American Black Men: USA or Foreign White Women

Giving me play? Eh...I do alright.

NOTE: When a man is concerned with how much "play" another man gets...it makes me question if he's a "little light in the loafers".

PPS - I mean really, how much effort does it take to capitalize your sentences?

 

Oh yes, indeed I have

 

No doubt

 

Indeed

 

True. But I just want a simple life with as little complications as possible. Life is too short for all of that nonsense. Meet a nice WW she takes care of me, I take care of her - simple.

 

True, but not having the foolishness that so many American women have is a start, a foundation to see if we are compatible. If she has too much nonsense, it's not worth finding out if we are compatible.

 

lol

aww damn

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ill cosign that.

 

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Good! I'm glad you finally understand and agree with my position.
BTW, I have met quality American women; that doesn't change the fact that my experience has been the overwhelming majority have been horrible.

Surprise!

I have had success in relationships with American women. Have you seen RestlessRita? Beautiful and quite sexy and a good friend who is a compassionate and caring woman.

I see.

I agree.

It takes compatibility with it's foundation built upon respect. If you have respect and compatibility, why do you need to have "work"?

That's not a "fact", it's your opinion. I'm often taken aback when I hear speak of the work it takes to be in a relationship but so many people are single and the married ones are either divorcing or seriously considering it. Perhaps the "work" of relationships is not working.

No complaining, just answering a question about American WW or Foreign WW

Oh, and perhaps the majority of American women are bottom of the barrel with regard to their foreign counterparts?

Two men both offer you $1 million in legal cash; the domestic man says you have to perform hard labor on an oil derrick working 14 hour days, 7 days a week for 2 years and you will receive the money . The foreign man says just come and get the money, no work involved. Would you tell the foreign man no because "nothing worth having comes easy"?

 

Lol you write longer responses than anyone I've seen here before. Both your guys can keep their money, I have my own I've been self reliant my entire adult life, why stop now?!

 

I still feel like some of you are down on American WW because the ones you really want aren't the type you can ever hope to get.

If you aren't bringing the total package to a relationship, it's childish to think you're going to attract a woman whom you feel is, however you define it, superior.

 

It was a stupid, unrelated analogy he gave anyway.


I've never known a man or woman in a great relationship that required no effort all, particularly if he and she came into the relationship on equal footing economically and professionally.

 

This is what it boils down to, whether their egos will permit them to admit it or not. It's always easier to place the blame on others, instead of taking responsibility for your own shortcomings.

 

its about to get real up in here

 

I see

 

oh Raider there isn't an eye roll big enough.
Why does it if have to come down to shortcomings and not an honest observation? Is your world view so myopic that life can be only be viewed through your life experience? Yes you don't care about certain things but you fail to realize you are far from the common experience for most men.
As Goodlove loves to say everyone wants to be equal until it's time to pay the bills.
There's a deep sense of entitlement here that I haven't seen elsewhere. An expectation of chivalry where being a gentleman means taking care of a stranger you barely know just to enjoy someone's company with no expectation of them in return.
We've gotten to the point where saying hello is fricking street harassment and any compliment is somehow an assault.
I know the supermen of the forum ie Boba North and Beast never have any issues and get every woman they lay their eyes on with no friction but for mere mortals that's usually the case.
This isn't TDK upset because he can't find the right woman this is just me observing things differently than you. No need for the personal jabs

 

Why are you guys conflating effort with work? All the man said was he doesn't want a relationship that's another job, something to managed rather than enjoyed. Things you enjoy take effort, you have to get off your ass to go to watch a live basketball game, you have to leave your house to enjoy a nice meal. You may on occasion have to work through a fight, but the minute the relationship is working and not enjoyment why do it? I don't see any benefit to that.

 

Now this is real talk right here.

 

One other point occurred to me and it's that most of the men on this forum prefer white women and it's not just a physical thing. Many men on here experience white women to have sunnier disposition, more cultured approach to life, and quite frankly are more agreeable overall. Now if I said ww were easier to be with and made my life better I bet you outside of Goodlove no one would say a thing about it. Just saying

 

aaaww snap. shots fired.
ok lets be honest ...thats true