all this years dating black men, and having a preference for certain groups among them it can never be reduced down to something simple like "how black". mentality, personality, character, lifestyle, culture and common interest play a much bigger role.

 

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Seriously if you don't understand or willing to follow the question, then just leave it alone. You are starting to sound ignorant and naive by calling it ignorant and naive. I stand my question and it is in no way ignorant. If you don't understand it, just say that you don't understand or just leave it alone completely. I am completely comfortable talking about race, some people are not obviously. And me dating interracial has no play in my thinking.
Just because you date a certain person does not mean that you knowing all there is to know about them. Hell, I don't know everything about black people. well anyway, the more you call my post stupid or naive that exact reflection falls on you.

 

No, I am sorry about the misleading statements. There is no way in hell would I move to Wyoming. I will just fly out there and work for two weeks and come back. I am doing something like that in Missouri. Florida will always ,technically , be my home state. I figure I could visit yellowstone and mount rushmore and things while I am there. But thank you for the look out

 

If you don't understand, then it is cool. Just say you don't understand. I hate to do this just for pure making the point more easily understood. Say if you take a 100% German Shepard and breed that with a 100% poodle. The offspring is 50% german shepard and 50% poodle. So will you say that puppy 100% German shepard? I know race and race perceptions are much more complicated than that, but you get the general idea. All I asked was if it matter. I get all these attacking responses. I didn't even provide my opinion, I merely asked a question. Back in my younger years I would welcome the attacks because that is what I did online was to talk shyt and try to be funny. Now I brush them off because I don't have time for it.

 

Do you know the history of this forum? Do you honestly think if any woman even decides to indulge you by attempting to answer the question she will be totally honest about it on this forum? Do you.... ok leme just stop here

 

That's kind of like assuming we'd be head over heels for a guy only because he is black. Which would be stupid. Questioning if we'd be attracted to a guy if he's not only black, same kind of stupid. My man's mother was African American and Native American and his father was biracial (black/white). So my man is triracial? And I am attracted to him more than any color man on the planet. Ya'll just nitpicking.

 

Finally you admit the truth. You don't actually care about dating. The simple fact of the matter is you just want to talk about race period. You're only using the dating context in order to justify talking about race because this is first & foremost a relationship site. That's why no one here is understanding where it is you're coming from or trying to go with this topic.

 

Didn't mean to accuse you of obsessing about it in particular. I was trying to say that people obsess about the question in both directions in terms of racial classification. Let's face it, it's a race-obsessed society in large part, and there's little that can be done individually about it, so why bother either way? I try (to the extent possible) not to think about this stuff. There are some parts of the country where people are so retrograde that they look at me as if they wish they could singlehandedly restore the Confederacy. 100 checks? They're giving away money for posting about women in tight shorts? Where do I sign up?

 

Race is everything and it's nothing at the same time. To be biracial shouldn't be a big deal, after all, we are all biracial and more. It's not even that important until someone asks the question. Now all of sudden, we are faced with answering a complicated question with a few labels. You may identify with black and white as biracial right, but to actually explain your real race would take forever because your blood line runs deep and in many directions, especially when your biracial and more (triracial, quadracial).

 

Bro I think i understand what you're trying to say. Correct me if I'm wrong. As a biracial man myself I'm often the intro to black guys lol meaning that if a girl wants to try black they start off with someone like me first before jumping straight to it. So what you're asking is if a woman likes black men does being mixed count? Regardless of numbers and what not. If a man is obviously mixed will you have the same attraction off first glance as a man who is obviously all black. Now granted you're attracted to whoever so I understand that but knowing if a man is mixed will it decrease the attraction if you are attracted to only black men. Am I close lol?

 

The bigger question here is what do the black men think of biracial women

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