Because she's white or because she's her?

Rep on the way, Miss Bird.

 

Why thank you my dear!

 

Are you seriously calling ME a troll? Pfffft @ you.

Are you calling the other newbie a troll? Others also suspect this but are waiting on more before being certain....I may be new but my 2cents worth is he may not be....am also waiting on more.

 

This forum, like you mentioned; is a WWBM forum so, naturally there would be more specific mention to WW, no offense but your question doesn't make sense to me. I understand a little of were your coming from, as far as liking all women. I like all women also and, I could just as easily end up marrying a BW or AW rather than a WW.

If this were a neutral forum I might understand were you're coming from but, I think that's the type of criticism some people who visit here want to avoid. They can come here and, express how they feel without any judgment.

I find some WW very attractive and likable. It's cool to have a forum to discuss it and meet some that feel the same way about BM. I think what the poster you were quoting meant about WW & BM facing unique challenges is, the aforementioned pairing is less accepted or seems to be. You have actors like Robert De niro who dates mostly black women and, is praised yet, a black actor who dates a white women is criticized.

I haven't been posting o this forum long but, I'm sure all this has been discussed before.

 

Like you I'm new here too, but you make a great point. This is a place to explore things you never had before or express your interest in multi-cultural dating. Specifically, between WW/BM. However, to give the benefit of doubt as this conversation has been held before(and will continue to come up as new people join) there are those of us who are new and may have questions. This is one of the points of the forum, to gain an understanding of the finer points of being in a relationship with a WW or BM. :smt115 I would hope those of you who have been here for awhile will help those of us who are new by explaining instead of bashing. By not doing this makes us no better then those we hope to get away from. (And don't you dare call me a troll lover)!

 

this again.

 

yall know some fucked up shit is about to pop off when they start off saying " Let me first start out by saying this thread is in no way meant to target or judge any individual person...." .Its like a WM saying " I have A black friend (you know tha guy you sat next to in the lunch that one time at work during lunch)..." some racist shit is about to pop off.

the question I have is this thread is still alive because.....?

 

Damn brutha, you cold! LOL:smt005

 

I was raised completely far away from racism. I don´t care about color.. in fact ; i don´t even see it!

I love who looks attractive to me, who is a wonderful person and who has good intentions and a good heart, someone that makes me love, someone that I can have a lot of fun with.. my boyfriend started talking (when we first dated) about us being different and it really was the first time that I ever thought about us being African American and White European. He asked me if I get annoyed by the looks we get "I can see when people walk by and think, why isn´t she with a white guy" .. I told him he better never thinks of it again- I certainly never ever thought about it and never saw it either. He did teach me a lot about racism in the United States though and opened my eyes a little bit.. unfortunately not everyone is thinking like I (We) do.

 

This.

This forum is doing that for me.

 

Since the question has an OBVIOUS duh answer...