Basis of Attraction

I havent been in these parts of the forums in months.... Time to come back.

Okay lets see if anyone want to open up about the base of
their attraction. (Alot of people dont like to go there, because some
look at it as shallow, but if some or no onelol doesnt want to
answer then okay.)

Alright we got the fascination, but what was it that made you all, or
I should say the ones who are MOSTLY or ONLY attracted to bm/ww.

What was basis that made black men or white women your attraction?

Was it the infamous Sexual Attraction like your first time sexually with a bm/ww or any sexual experience
with a bm/ww?
(And when I say infamousI mean that as some
as Im sure anyone has probably met people who loves the sexual atrraction between the two races, because sex is important to people in relationships, so Im not talking about the other kind of people who think
bm and ww or only good for sex, Im speaking on a sexual attraction basis, I think others are.)
If so elaborate... Is it the contrast so many speak about, the fact of interracial sex period turns you on, the naked body of the opposite :lol:
I have heard one dude on here say that before talking about the smooth creamy white skin, oh wait that was me :lol:
Anyway was it, or was it anything dont be afraid to elaborate if it is the sexual attraction.

Is it in the Looks? As in you are very physically attracted to them.
If so what about the looks that makes you attracted to bm/ww?
Is it a color, dont be afraid to say if it is the color, its your attraction.


Was it just something that has always been there, since you first
started finding the opposite sex attractive? The opposite race was just
the thing that hit you first? (kind of like me.)

Is it in the swagger?I guess I mean more so did you fall in love
with the culture of the person, like some fall in love with spanish cultured
women and men and the accents, and swag!!

Was it all of the above if so answer all, if only a couple or one apply then
just answer one. If all fell into play in an order than you could tell
that order.

Hope ya'll like the cute emoticon I put up at the top of the page, yeah
that means lets keep it friendly and cute... and loving, like the emoticon.:lol:

 

I think for most men their initial attraction to a woman is primarily sexual.

Beyond that for myself, it's moreso about compatibility (values, norms etc). The physical attraction is definately there as well.

 

I think its a combination of every thing. Sexual attraction, sort of knew it form the early days, and ww swagger.

 

Me and you both.

 

How I love the beauty of women. The older I get, the more I appreciate every detail associated with that beauty. For me, there seem to be many more WW who are unafraid to be feminine and pleasing to men. I simply find that WW more frequently and consistently possess the attractive qualities that I enjoy in all women. The grace, style and softness of pretty WW is intoxicating to me. Culturally, it seems that WW have no issue or problem with doing the simple things that turn us on. I find it completely erotic the way even the lovely WW on this forum present and talk of their manicures and pedicures and their willingess to dress in sexy appealing ways, just to please us.

 

Soo charming...

 

Thank you, Christine.

 

The BASIS? Wow, very good question indeed. I haven't worked it out myself. Having been into WW from an early age, I'd dig into my childhood and say:

Definite contributory factors:

- TV, a lot of attractive white women on the box, growing up. As opposed to the actual white women I saw in person, spending the first decade of my life in a poor area, very few women had the energy, the money or in the saddest cases, the will to look their best;

- Media, a lot attractive white models in posters/newspapers;

Possible factors:

- Genetic predisposition, in the same why that some whites prefer orientals or vice-versa;

- Being treated sweetly and generously by my Mum's white neighbourhood friend; her teenage daughter was an absolute honey, and this didn't hurt!!


Definitely not factors

- "Forbidden fruit" - there are occasions, only if I'm in a heavily white, or heavily non-white area where a white woman gives me that kind of 'don't touch!' thrill, but this is very rare indeed.

I'm sure that's not an exhaustive list, but that's all I can think of for now.

 

For me it is the skin, & good physiques, I have always been attracted to men who were darker than I. Also the full lips & liquid dark eyes. The skin on black guys has an almost translucent quality, (I don't quite know how to put it in words,) like a fine stained/polished beautiful mahogany or other type of wood, with a slight satin sheen when light hits the skin. So I guess it is an erotic attraction, it may sound shallow but I am being honest.

There is also culture & "swagger" as it is described here, as well that plays a role in my attraction.