American Black Men: USA or Foreign White Women

I didn't want to post links since I was too tired last night, but I guess if I have to blow the lid off of something that I'm well aware of, and not surprised some the Le Dicks in this forums here are quick to defend, I need to shed some light on my thoughts on the matter, and rightfully so.

That and a few months ago, I stumbled on one idiot who was harassing this Korean woman for uploading videos about her life and her (black) husband being together and he's constantly berating her, suggesting that she'll be a single mom in a few years and she need to "come to her senses". This is not the last time I'll see this, since other people who openly express similar comments from the MGTOW community.

The following narrative...

"Boo-hoo woe is me. Women are too independent minded to be making me feel less manly."

"I married you thinking you'll be like those traditional women who cook and clean and give me blowjobs at a minute's notice."

"Women are shit. They are too independent, so they reject me for being good looking?!"

"Damn women and their feminisms. We can't take this shit."

 

Valentine's Day is a difficult time for me, as well. But, I try not to think of it as a holiday. I treat it as a regular day and move on. While some are fortunate enough to find someone, others are not fortunate. They are lonely, depressed, desperate and bitter. Valentine's Day isn't what it used to be. It is a time for the florists, the confectionist(candy makers), the jewellers, the greeting cards makers, the lingerie designers, the perfume makers, all the way to the merchants who sell these items. Everyone gets paid. The desire for cash is often satisfied for these entities. For the consumer, there are no guarantees. It's not like it was when you're a kid in school and sometimes you don't get as many Valentine's cards at the end of the school day.

 

No where near the same thing. There's no public support or go fund me accounts for rapists. I did say that I don't want it being used on the forum and he knows that. No one has used it in years. He used it to make punctuate a point. Tell me what reason would he have to use my name when everyone universally calls me TDK? Shit goodlove is no fan of mine and caught that shit. It wasn't cool.

 

Their approach is wrong but the message isn't. Why insist on diamonds when it comes at someone else's suffering?
Especially something you don't need.
A lot of women do act like children on this made up holiday, there are a lot who believe if the day isn't made special for them they are some how missing out and get pissed.
Not the best execution but a lot of truth

 

There are no gofundme accounts for admitted racists, even if that's what they are.
Racism is rarely called racism in public.
Nor does anyone ever say outright that it's sexually okay to prey upon women.

Rape culture and racist culture are beliefs and behaviors that are supported implicitly in general society by our political, legal and social institutions.

These subconscious attitudes and behaviors affect the way people think and act, even if they aren't aware of them.

It's the perfect analogy.

 

I truly can't believe what I just read. If it wasn't so ridiculous and disgusting, I might find it funny. It really is unbelieveable how people can take a situation and completely twist it into being something else. I am single right now, but when I was in a relationship, Valentine's Day wasn't only all about me. It was a day where my man and I made it different than other days. Just a special day for the BOTH of us. I gave just as much thought into doing something special as he did. You don't HAVE TO buy gifts, but if you choose to, gifts can be bought for both people. Going out for a lovely evening together and celebrating your love is a gift in itself. I look very forward to being in that kind of relationship again. I will do everything in my power to make my man know how special he is to me. That doesn't mean couples should ONLY show their love on that one day, but holidays are meant for just that reason. A birthday, anniversary, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Chanukah, etc. are days set aside from others just to give us reason to celebrate. Married people work very hard these days, come home and perhaps have children to care for, house work to do, bills to pay, etc., so why not have one day to say, "Fuck it. Tonight is for us".
If a man thinks I'm being a total selfish bitch because I would like to celebrate Valentine's Day, I don't want him, which is probably why men with that thought process are alone.
I won't even discuss the absurdity that I would rather have children die than give up my Valentine's gift. Something very sick about anyone who would even suggest such a thing!!

 

I disagree with you here MS, I think the videos below speak to why many men rebel against accusations of rape culture, and "teaching men not to rape"


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From what I have gathered, it's more to do with the inability to exercise any sense of empathy towards these matters, let alone take the time and think about why such a thing is actually being pushed. I have no desire to engage in such an activity, but a privileged mindset would be dismissive of their own behavioral attitudes. What I see is the unwillingness to communicate and discuss. However, they are more than eager to speak their minds on the "faults" rather than approach and listen.

 

I didn't know his name and I've been a member for more than 6 months. Regardless, he stated he had an issue with it when the male with the label "Morning Star" brought it up on this section of the site; he should apologize.

Why can't you explain to me what a statistical model is since you brought the term up?

If you are so sick and tired of me saying how can anyone know what ALL of MGTOW think if you don't know them...stop reading my posts.

Simple.

 

Ok give me an example if rape culture

 

Interesting.

You know I love you to death but I subscribe to the thought process of not adhering to some made up shit that is designed to drain my wallet. Not all men who don't subscribe to such Valentine Day rubbish are alone.

I'll discuss it!

The reality is that people are subjugated and die to obtain diamonds so that someone can place them on their finger and marvel at the pretty colored lights it refracts. Watch the movie "Blood Diamond" to get an idea of what some people have to endure so that people can wear diamonds.

 

I think you're only seeing things through your personal perspective. And Valentine’s Day is usually all about the woman which is why you rarely if ever see men make.a big deal about it.

 

Exactly. Aside from the insane cost for a decent ring (6k to 15k cccc) people die for this shit. But it goes to show how callous and thoughtless people can be as long as they get something to feed their ego.

 

You are on point, brother!

People tend to care about "others" when they don't have to make a change that is uncomfortable to their ego.

I once got into an argument with a woman (I know, who could ever imagine Brian J could have an American woman?) because she wanted a "rock" and expected me to pay money for it. I told her we can go to any park and I'll find her one free of charge.

I guess it's only important if the rock costs a certain amount of money. Also, where is it written that a mans love for a woman is decided upon how much debt he can accrue to purchase an item whose cost is artificially inflated?

Shallow, empty and devoid humans trying to fill up the void in their souls with "things".

 

Whoever wrote that needs to get laid.......damn!

Why so serious?

 

Pretty much. The fact people see metal and rock as a symbol of love and not the life you build together is the inherit problem. But hey what do I know I'm bitter lol

 

We certainly agree that mutual respectful communication, and empathy, especially on important issues like rape, is very important for the betterment of society. For me, I have a son who in years to come will be heading off to college, and he will NOT need to have anyone else "teach him not to rape", my wife and I have already instilled in him our morals and values and a basic respect for other people. I do find it insulting when I hear that term "teach men not to rape" as it implies all men are just rapist in waiting, just biding their time until the opportunity presents itself unless taught otherwise.

Case in point, look at the 9nth paragraph down in the link below, the woman actually gets offended that a tinder date turned her down after she insultingly warned (assumed) him to not get "creepy" on their first date. IMO he was more than justified to cancel the date.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/thecut/hooking-up-when-youre-an-anti-rape-activist_b_8399740.html

 

I love how she called him a fuck boy for the very thing she advocates for. He told her was uncomfortable made it clear that he didn't want to see her and of course she insults him. How dare he not want to spend time with someone who is preemptively accusing him of a crime.
I think most women can't appreciate how this stuff effects decent guys who never even entertained the thought of hurting a woman let alone doing it. Like you said it's insulting not to mention makes me feel unsafe. With someone that hyper vigilant you don't how the most innocent of gestures might perceived.
Too bad synthetics won't be here for a long time.

 

LOL