American women suck at Flirting?

Oy. Just don't venture too far northwest of Philly. You will be in horse-and-buggy land. Watch out for them road apples!

 

Lol I find it hilarious that all you older folks constantly tell me I should take advise about things I don't know about and when I seek it I get the ol go out there and find out for yourself routine lol. Which is it?

 

Call me weird, but I kind of find flirting annoying. It feels immature to me. As an adult, I feel like just saying "Hi, you're gorgeous and have a great smile." And if we strike up a conversation, great. My ex loved flirting and had a need for constant attention that seemed sexy at first, but ended up feeling very needy and irritating. Small wonder that she split as soon as she found some guy on FB that didn't mind spending all night IM-ing her and stroking her ego.

 

Lol! You totally missed the point in my first post, so I just let it go and gave you a little tip in the event you wander out of Philly.

 

come to the uk guys we can flirt! lol

 

I think our women flirt lovely, but I'm sure uk women flirt fine also

 

I flirt awesomely because I can be walking away, you say something, and my waist is so flexible that I can turn almost my whole upper body around and smile at you and not miss a beat... LOL...:smt020

 

You don't need to be American to suck at flirting. hehe I'm the living proof.
I just don't like flirting,pick up lines and all that stuff. It may take me a while to gain the courage for it at times but I am rather direct and just say what I think when I am confident and sure enough that at least the person would not run away from me screaming after what I said. lol

 

lol true it is more on the person not where from
also am like this too flirting not someting for me

 

Me too, I'm just straight and direct. Young women don't like it but mature women sure do appreciate it.

 

i dont think u can say young women dont like, I love it when a man is straight and direct, if u like me say something, or if ur too shy atleast ask me out to dinner, i hate having to be the one all the time to go and ask the guy out. with my last two bfs i was the one who went up to them and asked for their number.... itd be nice for them to be more aggressive

 

I'm with you guys. I don't like it. A while back someone posted a personality test here which I took for fun and after the results one of the things that they used to describe my personality type was no patience for something as silly as flirting. To me it seems fake and not sincere. I appreciate a much more direct approach.

 

Same here.To me it is a form of game,hunt and chase and IMO 2 mature people should be able to just cut the games and be direct in how they feel & what they want.

 

It depends on who you flirt with and how. I have a person in my life right now that is the biggest flirt...and I can say with assurance that I have met my match. it's fun to do the steps around each other and see if it goes anywhere.

He's fun to flirt with...but he's really, really, good at it. It's like the prequal to the foreplay that will happen soon (god..i hope).

 

I'm not American and I suck at flirting!

 

Why are you quoting me?

 

I think I forgot to explain that I don't like to flirt under most circumstances...but in SOME cases (like this one)..it's ok.

I'm not stalking you..Promises

 

See I dislike flirting because some women know they sexy so they use it as a tool in the form of entertainment so I hate not being able to tell who is being sincere and genuine.

For example, I started yet another new job not long ago and I've become a bit of a star at the place already. Along with my hard work ethic and being socialable to a small extent, some of the ladies took a liking to me immediately.

Well their is this super attractive woman who walks around with clothes so damn form fitting that it could double as lingerie, she has major curves. I could be almost 50 yards away and this woman still yell "HEY JOHHHN!!!!" big ass grin:smt080 with a big ole :smt006 and carry a conversation from that far out.

Her overtly friendliness bothers me because she works in a power position which is full with white dudes.... Being that she's a looker, I know they'll be that one bitter ass white dude who will mistake her light bantful conversations as something going on between us and start a rumour. Other than that, I feel like she's fishing for attention.

Alot of times I confuse friendliness with flirtiness. There's another woman who is second in charge of this place loves saying my full name "John Roberts" all the time. She told me it sounds powerful lol...Does she not realize that is a turn on and she will get fucked given the opportunity? lol

I'mma try my best to stay out of trouble here.

 

Its because they're spoiled and think they belong on a pedestal.

 

There's a kernel of truth in there. I recently started doing online dating again and I really can't stand all the women who complain about men not writing enough in a first message. I'm like damn how much do you want me to say? Intriguing conversations are a back and forth not a plea for you to give me a chance. But its like you said they want to be on a pedestal and want us to entertain them right from the first sentence.