Attraction to white people?

I got somewhat of an interesting question when did you (blkguys) realize that you were first ATTRACTED to the features of white women? Iam not talking about going into reasons why you want to spend the rest of your life with a white woman but when did you realize that you were even attracted to them? Cause I know militant black ppl both male/female that still find some white people attractive? I have always heard that attraction isn't a choice and that we just naturally find people attractive that were around. Well was it the environment you were in or just television and media influenced?

 

Hmmm.. this topic looks familiar... I think I've answered this already...
Well, I knew I liked white girls in 4th grade. I grew up in a predominantly white (85-90% white) private school. Being into white girls is nothing new for me.

 

Well its weird because my first kiss was with a white girl at her 3rd grade birthday party. So I guess that sort of foreshadowed where my life was headed. I had no idea at the time that I wasn't going to be into black girls. In fact there was a black girl in my class I liked at the time. A year later I changed schools and went from an all white school to spending the next 4 years at an all black school. I liked all black girls at that point and then went to an all boy military school for 2 years. Then I went to high school, a school that was very mixed. About one third white, one third black, and one third spanish. I hung with mostly the white kids, except for when I was with my guys from the football team, who were mostly black. Although I was the only black guy on the football team who dated white girls. They asked me how to get a white girl and all I said was, be yourself and if they like you, they like you.

I first started finding them really attractive at 15, my freshman year. I had a major crush on this hot cheerleader who was waay out of my league and after she rejected me, I started hanging out with her cute friend, and me and her dated for a year. Then I made these 2 cute friends Erin and Stephanie who were fucking hot as hell white girls. They were best friends who never left the other's side and were my closest friends during high school. Around this time, I decided white girls were my favorite....

I think it really set in that I was truly different from other black kids and might never look at a black girl in "that way" again was when I went to my senior prom in high school. I wanted to go with this hot blonde named Katherine but she already had a date. Growing up I had this fantasy of the perfect prom where you go with the girl you love and have a great time, have sex with her at the end of the night, and everything is great. I felt if I couldn't go with the girl I want, I wouldn't go at all. Dances were never a big deal to me anyway.

But my controlling older brother and his girlfriend told me i MUST go to my high school senior prom or I will regret it for some reason and be seen as a loser. So i told them you have one week to find me a date. They searched high and low for what they "thought" was my type (this was years before they discovered my infatuation for white girls, mainly because I hadn't even determined I had one yet). They set me up on a blind date with a very attractive black girl and I was soo bored. I didn't say more than three words to her the whole night. I didn't know why. They showed me a few other pictures of some other black girls but I said I wasn't interested.

Then finally my mom got in contact with a black girl I knew from the 5th grade and hadn't seen in years. She had a boyfriend and already had went to her prom at her high school but was available the night of my prom. She agreed to go with me if I wanted to go with her. I said ok what the heck. Strangely, without even knowing what she was wearing or her knowing what I was wearing, her gold dress perfectly matched my black and gold tuxedo. Anyways, we had an ok time but i was bored as heck. She didn't wanna dance to anything and spent most of the night going back and forth to the bathroom. I danced more with other girls than I did with her. All I could do was stare at all the wild and drunk white girls I knew from school gettin' down all over the place and dancin' up a storm. This was when I think I started to figure out that after 4 years of high school and being around so many fine white girls.....I'M HOOKED!

Now that I look back on it, going to the high school I went to really spoiled me. Before that school I had no real interaction with white girls. It was like a kid who never had candy before all of a sudden being locked in a candy store for 4 years. I went nuts. I endulged in them for 4 years and lived the fantasy I had been dreaming of and then I graduated and it was like that kid finally getting kicked out of the candy store. I was spoiled and couldn't go back to broccoli. I only wanted candy from now on. White girls went from being a "fantasy I was lucky to have" to being "something i demanded, needed, and expected everyday". I literally couldn't go back to black girls. They just didn't compare to the literal "high" i felt from just being AROUND white girls. I couldn't understand or explain it. I don't apologize for it and i never will!!!!

 

Funny that you decided to ask these questions...

my experiences are different from the 2 guys who already posted, since I am from an Urban upbringing, that was at least 99% black, went to ONLY predominately black schools, but I did attend community college with almost as many white students as black students, and worked around both blacks and whites in the workforce most of my life, HOWEVER, something in me changed as I got older...



when I was growing up, as a pre-teen, the only fantasies I ever had about women were black women, like Pam Grier, Tisha Campbell, and that TV wife of Bill Cosby's (I don't remember her name) but when I became a teenager, and started going to high school, I started fantasizing about white women, (Barbara Eden as Jeannie, Amy Jo Johnson, the hot local news anchors in my town, etc.) and then my fantasies of white women became much more frequent than the ones I usually had about attractive black women, so much until they almost overrided them, and the most provocative ones I kept having were about white women ONLY, and that's how I've been ever since. No traumatic or Utopian experiences made me this way. Only evolution. That's the best way for me to sum it all up.

 

I grew up in a white neighborhood and so all of the girls I were exposed to were white. Then when I went to jr. high I was around all black people and it wasn't cool to be with white girls so I lost the attraction and I was interested in black girls exclusively. And highschool was basically the same. I think I felt that way because of the stereotypes that most black guys have. My best friends would always say 'man white girls have no ass', 'white girls pussy smells' and so I was just absorbed in the stereotype. Then after I matured I became less racist and I stopped caring about what my fellows think of white girls.

 

When the show first began...her name was Phylicia Ayers Allen...she got married to former football player turned sportscaster Ahmad Rashad...so Phylicia Rashad...they got a divorce I think a few years back.

Now she was FINE!!!! If I end up with a BW...I want my wife to be just like that...smart and sexxxxy!

Have you seen Rudy lately...omg...she is hotter than 10 gallons of Habanero peppers! 8)

 

Well.....

Well, it was at this job I had this past fall. It was my first time really working and spending a lot of time around white women. And it's funny, but it's like something clicked.

Exposure I guess. It was my first time really 'checking out' white women. I liked what I saw.

 

I grew up in a diverse environment. I was a military kid that had to move around alot. I'm attracted to all women no matter the race. But white women have been the main females to come up to me and strike up a conversation. The majority of women I've dated,become friends with,etc have been white women and latin women/spanish women for some reason. Those are the women who usually approach and flirt with me. So I would say I always been attracted to white,latin,black,etc women.

 

Did any of you guys see any interracial relationships growing up?

 

No.

 

Well having being raised in Upper West Side Manhattan and lived in 5 countries and getting to see lots of beautiful women, its kinda safe to say that my attraction hasnt been just for white women but i've liked white women since i was could actually spell a word. The schools i attended in the USA were mostly consisting of whites and hispanics. When i lived in West Los Angeles and attended schools there, pretty much the same thing. I didnt attend middle school in the USA since i was travelling around the globe due to the demands of my father's job.

Anyway to cut the long story short, my attraction towards white girls and vice versa is kinda old news. Although a few of my black friends werent approving of it, at least the schools i attended in the US didnt get stuck in my head the silly stereotypes about white girls except with the black girls which is another story entirely.

Growing up, i saw just as many black women as white women on TV. I lusted overm Toni Braxton just as much as i lusted Julia Roberts, Amy Jo Johnson, Gloria Estefan and some really drop dead blonde bombshell who used to be a news anchor in the local New York City news. I used to fantasize about white women and these attractions towards WW were more than merely trifling which my parents started to notice. At like 9-10, white and latin women had become my prerogative which changed slightly when i lived in Nigeria(1989-1998). When i returned back to live in the USA in the summer of '98, i found myself mostly attracted to white and latin women. In fact, there was a time i was going head-over-heels for latina women which was when i lived in Caracas, Venezuela(June 1995- July 1996). I was around the 12-13 at this time when i was in my developmental years. I used to love white women but latin women were just too much for me to handle. My school in Caracas were swarming with tons of latin beauty goddesses which was wonderful. 8)

So in general, i have been attracted to WW since i was little. :wink:

 

Rarely.

 

It seems, as if, we may have the same taste in white women, and I forgot about Gloria. She's also a great singer.

 

Only a handful.

 

Yes,I grew up in the military. Alot of people from small towns and military bases hooked up. You will see plenty of bm/ww relationships.