Attraction

Well ever since my teens, I noticed some white women who were flirty with me. They would have all the tell tale signs of flirting, flicking of the hair, smiling, eye contact, the whole nine yards. I have no preference in race, I mean I'll date any chick that is into me. But these girls were cute! But at that time I was in a three year relationship with my ex. Me and my ex broke up in January, so I will talk to the next chick that's flirty with me. Other races of girls have come on to me, but it seems white girls do it more. (I'm not a bad looking guy right?) The point is have anyone else have more flirty encounters with white women than any other race?

 

Yep, pretty much. If I think about it I've probably missed out on a lotta action because I wasn't paying as much attention as I would nowadays.

 

I'm new here and probably going to get in trouble for this but... I think a lot of white girls believe they are the epitome of beauty and womanhood and that EVERY black man would want to be with them. I think they flirt and are more overt with it because they don't think rejection is a possibility. I really don't like that condescending attitude some white girls have. I would NEVER assume a black man wanted to be with me because I'm white or treat him like he should feel lucky to be with me. I spent 2 and a half years with my one true love and every day I felt so fortunate that I was with him.

 

I never make the first move. I may look at a man when I like his physique but he gotta make the 1st move.
Yes fear of rejection does play in there.White women are not all the same...

 

I know some of the women on here say they are hit on more by black men than white men.

I honestly get hit on more by white and hispanic men than black men. Maybe like 10 to 1 white men over black men. I just figure it reflects the demographics. I tend to attract the same "type" of man regardless of race. Well at least those are the ones that will be overt enough that I know they are interested.

 

Well, there are not so many black guys here but those who live here and do not walk around with their women and kids are very flirtative.
Was that the question?

 

I like black guys, though I don't discriminate when it comes to dating when I'm single. If I'm feelin' a guy and he starts flirting I'll flirt back, regardless of race, but I'm with beauty, I tend to wait for them to come to me instead.

And here in Houston, the ones that "come to me" are generally black, sometimes hispanic, and rarely other races with a smattering of white. A very small amount. I had a cute black guy actively flirting with me and trying to get my number even after I told him I had a boyfriend just the other day! White guys generally ignore me, but that's cool, cause I prefer chocolate to vanilla any day!

 

I know this is so off-topic but I just saw the cutest black men ever at the tube today, he was wearing a pilots uniform and he smiled at me. aaaaahhhhhhhhh.... :mrgreen:

 

I have flirted, and been flirted by women of different races. But the point I was making was white girls do it more. I've had some gorgeous looking black women flirt with me, and I could only deny them because I already was in a relationship. But when I'm out somewhere walking down the street with my hands in my pockets, I get looks from white girls. Now I'm single, so that means its happy hunting for SonnyShao.




Even the most enlightened souls often ponder about how exquisite it is to be regarded as a thing of beauty.

 

I can relate to your analysis for it occurs to me many of times. I’ve even gone through the trouble to count the amount of times it happens on a daily basis for 6 months just to confirm it wasn’t just a fluke.

Those who are in the position to have all types of people giving them the eye will find them selves having more options to choose from. And if your facial expression looks friendly, you’ll be surprised on who is smitten with you.

Just keep in mind good looks hold no boundaries and, the only limiting factor is yourself.

Cheers!

 

What you stated is based on all Women in general. Only the inexperience will date a person polar opposite from them selves based on the tone of their skin.

A Man with experience who’ve dated Women from all across the globe will not be satisfied if that's all you can bring to the table.

Cheers!