Are most white men superficial?

Is it me or does it seem that most white men are superficial when it comes to what an attractive woman is? Every white guy i've ever met has always indicated that their perfect woman is a size zero with fake breasts and a flat bottom with little to no physical imperfections. I personally think curves are very sexy. Intelligence and inner beauty are never a factor when they speak on the important aspects of a persons character. What society calls overweight or out of shape is the true definition of a sexy woman! Black men tend to appreciate the natural beauty of a woman in most cases. What do you think?

 

Not most, but many, especially when they're younger. That should give some insight as to why many WW have issues with the way they look, struggle with eating disorders and often have low self-esteem. It seems that what WM define as perfection is the standard. I believe that BM find all shapes attractive, more so than WM. Jmo.

 

How many people know most white men raise your hand lol

 

Lol

My brother often says things such as above but more in a pisstaking kind of way and to annoy his fiancee.
He also says every woman he meets wants him and that the only reason I have friends is so they can get closer to him :smt045

He also continually reminds his fiancee how lucky she is to have him and it's only the fact that she's obedient that stops him from trading her in.

Guys say alot of stuff but do they live it!

 

I know them all lol

 

lol then you're the only one allowed to speak

 

White men have standards.

 

And other men have.....

 

Apparently none. That's why white men are upheld as the gold standard for everything & all the rest of us should be trying to be like them........

 

ooooooooooo ok

And that my friend is what we call BULLSHIT

 

It all comes back to cultural norms fed and ingrained through media images of what a beautiful woman is to them.

I have seen some white dudes call some women fat who I didn't see as fat, i.e. obese. I would scratch my head like W.T.F.

Of course when we speak on these topics its important to realize we are speaking in an overwhelmingly general cultural sense, because I have seen many white dudes with plus size white women.

If you look at black cultures throughout the globe, the notion of a skinny woman is not directly fed to us as appealing unlike white guys who are bombarded with those images in ads. Whether it is Africa, the Caribbean, Brazil, U.S.A. black men are often not as targeted or preoccupied with that aspect of a woman.

If the woman is fit, if she has some meat, if she has a big ass,

 

I donmt think being superficial is just regulated or dominate among white men.

hell everyone is to some point

 

being superficial in someone elses eye maybe having standards in another

 

Case in point: I am considered thick by the BM I've met; I would likely be considered fat by WM.

I often wonder, how many of those WM are with plus-size women because they want to be (they prefer them that way) or she was thin when they met and she gained weight? That's not to say that there are no WM that prefer full-figured women or that all BM like them.

And that attitude, imo, is more common amongst BM than WM, imo. :smt038

Very true!

 

Men of all ethnics are superficial, especially the young. I know black men who only see a woman as attractive if she has a firm/ big ass. I'm more of a hips, breasts, and legs man personally (I have that KFC mindset).

I will say this much; White and asian men seem to have more unrealistic standards when it comes to women. Ironically, Hispanic and black women seem to have more unrealistic standards when it comes to men. Hmmm, interesting how that works.

 

Every human being has an opinion of whom they find attractive in their eyes. But, some folks are just happy to be with someone. On the surface(the couple we see out in public), they are, indeed, happy together. We don't know what this couple has in their relationship. And it is not our business to know what goes on in their relationship, unless they reveal it somehow.

 

LOL, very good point about that Chess.

Occasionally you see on Dr. Phil, during a relationship segment, some dude verbally abusing his wife because she gained weight in the marriage.

 

Fair point, in some ways some may say a black man is superficial for wanting a big ass on a woman. Thankfully for most black men, black women often have said ass.

LOL @ the breasts and legs = (KFC mindset)

 

Probably feels like she did a bait-and-switch on him.

 

lol