are they flirting?

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were they flirting with me?

how do u flirt and how u know someone is flirting

 

Unspoken body language. People aren't even aware of when they're doing it, or observing it.


When a woman starts preening her hair, licking her lips and gives you focused eye contact for several seconds when you speak, she's sending powerful SIGNALS.

Every man IMO should research unspoken signs of sexual arousal, to really know when a female is feeling him.:smt025

 

u are spot on...the most challenging is distinguishing friendly versus flirting

 

I can be really clueless when it comes to a man flirting. I just assume he's being nice, friendly.

 

Even when he's licking his lips and rubbing his nipples?

 

Nipple rubbing is a sign of flirting?? Dammit so that's why men mistake my kindness for flirting. Duly noted.

 

If ur confused as to whether or not nipple rubbing is flirting.......ur rubbing the wrong pair. *wink wink nudge nudge*

 

I play with my hair all the time when I speak, constantly curling the ends, twirling it (l don't flip it though, please), but it's not because I'm flirting, it's just a habit and I would hate to think somebody would mistake that for flirting, even if I was looking in their eyes while they're talking to me.

I can relate. I'm often taken by surprise when they make clearer their intention.

 

Most men aren't going to waste time flirting if they're interested though. Between the two genders men are definitely more straightforward. I can't recall a time when I ever consciously flirted with anyone...I just came out and said it.

 

Said what, though?

 

I said hello, asked her what her name was, just talked to her basically. if I had to leave or be somewhere else I'd probably ask for her number or if we had some time to kill, probably buy a drink.

 

I am much the same. I usually interpret a man's convo as just convo. I am not your typical female though; I am fairly easy going, friendly, smart ass, sports talking, just in general cool ad laid back so I don't typically translate our convo as interested. Quite often, I am a bit surprised by their expressed interest (if made known).

It usually goes like that, but then you have some that are over the top with the flirting and grand gestures.

And Since, not all men are straight-forward. I've only encountered a few. But I appreciate the ones who are...

 

I always look people in the eye when talking....it doesn't indicate flirting

well but see here we go.....they can come talk to me about things, ask for my number, etc. and I still don't really get that they are interested. I've heard from quite a few men later on how they were interested but I didn't give them any attention. I had no clue.

For me, it really takes them being very direct.

 

im the same way. especially in the grocery store...i dont bullshit

 

It seems like the less attention I pay, the more the guy is interested. Like its a game. I am generally not concerned with you if you aren't direct about your intentions. I will put you in the friend zone w a quickness.

Not that it matters now. I'm happily unavailable.

 

Oh, I didn't mean to imply that all men are straightforward but gender roles pretty much mean that we are the straightforward ones. I've been approached by women who made it known that they were interested but four out of five times it will be the man making the first move. And depending on where you are, like at a bar or a club for example, then you can assume that any man approaching you is going to be interested.

Asking for your phone number is about as direct as you can get 1) in a public setting 2) with someone you just met and 3) without seeming like a crazy person :freehug:

 

It's usually more like they hand me their card or ask for mine.

I think it comes from being married for a lot of years. I mean for many years I really didn't think about any other men being interested. Even though I've been single for several years now, I still tend to think they are just trying to be nice or something. I know....I'm lame.

 

lol

 

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Hey GL - if you want to bump threads and get more going on them....I think you are going to have to add something to the topic. Just doing "bump" doesn't inspire more conversation.