Are most white men superficial?

I don't see how liking curvy women is any less superficial.

Yeah, cause brothers are always talking to each other about a woman's intelligence and inner beauty.

GTFOH :smt081

 

:smt042 Yeah, that's true.

 

I think I met (and know) A WHOLE LOT, so I consider myself an expert 8)

 

Well I'm curvy. I have always been since I was 14 or so.
I remember a few years ago when I was walking down the street and couldn't overhear two guys talking about me.
One said: did you see her? The other one said something about me being a little "too much", and the first one said: Are you crazy? She's perfect!
I really didn't know how to feel at that moment, but I decided to blend out the negative comment.
We all have our preferences.
If a guy is looking for a toothpick.....ok, that's just not me.
There are enough other men who appreciate some curves like mine

 

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I've had plenty of white friends, and we kinda agreed on what was attractive. Including women with curves, and big asses. Though we didnt find morbidly obese women attractive. I've yet to see a man of any ethnicity that complained about a women's breasts or ass being to large.

Though I do find the white men with yellow fever to be perplexing. These Asian women honestly have the bodies of 14-15 year olds. I honestly find most Asians unnatractive. Also those that are attractive are pretty much looking for a white man.


Are there black men so thirsty for a white women that they will take a whale? Absolutely. The White men I see with obese women generally either aren't to good looking themselves or are obese themselves. Generally the black men with obese white women are definetly average looking but thirsty.

 

Never met a man who doesn't like curves in the right places! A little jiggle up top, and a little in the back is a GOOD thing Id probably pay for curves if I didn't have them naturally...straight up and down just isn't as sexy IMO!

 

You haven't hung out with many white men, have you??

 

Lmao...never dated a white man in my life. My love for bm is a lifelong passion!

I've been hit on by white men though...so in my experience, I have never met a man who didn't like some curves. Maybe my definition of curves differs from yours? I'm strictly talking some nice round boobs, and a little junk in the trunk lol. I've never had any complaints

 

It depends on age range, this generation is so used to more voluptuous body styles being seen as attractive. So younger people will gravitate towards a woman built like that. I know older white and asian guys who are not attracted to someone with the body shape of a video vixen.

Different strokes for different blokes, I've met some asian women who will say to anyone's face "BBC only", but I've also met some that will only date white guys or will never be seen with a black guy for the life of them.

Yeah, I agree 100% there are BM who will get with just about any white woman on the premise that she is white. But that's their opinion, if they want an overweight ww then let them have it. I'll admit it, I sometimes get a little upset when I see a non-obese BM with an obese or pudgy WW, but at the end of the day that's what they like. I do me and they can do themselves.

 

We still live in country where obese people get away with calling themselves curvy. Kim K is a curvy girl and men of all races find her hot same with Christina Hendricks. You have women with pre weight loss Jennifer Hudson and Monique bodies swearing theyre curvy when they arent

 

I know plenty of white guys that have love for chubby women, women with ass, curvaceous or whatever.

I love how we wildly generalise/stereotype about white guys in here.....yet wait..
In the next breath we are bemoaning the fact that it happens to black guys.

Do you have any Brothers Chesbay? a Father? do they sit there demanding skinnny white women all day long?

I get chatted up by the Butcher (don't be shocked, he's white)

I had the electrician deliberately leave his torch behind at my house when he came to update the sockets, he asked me to go for a drink. (He was white too) I am a chubby girl, no actually since I had the baby I'm actually Fat!

Maybe in the UK it's different, maybe I just don't care much about what kind of women white men I don't even know date.

I see plenty of black guys with old women, it's true, I see that more often than I see a black guy with a fat bird and when I say old, I mean compared to their date.
Ie when me and my partner last went clubbing I see a guy maybe in his early 20s with a woman who was easily in her late 50s and she looked it.
But do I take it as a given that black guys only like old women, nope...
Because I'm only seeing a small portion of anything.

 

I agree 100% that people try to pass obesity off as "curvy" nowadays. However, that's not me (and I hope thats not what you're implying?).

When I think curvy...I think tits and ass. I'm a healthy weight for my height, I run every day, watch what I eat...but I still have curves. My only point in my original response was that I've never seen curves as a negative thing, nor have I ever been made to feel badly by men (white, black or mexican) because I have big tits and some ass. Again...I'm not talking about obesity, I'm talking about a woman's natural thickness in certain areas...and I was speaking only to my experiences, not to men as a whole.

 

Slow down Chula I was agreeing with you lol

 

Hahaha I haven't been called a chola since hs, and even then it was more like chola-by-association lol...thanks for taking me back my friend!

 

I grew up in an almost entirely white world. Married a white man, have a white son, a white brother-in-law, white nephews. My ex liked me the best when I was almost 5'5" and weighed 120 lbs. Someone very close to me is that height and weight now. No boobs, no booty. The proverbial straight up and down stick. And she is vigilant about weighing herself every day. Can't gain a pound. She wasn't like that until her husband cheated on her after she had each of her children. (And she has never been overweight). The girls that got the dates in high school were much the same - nothing over a size 8, and a 2-4 was even better. I see the girls my son and his friends choose. Size 0-4. I know women who have battled eating disorders, believing that the only way they will be attractive to the men they date (WM) is to be thin.

My experience (and I'm not alone) has been that most white men prefer thin women. I marvel when I see younger white guys nowadays with women that don't fit the stick or Barbie figure. I appreciate that they're more open-minded. Or a WM who actually prefers a curvy, thick or full-figured woman, not just gets stuck with one who used to be thin.

 

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Wm like skinny minnies with tits and bm like tits, hips and jiggling booties

Shocking!

 

This is truly fascinating.

 

I agree 100%. Lol @ "White men have a problem with tits, and ass." That seems to be a common excuse people make for dating bottom of the barrel women. As well as how repulsive fat girls rationalize why average-Above average looking white guys with options do not want them. White men are laughing at these men occupying repulsive women.
Believe me I have laughed along with them.


As a result of thirsty ass niggas black people are seen as the go to men for fat women. Essentially we are doing the jobs that Americans don't want to do. I am personally sick of dealing with fat girls that think they have a shot with me. One even explicitly told me "I thought guys like you like us big." 5/10 times my game with a chick is ruined because of false rumors, and general bitchiness of her fat friend I had no interest in or outright rejected.

I say it often the world would be a wonderful place without fat people. Honestly everyone would be happier, and living better lives. "BBW" feel free to flame on. No your not thick, and your not curvy like you claim. Stop giving curvy a bad name.